Chapter 040 Essay Learning from the sea is bitter and detached
Or some people are too superstitious about the dominance of huge resources over talent training. There are many ways to become a talent, and this is why there will be a colorful talent world. If we count the top 100 top-notch talents, how many of them are financially talented? It is easier for money and money to train high-level talents, but the path to the establishment of the top-notch talents is different.
I have accepted a point of view, which is that no matter how long a person studies, how much he learns, and how advanced he learns, it is impossible for him to get in touch with the edge of the sea of learning, and the gap between the fate of most talents and talents is to start from when he withdraws from the sea of learning and enters his own world.
If you leave as soon as possible, you can enter your own world as soon as possible, but you may not have enough academic ability, and it is difficult to walk.
It's too late to get out of Xuehai, maybe it's not time for me, I've missed the good day, I have the heart to work hard, but I can't do it, why does God no longer give me decades?
Some people have been learning the sea for a long time, the fun takes root, and they don't think about it and can't bear to leave it (just like sinking the boat in today's company), the more they will be addicted, the deeper they will become, and finally they will completely catch up with themselves, and they will also become a part of the sea of learning.
The best time for everyone to get out of the sea of learning is different, and it depends on whether they can see accurately and whether they can make up their minds! Those students who are ripe and follow the crowd do not feel much pain. Those who are only a little short but can't always pass the exam, or those who are admitted but can't afford to read, or those who have a natural end of fate with Xuehai, these students are not the most painful. The more students with excellent grades and good conditions, the more difficult it is to easily break away from Xuehai. The pain in it is no less than childbirth, which is the real strong man breaking his wrist and cutting off his flesh. If these pains do not fall on oneself and experience them personally, you will not really understand how painful it is and how much suffering there is.
I have a friend who still has a lingering pain, and he is in the best of the best. My father is the principal of the middle school, and I am sure that he does have enough self-learning ability, and half a month before the college entrance examination, I fully support him not to take the college entrance examination. As soon as he made up his mind, his father took the initiative to help him clear a qiΔ obstacle, and all his relatives and friends helped him persuade him that he only needed to choose a time point to step out of the school gate. He should be the kind of person who is particularly lucky and lucky, no matter how blind he is, most of them will be smooth sailing, and there will always be nobles to help him at the turn of fate. It seems effortless to achieve what you want to do. Before that choice, he had already learned from me, and it was not very difficult to make up his mind, and he never regretted it afterwards. But he was still in inexplicable pain and almost committed suicide. He said in his own mouth: "That kind of pain is still waking up in my bones, I have never closed my eyes, and I have been biting on my pain nerves." He was already in pain, and who dared to imagine how sad those who made difficult choices!
"Taking the initiative to leave school, maybe it is the first time in your life to make a heavy decision, you have to lose sleep once, this choice is too heavy, it is all the future, and you are only a seventeen or eighteen-year-old teenager, this is not the weight that a teenager can bear physically and mentally. Your pain is so deep, I understand who is relieved of the sinking boat, I just think that for this choice, the pain is certain, but it is not the most important and critical, I think the weight you cast when you make up your mind is the most important. That is to say, on what basis do you measure that your departure is 'now'? There must be a primary, decisive reason for not before or after. "That's what I asked him. I asked him to reply by text message, and writing a letter would make him more rational.
"When most of my knowledge comes from textbooks and teachers, when I win all the awards in my grade, no matter how high the praise is, it is common for me to receive high praise. The most important thing is that I can hear and know all the teachers' explanations, but my thoughts and articles are not even known to the school's biggest famous teachers more than once, I am already torturing myself and wasting time when I stay in Xuehai, can I still not understand 'is it time to go'? When it is time to go, there will be a can't help but drive in my heart, and I will naturally understand if I want to go. In my opinion, there are not very few people who know well, and it is difficult to make action, that you have to have the courage to grow hair, and you have to have the will to be willing to cut your body to endure the pain and cut love, there is no one in ten thousand such people. β
"That's right! You can say that this kind of Cheng dΓΉ can indeed be evacuated from Xuehai, Shen Zhou agreed! People can actually understand their own needs when they reach a young age, and they have the ability to take the broad road, but they must resolutely turn around and go alone to overcome obstacles. In a horse Pingchuan galloping Zhenghuan but want to dig into the crypt to explore the abyss, how many normal people dare? This is not only a warrior, but also a ruthless person, ruthless to himself. He quickly replied: "It's a pity that I don't have your literary style to show that ruthless method." β
"I can sue you some. Probably you won't agree. Who is going to say that it is a good thing to break away from it?" "A beautiful thing? a beautiful death is almost the same, and even a person of your ability can make a painful choice, can it be said to be a good thing?" I want him to listen to me first, I didn't use poetry, but just listed two sets of key words to record it:
Detachment - what a beautiful thing.
The feathers were falling, and the wings were stiffened.
Break the chrysalis and go away, turning into a butterfly dance.
The snake proclaims the joy of growth.
If you fall into mud, you will get precious seeds.
The leaves fall to the earth, and are not subject to the branches.
The fish scales are detached, and the dragon is turned into a dragon.
Circle friends read this, don't think indiscriminately, thinking that it is encouraging employees to jump ship, Shen Zhou said this, the word job hopping has not yet become popular, I cited six, and pointed to six kinds of ordinary spiritual objects in flowers, leaves, snakes, insects, birds, and fish, they fall off once, it is a big leap, and they are all happy events, right?
The fish wants to turn into a dragon, and the armor is not left.
The leaves want to be free, and there are no branches to lean on.
The flower will have seeds, and the flesh and bones will be fleshed out.
The snake grows and peels off a layer of skin.
The pupa of insects does not break, and the butterflies bind their wings.
The wild geese flutter their wings, what a pity for the feathers.
Beautiful things don't happen often, no matter how beautiful you think, you still have to pay to be realistic. None of these six major detachments are light and labor-saving. After hearing me say this, he said, "Am I too dull, or is it true that my mind is being blinded? I don't feel any magic in this, where are those unusual? Am I really an insulator of poetry?" I told my friend that if he could do what others could not and could not bear others, in the way I said by the ingenuity, with the mental journey of the reincarnation of the six lifetimes, to experience the pain of detachment from the six psychological detachments, the six flavors and six products, the six scriptures, the six desires and six elements, the six words and six listens, the six out of the six tao, the six roots and the six degrees. All of them should not be exhausted with the essence of literature, but should be immersed in it and experienced it for yourself.
My old friend is also a persistent master: "You can't just let go without saying anything, you've experienced it yourself, you have to tell me at least one of them, right? β
Shen Zhou said: Okay, it's late today, please pay attention to my next log, it's either tomorrow or the day after tomorrow, I won't ask you to wait too long......