In fact, everyone will have this experience, when you admit your mistake to someone, it is obvious that your heart does not necessarily think that you are wrong.

That is to say, even if you admit that you are wrong, even if you say that you have done wrong, although you also feel that you have really done wrong, it is obvious that you will have other thoughts in your heart, that is to say, although you think that you have done something wrong, although you feel that you have something to improve in this matter, it is obvious that what others have done is not necessarily right, or that you do not have to fully accept the criticism of others.

Yes, when you are criticized, you should not completely deny yourself. That is to say, when a person criticizes you, it is obvious that you are doing something wrong, but you should know that you must not have done something completely wrong, you should know that you must have something to offer, in fact, the most terrible thing is that a person completely denies himself, the most terrible thing is that a person does not know what advantages he has at all, and the most terrible thing is that a person completely agrees with the criticism of others. Yes, everyone should really believe in themselves, or everyone should not completely disbelieve in themselves. Yes, everyone should really believe in themselves, or everyone should not completely disbelieve in themselves. Sometimes you may believe in yourself very much, sometimes you may not believe in yourself very much, but no matter what time, no matter what the situation, you should believe that you have strengths, you should believe in yourself, in fact, you can do a certain job well, you should believe that you should be able to achieve your goals well. Yes, you should have a general belief that you are a person who can succeed, and you should generally believe that the mistakes you make are not that serious.

Just like the current deputy security captain, although the deputy security captain feels that what his boss said is reasonable, although the deputy security captain feels that what his boss said is roughly right, although the deputy security captain feels that he is wrong, although the vice captain of security feels that he thinks wrong, although the vice captain of security feels that he does not think as far-reaching as his boss, but he feels that he still has a certain amount of truth. Since he felt that he had a certain point, it was obvious that he should have said it, but why did he apologize first? Why did he say that he was wrong first?

Obviously, that's where he's smart. If your boss criticizes you, if your boss says you've done something wrong, if your boss wants you to admit it, or even if your boss doesn't make you admit it, your boss just says you did something wrong, your boss just says you made a mistake in something, your boss just says you should be able to improve on something. At this time, of course, you should not say that you are not wrong, or of course you should not say that you have any strengths, and you certainly should not say that you are good at this thing. What you should do is, of course, apologize, of course, admit your mistakes, and of course admit that you have made mistakes. Then you should guarantee that you will not make such a mistake, you should guarantee that you will not do anything wrong again, you should guarantee that you are a person who will not make mistakes again. Then you can say what you think about this thing, then you can say what you think about this thing, and then you can say what you think about this thing.

Only by doing this, you are a successful person, and only by doing so, you are an employee who knows how to measure. By doing so, you are a person who really knows how to protect yourself in the workplace. You'll be a good employee in the eyes of your boss. You will become a good subordinate in the eyes of your boss. Just like this security vice-captain now. Since he understands this truth, since he understands this rule. So apparently he did it according to this rule,

When you know a truth, when you know how to do something correctly, it is obvious that you should do it according to the truth you know, or you should do it according to the most correct principle, you should do it according to the most correct method, if you follow the wrong way, it is obviously impossible to succeed. It's clear that you're just a stupid person.

Now that you know the right way, now that you know the right way to do it, then it's clear that you shouldn't use the stupid way. So the deputy security captain chose the right method, that is, he first admitted his own mistakes, and then said his thoughts. He said that of course, everyone should concentrate on moving forward towards their own goals, everyone should also concentrate on doing things, everyone should concentrate on pursuing their dreams, everyone should also concentrate on striving towards their goals, everyone should not be half-hearted, everyone should not think about this thing but do that thing, and everyone should not do another thing when still thinking about other things. Nor should anyone eat what's in the bowl and look at what's in the pot. What he means is that everybody should be attentive, everybody should be focused, because only by focusing can we succeed, because only by concentrating can we really make progress. But then again, no one can really concentrate on one thing, or when you are tired of doing something, when you spend a lot of energy on one thing, obviously you will be tired, you will be tired. At this time, of course, you should do something else to change your mind, and of course you should do something else at this time to change your mind. Just like when you are usually working, obviously, if you have been working, working for two days and two nights, obviously you need to rest for half a day, and then your mind will be clear.

That's when you go back to work, it's really smooth. If you've been working, obviously your mind is confused, obviously you're not going to work too efficiently, obviously you're not going to achieve much in your work, and even your boss doesn't want to let you work overtime continuously, and even your boss doesn't want to let you work all the time, because obviously if your mind is confused, if you make a mistake at work. Then you may cause greater losses, and you may cause greater losses to the company. That is to say, sometimes you need to change your mind, sometimes you need to change your life, and sometimes you need to change your mind. That is to say, as long as you change your environment, as long as you change what you do, then obviously, your thinking begins to change, your thinking begins to rest, your brain begins to rest, at this time, of course, you should go to the party, that is to say, you should not only think about your dreams, you should not only think about pursuing your dreams, you should be more exposed to other things to make yourself more rational, to make yourself richer, to make your judgment more correct。

Listened to the meaning of the deputy security captain. He was actually a little surprised. In fact, what the deputy security captain said is very reasonable. He was also surprised that the deputy security captain was able to say such philosophical words, and why the deputy security captain was able to understand this truth so clearly? In fact, sometimes everyone only knows a little about various truths, or some people only know a simple truth, but he has no way to apply this truth to his own life. That is to say, everybody knows a lot of things, everybody knows a lot, everybody knows what they should do. Because they've read a lot of books, because they've read a lot of truths, because they also know what's right, they know what's wrong, they know what they're supposed to do, and they know what they shouldn't do, but obviously, once they've encountered difficulties, once they've encountered actual situations, once they've encountered practical difficulties in life, once they've encountered something difficult in life, once they've encountered something in their life that makes them feel troublesome, once they've encountered a situation in life that makes them feel difficult。 Obviously, they began to panic and didn't know what to do, they began to panic and didn't know what method they should use to solve it, they began to panic and scratch their heads, they began to panic. There's no way to calmly think about how to solve it.

They began to panic and couldn't make themselves calm to face the difficulties. Can you say they are stupid at this time?