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Xiao Lin is grateful to the Xie family from the bottom of her heart for treating her so well, and from the bits and pieces of housework in her daily life, she deliberately welcomes everyone, not only does her own three meals a day, laundry cleaning, cleaning, and does an excellent job, but also expresses her gratitude to the elderly.
Gong Magpie's eyes hurt trachoma, and it was not treated in time, resulting in inverted eye hairs, perennial tears in the wind, and eye circles have begun to fester, revealing pink flesh. Xiao Lin saw it in her eyes and remembered it in her heart, she bought eye drops for her mother-in-law for a long time, and told her to order three times a day. The trachoma of the palace magpie, although the eye drops alone can not be completely eradicated, but the condition is still improved, the cold potion is placed in the hot eye socket, at least refreshing for a moment, cool for a while, enjoy the relaxation, feel comfortable, and has the effect of moisturizing the skin and flesh, removing rash and itching, reconciling the heat, and pleasing the eyes, after all, the eye drops are beneficial and harmless.
No matter how small the thing is, no matter how light the gift is, it is also a favor.
Gong magpie washes dishes and shabu-shabu, washes clothes and vegetables, and has cold water and hot water for many years, especially in winter, and the hands are frozen and cracked severely, and the mouth is overflowing with blood and pus, which is painful, itchy and fishy. It was Xiao Lin who bought chilblain cream and applied it to her mother-in-law.
Thousands of miles to send feathers, light and affectionate, expressing a piece of filial piety.
Gong Magpie was overjoyed, and unabashedly praised Xiao Lin's well-behaved and filial piety in front of relatives and friends.
Xiao Lin did her filial piety a little, and as a result, not only did she have face for herself, but also earned face for her husband, and even her parents, relatives and friends also had face, not only her husband pampered her, her parents rewarded her, and even her relatives and friends also rewarded her. Needless to say, good words and good faces, not to mention good food, good drink, and good things, it is needless to say, just mentioning the bonus given to her in private, everyone gathers firewood and the flame is high, and the benefits are obvious, which is better than the labor income of ordinary women.
Frankly speaking, as a mother-in-law, although the magpie is a lot older, has four daughters-in-law and a group of grandchildren, but the level of housekeeping is still quite naïve. Her way of repaying is very simple, the rice and noodles produced in the fields are continuously supplied, the family-fed poultry meat and poultry chickens are continuously supplied, and even the fruits, drinks and nutrients brought by relatives and friends are also turned around and hidden from everyone and secretly sent to Xiao Lin behind their backs. If there is delicious food at home, or wine and meat to invite guests, she will call Xiao Lin's mother and son to share it.
According to the old missionary, accompanying guests is a special activity for men, and in families that pay attention to rules, women are not allowed to go to Zhuo to eat with guests. Gong Magpie stepped into the threshold of Xie's house, cooking was her obligation, and she ate alone on her stomach in the stove. As the saying goes, when the gang leader is killed, the gang leader is hungry, when there is a surplus of food, she eats the same, when she is young, she eats leftovers, and when she is not enough, she starves with her stomach. After her daughter-in-law became a mother-in-law for many years, after Tan Yinhe married into the door, the cooking was replaced by the second daughter-in-law, and she couldn't enjoy leisure, so she had to take care of a few grandchildren.
Now that the two daughters-in-law are separated, maybe it is because of the deep feelings, or the ability to work hard, or the cattle are easy to use, the cattle are tired to death, the buffalo is stubborn, and the buffalo is released, and the palace magpie still asks Tan Yinhe to cook and entertain guests. The second daughter-in-law was too busy in the kitchen, but her mother-in-law arranged for Xiao Lin to accompany the guests, toasted and ate meat, and was reluctant to let the little daughter-in-law help, or make a fire, or lay a table, or serve vegetables, or add rice.
Xiao Lin does not touch oil and salt with her hands, does not step on the ashes of fire with her feet, like a delicate lady from a large family, she opens her mouth when she eats, and she is served by Yahuan with peace of mind, the dishes and chopsticks are to be brought to her, the wine and food are to be served to her, and the tea is handed to her.
Regardless of whether she is pregnant or not, since she got married, Xiao Lin has always enjoyed the privilege of accompanying guests. The palace magpie never went to the table to accompany the guests, and still cowered in the kitchen, either sitting on a small bench by the stove and eating, making a fire while eating, or standing by the stove to eat, feeding his grandson while eating, like a little daughter-in-law in the old society.
Although Xie Qingquan and Xie Han were accompanied by him, Xie Wen, Xie Wu and Xie Ying were unable to participate in eating, drinking, and having fun. If you want to talk about separation, isn't Xiao Lin also divided?
