Mrs. Zhen was widowed when her son was ten years old, and in order not to let her son be wronged, she didn't look for it again, and pulled Mr. Zhen up alone. Mr. Zhen can be in terms of personality and temperament, but he is a little obedient to his mother, and when he goes out every day, he has to call her, and he has to report major events at any time. Ms. Jia thought to herself that Zhen's mother had been widowed for many years to take care of her son, so it was normal for Mr. Zhen to value her mother, and she also liked filial piety the most, so she got married.

After getting married, Mr. Zhen changed to a new house, and more than a year has passed, and there is no major conflict between the three, and Ms. Jia is quite satisfied with the current situation. Occasionally, there are some small frictions, which are basically related to the old lady, she likes to manage her son, and Mr. Zhen almost never refutes it, many things that Ms. Jia thinks are not reasonable, Mr. Zhen also does it, but as long as there is no big deal, Ms. Jia also turns a blind eye.

Soon Ms. Jia became pregnant, and the conflict began. Mrs. Zhen raised her only child alone, and naturally attached great importance to the third generation, she found a home remedies for her daughter-in-law to eat every day, but Ms. Jia refused, saying that home remedies of unknown origin could be taken by pregnant women casually. For this reason, Mrs. Zhen was not less angry, and later went to the largest hospital in Taiyuan together, and spent 500 yuan to hang up an expert number, which is said to be the most powerful obstetrics and gynecology expert in Shanxi, an old man in his sixties. After listening to the reason, he lectured Mrs. Zhen, saying that this home remedy has no scientific reason, and you must not eat it indiscriminately.

Perhaps because she felt that she had no face, Mrs. Zhen did not confiscate after that, but was more lenient with Ms. Jia. All the rules of pregnant women when they moved out of their hometown, from eating and drinking to moving, sitting and lying, and even refined to the point that no murals can be hung at home except for fat dolls, and must be a male baby with a cock exposed, which can increase the probability of giving birth to a boy; Ms. Jia endured it for ten months, thinking that it would be good to give birth, but she didn't expect that the child would be a disaster when she was born. When the old lady saw that it was a girl, she was very disappointed at first, but Ms. Jia was very happy, thinking that she would not care much about it anymore, and she would be happy and quiet, just ask her sister-in-law.

Unexpectedly, Mrs. Zhen saw the white, tender, beautiful and lovely baby girl, and she also liked it, so she had to take the child by herself, not letting Ms. Jia touch it, and she didn't agree to invite any confinement sister-in-law. Ms. Jia complained to her husband, saying that maternal and child care within a month is very important and must be scientific. Although Mr. Zhen understood, he couldn't twist his mother's thigh, so he had to say "She is my mother" and give the child to the old lady.

Mrs. Zhen's method of taking care of the child is a disaster in Ms. Jia's view, when the child will just turn over, it is summer, Mrs. Zhen is afraid that the child will be hot, so she shaves her head, and the result is a few days into "sunstroke"; when the child puts on open crotch pants early and takes it to the community for a walk, the child crawls around on the grass, very happy, and Mrs. Zhen is also happy. I didn't expect that there were insects crawling into the child's urethra, and I got urethritis, and I was treated with infusion in the hospital for half a month; I ran to the hospital if I had a slight runny nose and cough, and I was not happy if I didn't let the doctor hang the bottle, and I was not happy if I didn't have an infusion; I always bought Sprite for my child to drink, and said that I had tasted sweetness since I was a child, and I could live a sweet life when I grew up; after adding complementary food, I had to chew it in my mouth and then give it to my child; when I was out of the child, I always wandered and chatted with the old lady in my neighborhood, and I didn't stop for dozens of minutes, and once the child was dragged out dozens of meters away by a middle-aged woman and didn't find out.

Ms. Jia was very disgusted and told her husband several times that she wanted to hire a sister-in-law to feed the child scientifically, but Mr. Zhen strongly objected. He is well aware of the importance of scientific parenting, but in his words: "This is my mother, my mother is just this one, who will listen to her if she doesn't listen to her?" "So, every conversation didn't come to fruition. She became more and more disgusted with Mrs. Zhen, and even disgusted, but it was that thing that caused Ms. Jia to lower her mother-in-law's head.

That day, Mrs. Zhen was in a good mood, sat on the sofa, and said to Ms. Jia if she had considered having a second child, so that she could also realize her dream of holding her grandson. Ms. Jia was unhappy and said that there can be no more patriarchal thinking now. Mrs. Zhen was even more unhappy, saying that she was patriarchal, she just wanted to have both children and daughters, and for you, it was a big belly, if you were afraid of pain, you would have a caesarean section, and she was born before she felt it, how good.

Ms. Jia was so angry that she directly said that she had no idea of having a second child, but she didn't expect Mrs. Zhen to tell her that she was not asking for your opinion, let alone discussing, but had to do it. Ms. Jia was angry and said what if she didn't agree. When Mrs. Zhen saw that her daughter-in-law was becoming more and more disobedient, she said that she would find a woman who was willing to give birth to her son. Ms. Jia cried angrily and ran back to her parents' house with her daughter in her arms.

Mr. Zhen went to her mother's house to find her and told her to stop being willful and go back first. Ms. Jia's parents have long had an opinion about this son-in-law, and told him very seriously, it's not that your wife is willful, but that your mother is too willful. Mr. Zhen didn't speak, and Ms. Jia asked directly, do you think that your mother has done many things very inappropriately, especially when it comes to me having a second child. Mr. Zhen doesn't lie, that's right, his mother is like this, superstitious and old-fashioned, lacks common sense, and doesn't know how to respect others. In her eyes, children must obey their parents unconditionally.

Ms. Jia didn't expect her husband to have this kind of understanding, and said what do you think. Mr. Zhen said that no matter what, it was also his own mother, who gave birth to this world, this kindness is greater than the sky, especially so hard to pull himself into an adult, so no matter how unreasonable she is, no matter how excessive she is, she has to listen to it, it's as simple as that. Ms. Jia and her parents were half angry, the first time they met such a clear foolish person, the two sides quarreled again, and finally Mr. Zhen knelt down for his wife and begged her to have a second child. Ms. Jia strongly objected, saying that this kind of thing is not forced, Mr. Zhen did not force you, this is all for you to kneel, how can it be called force. Ms. Jia suddenly felt that this man was very strange, so she asked him to go back and think about it, and both sides calmed down.

In this way, after being separated for nearly two months, Mr. Zhen didn't even call, and Ms. Jia couldn't help but call back and ask him why he didn't care, even if he didn't want to be an adult, he didn't even want his daughter. Mr. Zhen said that his mother was sick and bedridden every day, and he had to take care of him, so he didn't care about anything else. Ms. Jia knew that the old lady was deliberately confronting her, and thought that this was not a solution, so she had to find an excuse to go back to see her mother-in-law and return home with her daughter. I found that the old lady was sick and bedridden, and was sitting in the living room chatting happily with the two neighbor old ladies, and when she saw Ms. Jia and her granddaughter coming back, she didn't have any expression, and she didn't even say hello.