Eat and drink together
Eating men and women, if you want to capture a man's heart, you must first grab a man's stomach. Those who can eat, most of them can do, those who love to eat, are good at experimenting, and will never be lazy.
Xiao Lin does not go out to work, she is free and skillful, and she brews all kinds of delicacies according to the recipe for her family to enjoy.
Every time Xie Xiong has a sample, he will invite Xie Ying to share, and the two brothers will drink and guess boxing, not drunk or sleeping. The two of them also coerced each other's dishes, you asked me to let them, and the conversation was in full swing.
So, eating and drinking casually, I also developed a daily habit. When you get used to it, it becomes a matter of course.
Xie Ying's family has three meals a day, and there are two meals to eat Xie Xiong's family. Breakfast was not eaten together, that is, Xie Xiong got up early, sent the child to the kindergarten first, and then went to work, and bought breakfast outside by the way. Xiao Lin slept until mid-day every day before getting up, didn't make breakfast, and ate pastries and fruits to satisfy her hunger. Xie Ying and his wife did farm work, slept late, were tired miserably, and got up late, so they had to make breakfast by themselves.
The two families drank together for a long time, and Xie Ying also took the initiative to bear the rice eaten by the three members of Xie Xiong's family. But the rural valleys are cheap, no one buys them, there is no market and no price, and how much is it worth to mill rice? The peasant households can't eat it all, and most of it is used to feed the pigs. Fish, meat, tofu, dried goods, and seafood are sold by dealers, and the price of fish and meat is about five yuan per catty, and how much does it cost to buy meat? Xie Xiong's daily wages can only buy two catties, and when he buys fish, he has no money to buy meat. Two catties of meat, or a fish, can be eaten by five people, a few taels per person, and it can only be a tooth sacrifice.
They do farm work, have a lot of physical exertion, and have a large amount of food, they can eat three bowls of rice in one meal and drink two bowls of soup, which is more than the three members of Xie Xiong's family. If you let go of the belly to eat, two catties of braised pork, or a steamed Wuchang fish, or a bowl of crucian carp tofu soup, are not enough for one of them to fill the gap between their teeth, at least two bowls of rice. Xie Ying helped people, or planted seedlings, or cut rice, and could eat ten trowels for breakfast and drink three bowls of sugar water. Ma Huilan went to be a guest, and the host served "brain-beating" boiled eggs or potato flour lumps, and she could eat more than 20 in one go.
As the saying goes, rather add ten acres, don't add a mouthful, the population is like a stove, the mouth is like a money furnace, half a child, eat the poor old man. Among them, Xiao Lin can see at a glance from the account book of eating and drinking, and the comparison can be calculated, that is, the deficit is getting bigger and bigger, and he can't speak casually, and it is inconvenient to divide the kitchen and eat.
If you change your hexagram halfway, it is tantamount to turning your face, and your feelings become unrighteous, anyway, sooner or later you have to turn your face, and the result is unrighteousness, it is better to give an eviction order from the beginning. How can a person who is consciously and sensibly aware of the etiquette of reciprocating a peach in return? After three years of suffering from separation, and three years of poverty after giving birth to a child, he begged for subsidies from his mother's family, showed mercy and care to his mother-in-law's family, and begged for a few dollars to feed them. The two of them eat and drink cheekily, harming others and benefiting themselves month after month, obviously greedy and pretending to be confused, and boasting that they are better than thieves, and the victims are stupider than pigs.
Fish and meat that don't cost money, used to eating, free rice wine, addicted to drinking, once separated, you can only watch the fish and eat rice, smell the aroma of wine and swallow saliva, you must be particularly unaccustomed, it is extremely difficult to adapt, especially if you can't figure it out, if you don't offend, you are offended, not for the meaning of isolation, you have no opinion, no suspicion, no resentment, almost impossible.
Besides, if something happens, the reason is easy to say, but the words are not good, and it also seems that he has a small belly and chicken intestines, exposing the mentality of a vegetable vendor who is calculating and fighting for everything. But living at home, in the case of failing to increase income generation, saving food and clothing, being thrifty and housekeeping, tightening the belt, and competing with vegetable vendors, can save a little is a little, isn't it a sign that housewives will live?
If you make trouble and offend people, it's better to stop things and keep people's favors, just slap a swollen face and become fat, and the big-headed ghost will do it to the end. For the so-called deep brotherhood, concubine harmony, pretending to be generous, pretending to be generous, pretending to be a rich man, and suffering dumb losses, I hope that people's hearts will change people's hearts, you help me, I will help you, one gift and one courtesy, in the end, will you be willing to suffer? Be a good person, be Lei Feng, be a fool, be rubbed with oil, share weal and woe, share weal and woe, and help each other, can there really be a good reward?
Xie Xiong had to go to Wenzhou, Zhejiang Province with a contractor foreman in the village to work as a bricklayer and work on a construction site, as long as he can bear hardships and stand hard work, he can earn about 1,000 a monthly salary.
Xiao Lin proposed that it was time to have a second child, and she had to prepare a few money in hand. Sitting and eating empty, but the bag was empty, Xiao Xiong went out to earn money, he didn't know that Xiao Lin was pregnant.
When saying goodbye, Xiao Lin gave him all the borrowed money: Poor family is rich, take it. The family is short of money, and I will find a way.
Xie Xiong said: Take care of yourself, take care of your children, and earn money, I will go back, build a new house, borrow a house to live in, and be neighbors with them, I feel awkward. I'm a man, too, and I can't always make you suffer such unspeakable sins!
Xiao Lin said: With this sentence warms me, I will be patient and will avoid it, you can leave with confidence.