Leave his son aside in this way and focus on Xiao Lin alone. In this way, the other daughters-in-law were despised and Xiao Lin was respected, and gossip surfaced. Everyone has a share of the public, everyone is equal, fairness is to sit on an equal footing, equally shared, the distribution is not implemented, whether the individual has a share, it depends on the same. Injustice is injustice, not only the parties have to be released, but also the bystanders must be unfair.
Xiao Lin's treatment is simply that of a young five-guarantee household, she really eats the country, it doesn't matter, but she eats the old people in the family!
Children expect their parents to be fair and equal, but the sky is also flat, the earth is also flat, only parents are never fair, often the more cowardly, the more incompetent, the more lazy, get the most material rewards and spiritual grace, not the survival of the fittest, but the bad money drives out the good money, just the opposite of the law of social survival. Competent, self-reliant, and hard-working, they can neither get spiritual respect nor material compensation, no condolences, no trust, no suspicion, no appeasement, no tenderness, but harshness, no reward, no reward, but heavy punishment.
The fines, fines, and property fines received from these capable children are then converted into the private money, property, and property of the incompetent children by the parents through rewards. The policy implemented was the distribution according to the needs of the communist high-level commune, and the supply was more when the demand was more, rather than the distribution according to work under the conditions of the market economy in the initial stage of socialism.
Parents use the subsidy lever of family welfare to let the capable people do more and get less, and the lazy people pay less and get more, so that the children of the prosperous family are inhibited, and the children of the loser are unique. Parents plan for their children, pursue goals and achieve equal property results, and ensure that each child's basic livelihood is guaranteed at a minimum level through economic means such as equalizing the rich and the poor and sharing welfare.
A small number of capable people create family wealth, accumulate private property and a rich life, most of the lazy people like to work hard, can not be self-sufficient, do not want to work hard to get rich, are not responsible for the family and family, take the initiative to choose to be poor, in order to reduce the cost of living, force their parents to take care of them, and enjoy a rich life through family welfare. Parents implement housekeeping in which the minority obeys the majority, allowing the lazy to share the fruits of the labor of the able.
Sharing the property, but the lazy person will only enjoy life and consume funds, but will not promote the operation of funds, generate income and get rich, accumulate private property, and after eating it up, he will reach out to his parents for benefits. Capable people and property are deprived, and funds and talents either flee from the wind or resist and resist. Parents want to distribute, lazy people want to share food, capable people want to defend their rights, family conflicts arise from this, the battle starts, children are discordant, and the family becomes a colosseum.
Sheltered by your parents, it hurts to the end, you are lazy and lazy, you are squeezed by your parents, you are tired of it, and you work hard all your life. Comparing the two sides, the children who sit and wait for their parents' relief seem to be nobler, more valuable, more comfortable and leisurely in life, and even regarded as a special ability.
Ma Huilan's heart was unbalanced, and she complained behind her back: Why don't I have a share? Why is she more than me? The big one is a cub, the small one is a child, parents must be open-minded, and the palms and backs of their hands are treated as meat, this is the right reason in ancient and modern times, a bowl of water is flat, and a rod is flat, it is a matter of course, everyone is the same, treat them equally, and only then can they be worthy of the conscience of heaven and earth!
Ma Huilan is not treated well, she lacks confidence, her courage is not fat, she has opinions, she does not dare to talk to the old man directly, and she is only limited to spreading dissatisfaction and nagging injustice to other concubines. In fact, I also hope that the old man will hear it and strive for the same treatment.
But this way shows her stupidity, she doesn't consider the special gifts and honors at all, although she has rewarded her merits, or even received no merits, but it is given by the elders, she is not convinced, unwilling, resentful, implicit, resentful of Xiao Linhou, criticized for being thin to herself, isn't it a disguised condemnation of the elders for being unfair, unjust, slandering the old man for being deaf and unwise, snobbish, and laughing at her mother-in-law for not being a good mother?
The real complicated reason, the old man can't say, because of the situation, and I'm embarrassed to say to her face that she is not sensible, not docile, not well-behaved, she can't know the unspeakable, she can only understand the internal information of the gods, and her secret mind, and can't be brought to the table for a showdown.
Gong Magpie said: Pink eye, oh, or not. As long as Ma Huilan's body is indeed weaker than Xiao Lin, as long as Ma Huilan does it, everyone is recognized as stronger than Xiao Lin in everything, I will let her replace her!
only a few words became suspicious, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a rift, and there was some discord.