Small gambling pleasure, Xie Han played cards, vomited bitterness, got angry, won money again, was in a happy mood, and no longer looked for Yuan Qiuhua's stubble when he went home.

Every time Xie Han complained to Xiao Lin, Xiao Lin would report to Yuan Qiuhua in time, talk about the content of the conversation, talk about the reason for the noise, and remind the third sister-in-law what to pay attention to.

On the phone, she called "sister" and called "sister", and between the concubines, she was very polite. Being polite doesn't mean being honest with each other, but there's really not much respect in your heart. Yuan Qiuhua has been dealing with cold businessmen who are careful and careful to admit money and not talk about love for a long time, and most longs for the warmth of the family and the care of the family, especially hopes that the relatives and relatives will be warm and affectionate, away from deceit, intrigue, and friendliness, taboo scheming, cunning and deceitful. At the beginning, she didn't have the slightest precaution against Xiao Lin, but Xiao Lin's repeated sneak attacks forced her to be vigilant, set up a martial law area, and always be on guard. As a senior manager, she has experienced more than anyone else that inaction against bad habits is a punishment for good deeds, and connivance at bad habits is to reduce righteous deeds to uselessness and benevolence to a nest. Otherwise, there is no norm without punishment, if there is no punishment for evil, everyone can be self-interested, everyone will do evil, no different from the jungle, how can the society be orderly, what is the restraint of people?

But Xiao Lin is not an employee of the company after all, Yuan Qiuhua is not a parent, just an equal, even if Xiao Lin is contemptuous of morality and unreasonable, if moral persuasion is ineffective, emotional influence is also invalid, and rules and teachings are even more ineffective, in the current situation, Yuan Qiuhua really has no way to take Xiao Lin, because Xiao Lin just lured Xie Han to make mistakes, the fault is that Xie Han is credulous, and the seller's defeat is Xie Han's fault, and Xie Han has to bear the fault. What's more, Xie Han is Yuan Qiuhua's husband, the loss of the husband's seller must be borne by the husband and wife, and the liability for negligence is also borne by the husband and wife, just like gambling debts, prostitution debts, Mark Six debts, and usury debts are also joint debts of husband and wife, there is no fairness at all, the creditor will not forgive his wife, and no one will protect his wife, the wife can only rely on herself, fight or not, the best outcome of the struggle is divorce, the worst result is death, if you don't fight, there is no doubt that you are poor, and everyone blames the wife," You yourself are not optimistic about your husband, what's the use of looking for me?"

Whether a woman marries a scoundrel by mistake, jumps and scolds, a shrew scolds the street, or an angry curse, it is to no avail, and those who watch the excitement will only say "You are a wreck, you deserve to be humiliated", "If you can't do it, you will be bullied". Therefore, Yuan Qiuhua doesn't say or make trouble, he is ashamed to talk to outsiders, it's not that he doesn't dare, he just doesn't want to, it's not that he doesn't want to publicize his ugliness, he just doesn't want to humiliate himself, and he can't get sympathetic help from publicity, only indifferent smiles. Now that I think about it, Xiao Lin said what kind of favors and etiquette, whether to give it or not to be measured, what eyebrows are high and eyes are low, whether to say it or not to say it has to be brainy, what is not conducive to unity, to leave half a sentence on the lips, and even keep it secret and stay away from scandal. Oh, it turned out that Xiao Lin not only faked Qingqing, not only sounded Xie Han's alarm bell to make him more vigilant, but also slapped Yuan Qiuhua's skull, making her ashamed of herself.

Yuan Qiuhua is most annoyed by Xie Han's stinky mouth, what conflicts arise between husband and wife, what happens at home, he takes it out and tells others, for people to be funny behind their backs, and makes people laugh and play in public, he is not ashamed, but boasts that he is a master of art and bold, challenges the high gatehouse, suppresses strong women, and is proud. He spoke sacrosanctly, and people spread it loudly, and those who had good deeds asked Yuan Qiuhua for confirmation, and those who seemed to know the inside story persuaded him in a false way. As the saying goes, it is difficult for Qing officials to judge housework, and when they encounter husbands and wives pulling their skins and tendons, the elders, relatives and friends will not come forward and avoid them. Xiao Lin's little sister, younger brother and daughter-in-law, prefers to be big and long, an outsider, and prefers to be an insider, not to mention falling into the handle, watching jokes, schadenfreude in the heart, and listening to the truth!

Although Xie Han acted as Xiao Lin's eyeliner and made Yuan Qiuhua sad, what was even more aggrieved was that he was tricked by Xiao Lin like Xie Han, and he played himself into a chess piece in his hand by using Xie Han. Yuan Qiuhua is not only sad, but also frustrated and resentful, he can't hold Xie Han's heart, nor can he bind his body, in the long run, his husband can't become a husband, his family can't become a family, he has become Xiao Lin's world!

