In the infinite cyberspace, we just meet, is it fate, fate, destiny, or luck?

There are good people and bad people out there.

You will also meet people who treat each other with sincerity.

Xi Ming has a sincere feeling for this girl who loves to laugh, and the communication with her is very easy-going and natural, and they chat and communicate with each other. As small as the small things in life, the cold and the warmth, and the big talk is to the spring, summer, autumn and winter of the world.

The girl asked her brother what it was like to marry her brother before her eldest brother, and if she had any regrets.

Xi Ming said very calmly, "It's nothing, whose fate comes first, who gets married first, I don't care about this." ”

"Mr. Boiled Water, it seems that you are an open-minded man. ”

I'm open-minded, Xi Ming saw the message sent by the laughing girl, he smiled bitterly, he is really not an open-minded person, but a person who holds grudges, not to say that he will revenge, he will always keep the grudge in his heart, and one day he will revenge.

This is not to blame Xi Ming for being extreme, it has something to do with what happened to him when he was a child.

Revenge is a common emotion of human beings, people say that revenge is a plate of cold dishes, his plate of cold dishes is frozen, if anyone provokes himself, no matter how many years have passed, he is like a vengeful little beast lurking in the grass, waiting for one day to have the opportunity to attack.

In the past, he was bullied and insulted by others, he had no strength, he could only be cowardly, bury his grievances in his heart like a thorn, do not move his body, and even have a ball of harmony with the enemy.

Because life told him with cruelty.

A person who does not even hold grudges will always be a person who bullies and cowards, because he will only let others play with him, and he will not dare to let go of his fart, and it is strange if others do not bully you! Because they are bullying a man who is completely spineless and bloodless.

Then the girl's words, Xi Ming sent a message, "Girl who loves to laugh, I think instead of being an open-minded person, it is better to be a person who chases the sun, I like to be in the sun, smile in the face of life, and laugh like you." ”

"Mr. boiled water, I also want to be a person who chases the sun...... Hee-hee, but it's night, and there's no sunshine. ”

Xi Ming felt that he was really not ordinary boring and boring, and he had been lyrical with a girl like Qiong Yao!

He is now a person who has received tens of thousands of dollars in the account every minute, and he actually discussed with a strange netizen what sunshine and smile, which is very bloody.

It's already bloody, and you can only be accompanied by dog blood to the end.

"Mr. Boiled Water, I would like to ask you a question?"

"Willing to help. ”

"How many kinds of online dating do you have?"

Xi Ming thought about it, combined with some chatting with strange female netizens for many years, and summarized several kinds. ”

"I can probably name five forms of online dating. ”

"Five kinds, so many, Mr. Boiled Water, I'm interested in hearing more from you. ”

"Yes. Xi Ming also replied crisply.

"The first is the transcendent fantasy online dating, which is the kind of online lover who fantasizes about being able to get pure love on the Internet that transcends all worldliness. People with this type of mindset tend to easily fall in love online and can't help themselves. However, because the love affair they have has a great illusion, and the most beautiful thing about this illusion lies in its mystery, as it is known that "distance produces beauty". Moreover, in this kind of relationship, the lovers have less bumps and bumps in life, a lot less responsibilities, less embarrassment when there are contradictions, and more casual and free. On the Internet, "lovers" can "love each other" as much as they want without restrictions.

"What about the second nickname?" asked the laughing girl, who turned into a curious baby, and continued to say in a humble tone.

"The second type is detached romantic online dating. In real life, love and marriage are usually an inevitable connection, and on the Internet, you can love to death without having to talk about marriage. Therefore, romantic online lovers with detachment psychology complain to each other on the Internet. They use their fingers to flexibly tap on the keyboard, talk about life, ideals, work, hobbies, romance, and romance...... But let's not talk about love in reality. Perhaps, they feel that this feeling is the most detached and romantic love experience, so they are deeply immersed in it and enjoy it. ”

"What about the third kind of nickname?"

"The third type is game-based cheating online dating, people with this kind of psychology just want to experience the feeling of making friends or even having fun on the Internet, they have no intention of sincerely loving each other, and they have no intention of taking any responsibility for their words and actions. They just want to have fun online and never take it seriously. Therefore, they know very well in their hearts that the so-called "online dating" is just playing, and it is impossible to invest in it at all.

