family education

This peculiar, weird rural family, no matter who it is, as long as it walks into the Xie family, it will transform into a fighting ''. шщш.(vii) (ix) x.S.сом The update is so fast.

The Xie family is a big family with eight sons and daughters, although the father Xie Qingquan is the head of the household, but the master of the house is the mother palace magpie, who takes charge of the family power, gives rewards and punishments, and is in charge of everything, both soft and hard, which can be described as a veritable 'female' parent. The five sons are Xie Wen, Xie Wu, Xie Han, Xie Ying, Xie Xiong, and about 30 grandchildren in three generations, and the three 'daughters' are in order of size, Xie Jiadi, Xie Jiajiao, and about 20 relatives in three generations.

But whenever there is a conflict of interests, God stands in the way to kill God, Buddha kills Buddha with his feet, relatives are also regarded as "foreign enemies", the mother is in charge, the son 'daughter' charges, the 'daughter' supervises the war, the daughter-in-law waves the flag, unites to fight with the "outsiders", trembling, arrogant, domineering, whether it is to expel the widow and orphan niece 'daughter', occupy the house of the second uncle's family, or force the third uncle's house to buy the house of the third uncle's house, no one can discuss the merits with it, it is the best policy to be fair and reasonable, and to avoid it. As a result, the relatives cut their robes, ran away, and the uncles and nephews refused to 'make friends', and they did not get along with each other in old age.

When there is no foreign enemy, they fight in the nest, compete for fame and profit, dominate the house, rob openly, and steal, there is no national law, no family rules, ruthless and unrighteous only for profit. After the second son Xie Wu drowned, his relatives and relatives joined forces to grab grain and dowry, pigs and cattle and children, lock the house 'door' to occupy the land, Ling 'forced' orphans and widows', drove the second daughter-in-law out, swept the floor and went out of the 'door'.

The second daughter-in-law remarried to another county, leaving a granddaughter, Xie Bitao, who was assigned by her grandfather to her third son Xie Han to raise. Xie Han and his wife are responsible for Xie Bitao's life, but they can't take care of Xie Wu's family property, they can only learn from Lei Feng's 'spirit', do good deeds without leaving a name, and can't strive for the reward of "righteousness and bravery". Because the appointment and dismissal of personnel and financial allocation are in the hands of the magpie of the mother palace, she publicly stated, "The old lady will give whichever she wants, and the old lady will not give whichever she wants." Peeping at the leopard in the tube, you know when you listen to it, whether it should be or not, don't talk about what should be or not, what the housekeeper implements is just the "old lady's law", not humane, regardless of the situation, regardless of the national law,

Xie Bitao is an orphan, she lost her parents at a young age, suffered misfortune, was lonely, and her situation was special, the government took care of her to eat subsistence allowance, and the school took care of her to study in the 'spring' bud class, and she should also be taken care of by the 'milk' and uncles in the Xie family. In fact, it is just the opposite, "milk" and "milk" only take grandchildren, regardless of grandchildren, only love the same kind, disgusted with strangeness, indirectly caused the burning of the eldest grandson, and directly sanctioned the protest of the eldest son Xie Wen, resulting in parents, brothers and sisters and the eldest son's family, ten years of severance of contact, even if Xie Wu was buried, by Xie Wen's son to perform filial piety, filial piety, still like a stranger, can be called an enemy, brothers do not talk when they meet, they are noisy when they talk, and they fight when they are noisy.

People are the product of the environment, parents are the role models of their children', good family education promotes relatives to do good deeds, harmony and friendship, and bad family education instigates family members to 'yin' and secretly take the knife. The so-called family motto and missionary teaching is nothing more than the imitation of the parents' attitude and way of life by the children, the children's concept of marriage and family, and the standards of life and work, all of which are learned from their parents and relatives, and alcoholism, gambling, cheating, violence, etc., will be transmitted to the next generation. Abnormal parents naturally cannot give their children normal love, ignorant parents naturally cannot give their children and daughters a positive education, and parents who are greedy for money and profit cannot cultivate children and daughters who have clear rights and responsibilities, win-win cooperation, and peaceful coexistence. When the relationship between parents breaks down and the family quarrels, the children and daughters do not know how to respect each other as guests in the relationship between intimate husband and wife, and they do not know how to run a harmonious family.