What seems to be a despicable trick must be the result of singing together, and any close interpersonal relationship has a long process of interaction and advancement.

Xie Han loves to brag, Yuan Qiuhua knows better than anyone else, he is tricky, fabricated lies, he boasts of romance, fabricated details, she doesn't believe it, maybe he has a thief's heart, and he also has the courage to be a thief, but the other party is limited to perfunctory, romantic, ambiguous, cheating and cheating small money, taking advantage. People play with him half-concealed, and they can advance and retreat freely, just because he is not successful and not excellent, and is only limited to rubbing some oil and catching some shrimp, if he can give her a rich life and let her live this life comfortably, she would have thrown herself into her arms, recommended her pillow, and cried and made a fuss that he would not marry.

For Xie Han and Xiao Lin's stickiness, Yuan Qiuhua repeatedly forgiven, because Xie Han is not responsible for the family, she has to open a store to work hard to earn money, and has been silently supporting the operation of the family, she endures and endures, but she can't imagine that Xie Han uses his wife's forgiveness and support as capital, and is even more unscrupulous, neither putting away his playfulness, getting rid of his lazy habits, nor turning back as a prodigal son, starting a family, and still hurting her again and again.

This time the matter of the house foundation is especially serious, Xie Han did something wrong because of weakness, there is no reason for his wife and children to bear the loss, if he is willing to use action to atone for his sins, Yuan Qiuhua will understand, but he takes bullying as glory, it is not enough for others to hit him on the left cheek, the right cheek is sent up, begging others to beat it again, not stupid, but cheap, it is already incorrigible!

Taking 10,000 steps back, although Xie Han and Xiao Lin have close contacts, eating, drinking, hugging and kissing, there seems to be no further breakthrough, and there are outings to open houses, rent houses and live together, such evidence is conclusive. Ambiguous and close, you can see it, debauchery and affection, but I can't understand it, it's all tears, the resentful woman tears and tears, it's all regret when she says it, it's too late to regret it, it's all wrong to say it, the shrew is wrong, but the woman's intuition makes Yuan Qiuhua know it, although she is not jealous, she doesn't cry or make trouble, but she just can't bear it. Can the ghost in "Liao Zhai" seduce a man if he doesn't turn into a beautiful woman? A man who is caught up in the beauty scheme of the demon king doesn't know how he dies in the end! But no matter whether the wife hides it or not, whether the husband dies or not, and how to die, the most unlucky person is the wife, who must clean up the aftermath, take it in and tolerate it, pay money and pay tribute, manage the family and manage the finances, support the elderly, raise children, raise a husband who is either sick or disabled, keep the nominal husband, keep the chastity of the woman, endure humiliation, and seek fame. This is the feudal ritual religion criticized by the literati of "May Fourth" that kills people without seeing blood, and the feudal dregs mislead people without knowing it, and others save them, but they still have to resist and refuse to repent.

Even if Xie Han was in Cao Ying's heart in Han, he was distracted when he saw Xiao Lin, and took the time to glance at her, because Xiao Lin released the eye wave of the signal flare, so that he could understand and let him not understand, like the moon in the water could not be reached, like the flower in the mirror close but not pickable, and he was unwilling to let go of the clock to buy copper, even if Yuan Qiuhua was not a treasure in his heart, nor a pearl in his palm, at least he maintained the livelihood of the family, without the busy work of a slave, how could he have the master's clothes worry-free? He just wanted the best of both worlds, and he didn't want to lose both ends.

But Yuan Qiuhua understands Xiao Lin's scheming, it is better not to steal it than to steal it, the appetite is hanging, the long lines are stacked, and the rice energy is constantly sprinkled. Dare to break the ban, be bold and careful, sneaky, more exciting and happy, work to the natural, once successful, prove that you have brains, can carefully plan, how smart and capable, retreat, confirm that through collaboration, singing success, good sense of achievement, safe and sound, no worries, no worries, will not be good, will not lose anything, do not have to bear the consequences, let's stand by and watch, watch other couples fight their heads and bleed, make a lot of trouble, enjoyable!

At the tip of the iceberg, the rats are dragging the door, the big head is behind, and the troubles are waiting one after another, but I have to think of a way, let Xie Hanhu go down, not to mention ruining himself, but also ruining the family and destroying the children. It has come to this, how can it be reversed?

After living in the Xie family for so many years, Yuan Qiuhua summed up an experience, the best way to solve the problem is to face conspiracy and tricks, not to act rashly, but to wait for the opportunity to move. She didn't know how to do it, but there was always a way.