suspicion

Xie Han is the same as always, but they will not be blamed in the past.

As the saying goes, the melon field does not accept shoes, and Li Xia does not complete the crown, which is to avoid the suspicion of "stealing". It is also known as the cloud, women do not look at the vegetable garden melon, and men do not shake the mochi basket, so as to avoid the suspicion of "impure motives". Re-education said, poor and noble, easy to be blinded, poor and rich neighbors, easy to be accused of theft, to protect the reputation and integrity, to avoid suspicion first.

What's more, the ancient adage says, men and women are not kissed, three years old have different beds, seven years old have different seats, and eight years old have different rooms. The great defense of lonely men and widows, and the great secret of ethical taboos, should be deliberately guarded against to avoid slander.

Speaking of which, Xie Han is also dead-eyed, even if he is negligent and is used to play and splash sewage, he deliberately avoids it from now on, and he can still keep no wind, no rain and no waves. But he didn't believe in this kind of "crooked truth" etiquette, and he didn't accept these "cheap heresies", so he slept in the guest shop more and more often, tied more and more frequently, watched TV more and more frequently, and everyone laughed and laughed with Xiao Lin.

That's not all, he always talks about Xiao Lin, saying how gentle and kind-hearted she is, how smart she is, hard-working, praising her for how diligent and thrifty, hard-working and hard-working, saying how she is loyal and unswerving, concentrating on her husband and children, and is an out-and-out good wife and mother, rare to see in a thousand years, rare to meet in ten thousand years.

Everyone squeezed him: the eighth thousand-year-old king, the 10,000-year-old turtle, longevity is the rarest, good people don't live long, disasters live for thousands of years, and it is rare to survive.

People have talked about Xiao Lin's title of "good wife and mother", which has repeatedly become a pretext for the public to attack him. The father-in-law easily does not say good things about his daughter-in-law, especially not to enter and leave the daughter-in-law's bedroom casually, the mother-in-law comes forward, and the words are conveyed by the mother-in-law, and the etiquette must not be violated, so as not to be involved in the suspicion of "picking up ashes". What's more, the bachelor uncle always helps his brother-in-law like this, asking for merit to show off, inviting merit to become famous, and singing praises for virtue.

To deal with this kind of ill-intentioned teasing, the best strategy is to pretend to be stupid, go in and out of the right ear, only be the wind in the ear, do not answer, do not speak, just giggle and laugh, or calm and calm, calmly divert the topic, and divert attention; the middle strategy is to defend and refute, relying on eloquence, sophistry, and sophistry, which proves to be extremely vicious slander, so that the other party has to admit that it is stupid jealousy; the next strategy is to turn against the other party and beat each other, directly rely on fists and feet, conquer by force in anger, knock to the ground, and then step on a kick, so that the other party will lose his soul, his face will be like ashes, and his head will be like pounding garlic, and then he will not dare to offend。

Unexpectedly, Xie Han abandoned his martial arts and did not regard it as blasphemy at all, but deliberately sang and harmonized with the other party with a hippie smile, went to the altar in a smooth manner, made up lies, and prayed for blessings and disasters with a flamboyant tongue, making something out of nothing, as if he was afraid that his face would not be blackened enough by others. Even if Xiao Lin has a good character, high quality, and is impeccable, even if his admiration can't help it, after being reminded and criticized by others, he should at least try to hide it, thinking about beautiful things, and the lover of his dreams, how can he publicize it? The tree is big, the slander is gathered, and the body can't help it. Guan Jian is that she is extraordinarily beautiful, Xie Han does not have a man's animal instincts, unless he has a physical problem. It's enough, the young grass on the edge of the nest, why don't you eat it if you like it? The rabbit doesn't eat it, it may not be left for the old cow to eat? There is no need for any other reason.

Xie Han sang Xiao Lin's praise song so endlessly, once again attracting the attack and contempt of others.

Everyone sneered: People eat meat, you drink soup, people drink wine, you lick the cup, I wish you a long life than the fossil monkey of Nanshan, the monkey monkey Sun is full of slopes, may you be as blessed as the old turtle in the East China Sea, turtles and turtles crawl everywhere.

Xie Han is lively and active, likes to play and joke with people, brag and ridicule, and talk about meat. He doesn't take other people's deliberate back-to-the-scenes jokes and face-to-face jokes. In his opinion, people's mouths are born to laugh, everyone sits around in a bunch, playing the past and talking about the present, talking about the east and west, you say I'm stupid, I also say you're stupid, you laugh at me today, I'll tease you tomorrow, picture a happy mouth, a lively and jubilant, moving hands and feet is fun, moving mouth and laughing is also fun, it's all games in broad daylight, what's so unseemly?

In fact, Xie Han didn't understand the ridicule behind the absurd words, but he knew that, first of all, the scandal was a rumor spread through the mouth, although it was not malicious, just curious, but people's mouths could not be stuffed, they could only go with the flow, they couldn't wrestle with the arch pig, they could fight with the pig, and I would also roll into the dung heap, not smelly and, this is exactly what the pig wants to achieve, and it is also the ending I like to see the most. Secondly, with the idea of doing nothing, you can neither believe that everyone is pure, nor can you prevent everyone from spreading rumors, just like a safe, an anti-theft lock, to prevent the gentleman from taking the sheep by the hand, and not to prevent the villain from doing evil. The coaxing of the rabble, the blind obedience of the brain, as long as one person speaks first, the next swarm of bees, although it has no effect, but everyone talks nonsense, and does not have to pay any cost, why is it not gregarious and does not have a party? Smoke is a harmonious grass, meet and chat and hand a cigarette, tea is a harmonious water, bask in the sun at the root of the wall and serve a cup of tea, wine is a harmonious soup, a toast is hot, regenerate the sparse people, no matter how angry the fire, the original pressing "heroes" of the "contemptible" spirit, can also be gradually eliminated. Laughing and talking, cheeky and pretending not to understand, playing and interrogating, pretending to be deaf and dumb, not strange and unresponsive, stimulating and not effective, after a long time, the topic is rotten, and no one brings it up again. It's not weird, it's not weird, it's weird, the clean ones are self-purifying, the bad guys stink themselves, you don't have to defend yourself, what are you doing with that idle mind? In addition, the body is not afraid of the shadow crooked, whatever you say, as long as I have a clear conscience, I don't bother to quarrel with gossip mothers-in-law, good men don't fight with women, and I can still have the upper hand with mouthy women?

It's a pity that Xie Han is very wrong, and the problem is that he feels that everything he does, motives and purposes have a clear conscience, and he is blindly confident. However, the personal scheming is deeply hidden, and outsiders naturally can't see it, but the deeds are made outside, full of tricks, the etiquette is sparse, unscrupulous, no measure, everyone knows, the difference between internal and external priorities, the order of respect and inferiority, the law of morality and morality, people abide by it, people's eyes are bright, they have seen it in their eyes, and they have violated it in their hearts. If it is hidden inside, but the signs are hidden outside, it is like probing one's own things, covering one's ears and stealing bells, there is no silver here, and there is no desire for the clouds, who will believe it? This suspicion cannot be avoided.