Before Xie Han's marriage, Xie Ying secretly crossed Chen Cang when applying for the real estate certificate, and had already filled in Xie Han's house in his name. In his life experience, inheritance is a practical way to make money, not only the father inherited from the lower house to the upper house, and got the property of the two families, and after the death of the second uncle, the parents expelled the second aunt and cousin, the only reason is that the second uncle has no children, and the only way is for the nephew to inherit the uncle, let Xie Wu inherit the second uncle, and get the house and vegetable land of the second uncle's family.

But people are not as good as heaven, now, Xie Han has married a wife and had children, completely blocking the possibility of Xie Ying's inheritance, Gong Magpie, as an elder, should have presided over justice and insisted on returning things to their original owners, but she was illiterate, but she played the authority of the feudal parents, "The old lady instructed Xie Ying to fill in the house under his name, and she wanted your surname Yuan, and you can't win the lawsuit!"

Moreover, Xie Wu is dead and has no children, and Xie Wu's wife was swept out of the house by her in-laws. According to rural customs, Xie Wu has no children to inherit the family property, and it is feasible for nephews to inherit the rules of his uncle or uncle to repair the family tree. Xie Wu's 'daughter' son Xie Bitao was raised by Xie Han and his wife, and according to the fact of raising, if he inherited, Xie Han's son should be given priority. According to the fact that the filial piety ceremony, holding the spirit card, and sending the funeral, Xie Wen's son should also inherit it. However, the state stipulates that men and women are equal, and in accordance with the "Marriage Law", Xie Bitao has the legal right to inherit the family property of his parents, and Xie Wu's family property is limited to Xie Bitao.

Xie Han has a son, and Xie Han's house can't be returned to its original owner, let alone Xie Wu, who has no children?

Xie Han is still alive, Xie Han's house, Xie Han's wife can't be asked, not to mention the dead Xie Wu, Xie Wu's wife has been swept out of the 'door'?

Xie Han's son, his parents are complete, Xie Han's house has changed for its owner, not to mention the lonely Xie Bitao, how can the legal inheritance of orphans be maintained?

Under the encouragement and influence of the brilliant achievements of their parents, what kind of property competition will the Xie family's sons and daughters sing?

Greed always coexists with 'yin' schemes, and even if justice is served, it must be fortified to protect itself. In the family, bullying may be a kind of evil that hurts nature and reason, or it is a kind of 'insidious' and cunning scheme, but the feelings of yesterday that have been hurt today will never be repaired tomorrow. If you are not afraid of people's words, ignore your reputation, and would rather meet than recognize each other, you are not only worried about the safety of life and property.

Xiaocheng relies on wisdom, and Dacheng relies on morality. The bowl is broken, even if it can be glued and repaired, it can neither hold water nor heat, it is limited to decoration, it has no practical value, and the only use is to provide it for seeing, not only for oneself to see, but also for others to see, but also for everyone to see. If you divide for a long time, you must be together for a long time. A broken bowl is a broken bowl after all, even if it is glued for a while, the thermal expansion and cold shrinkage cracks, and the collision scrubbing is easy to fall apart, it is difficult to maintain the original state for a long time.

Relatives cut robes, condemn them for not being generous, uncles and nephews never 'make friends', investigate their intolerance, brothers are like old enemies, and ask them not to forgive, there is no love and hate for no reason, and there is no break off 'friendship' for no reason, behind the old and dead relatives who do not get along, there must have been major injuries.

No one wants to live in calculations and countercalculations full of deception and lies, and live a life of intrigue and deceit, thirty-six schemes, one scheme after another, you come and go, seventy-two changes, pretend to be ghosts, use financial resources and 'fine' resources to weave body armor, and build firewalls, both positive and negative are physically and mentally exhausted, counting and being counted are walking on thin ice, losing is empty of people and money, winning is also losing family affection, and both loses and loses. Therefore, the loss of wealth and disaster is secondly, the harm mainly stems from the distrust and insecurity of emotional loss, and because of the blood inheritance, after all, they are relatives, and they are the flesh and blood of a lifetime, although desperate but perfunctory, although resentful but helpless, 'desire' to cry without tears!