Maybe it's too difficult to say the 3 words "I love you" in real life, but on the Internet, you can type out "I love you" thousands of times to "lovers" who don't know their real names and authenticity. It's an enjoyable and safe experience, as you can turn it off and you're gone. It is worth mentioning that there are now many people with bad intentions who use "online dating" to carry out fraudulent and criminal activities, defraud money and sex, and many online lovers who lack social experience are deeply affected. ”

Laughing girl: "The fourth nickname?"

"The fourth is practical real online dating, because the network has advanced convenience, so there is a practical psychology of online lovers, they hope to find their lifelong partner through the Internet. They take "online dating" as a realistic means very seriously and will take the initiative to explain their conditions and requirements to their online lovers because they don't want to waste time. Such online lovers are usually immersed in "online dating" for a relatively short period of time, they are more practical, and often ask the other party to meet and talk offline. However, due to the unique illusory and glorifying functions of the Internet, many people with a practical psychology are often disappointed in reality. The online lovers who talk freely and personably in their hearts may actually be mediocre or have all kinds of unsatisfactory aspects, and the large gap between ideals and reality often makes them take advantage of the excitement and return home. ”

"What about the fifth nickname?"

"The fifth type is the spiritual platonic online dating, which tends to be spiritually aesthetically pursued and aesthetically pleasing, and they value spiritual enjoyment far more than material requirements. What they are looking for is a platonic online romance, in which the two parties simply maintain an online "romance" and are not prepared to have any contact in real life. They are different from the aforementioned "romantic online dating" in that they have higher requirements for spiritual and emotional experience and are relatively serious in their attitude. In addition to falling in love on the Internet, they don't talk to each other on the phone, don't write letters, don't meet each other, don't know each other's names, and don't even know each other's gender; they don't seek real contact that can be seen and touched in reality, but they are willing to accompany each other to the end of the world in the blazing online dating. In their view, platonic spiritual love is the most holy human emotion, which does not require any external material conditions, and is the natural expression of people's sincere feelings in their hearts...... However, reality is reality after all, and the infatuation of such online lovers often comes to an end.

"Mr. Bai Boiled Water, you are so amazing, you are like an emotional expert, you are so much that I listened to everything"

Xi Ming was speechless, "Laughing girl, since you know that I am...... Why do you have to listen to me talk so much......"

The girl who loves to laugh didn't bother with the question, and then asked Xi Ming, "Mr. Bai Kaishui, do you think online dating is reliable?"

Love is an eternal topic for human beings, and once love is associated with the modern Internet, it is infiltrated with mystery in its beautiful artistic conception, which makes many netizens intoxicated and obsessed.

This girl who loves to laugh actually asks herself if she is reliable, is she stupid and sweet, you ask a man on the Internet, do you say it is reliable, of course it is reliable, otherwise how can the other party have a chance.

"In my opinion, the Internet is just a medium, and we have friends around us who have met and married online. Although the process of finding a partner online or offline can be very different, when you meet the right person, both parties have the intention to develop a relationship, and after meeting in real life, the final outcome depends on whether both parties are in love. There's no need to doubt feelings just because you've met online or in person. Black cats and white cats, catching mice is a good cat, online and offline, it's a good thing to get a girl or a man!"

"Haha, Mr. Boiled Water is such an interesting person, and the metaphor is very vivid. I and some of my friends are people whose family education is very strict, in reality can not play like some boys and girls now, many of my friends are playing a platonic spiritual love, meeting on the Internet, falling in love on the Internet, and even forming a family on the Internet. ”

"Do you know about online cohabitation?"

"I know. ”

"I want to play this game with you, it's my first time playing it, Mr. Boiled Water. ”

The so-called "online cohabitation" refers to virtual cohabitation on the Internet, that is, two netizens who have never met before, according to the information provided on the Internet, get along, fall in love, live together and even get married and have children online.

The specific operation of "online cohabitation" is to register on a certain website, you can get a virtual suite, and after two netizens agree with each other, you can go to a certain suite to "live together".

I can't imagine that girls who love to laugh will also play this kind of adult game that makes people blush, and girls who love to laugh are also evil...... I'm just bored!

"The invitation of the beautiful woman, is there any reason not to accompany you?"

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