Chapter 45: [It's Better to Give Up]
While waiting for the elevator, Lu Xiaorong remembered one more thing, and whispered to Mo Fan: "What about Qiu Yan's USB flash drive?"
Mo Fan said: "You look at it." ”
Lu Xiaorong shook the hand held by Mo Fan and said, "Tell me!"
After saying that, I found that I looked a bit like I was coquettish. Then I thought, where is this just like, it's just coquettish. This was only the case with parents when I used to be homeschooled. It's a shame that such a big person would still make such a move.
Seeing that Lu Xiaorong was a little uneasy, Mo Fan squeezed her hand and said, "Give it back to her." ”
Lu Xiaorong was stunned for a moment and said, "That's it?" Mo Fan whispered a few words to her, Lu Xiaorong frowned and said, "Is this good, it's a little too much, right?"
Mo Fan said: "If you want to manage a department well, it's not enough to just set an example, how to do it without some means, just use this matter to practice." ”
Lu Xiaorong was silent for a moment, and finally nodded.
Whether it is the competition for positions within the company or the business competition between companies, it is never harmonious. The work she is doing now and the position she is in are relatively simple, and the people and things she comes into contact with are not complicated. But once you go to a new department and have to be the head of that department, the situation will be completely different.
When listening to Mo Fan talk about some business cases, the complexity and danger made her a little frightened. That's just listening to the story, if you really face those things, I don't know what kind of heart-pounding it is.
Not to mention external competition, even within the company, how can there be fewer people who stumble because they covet her position.
She knew what Mo Fan meant, if she couldn't even solve this matter, she was afraid that it would be difficult to be qualified for her new position.
Seeing Lu Xiaorong making a decision in silence, Mo Fan suddenly felt like a villain who instigated good people to commit crimes, and said, "Hey, forget it." Otherwise, you will be angry with her two sentences. Otherwise, there should be no such thing, and she will be left alone in the future. ”
Lu Xiaorong looked at Mo Fan with a hint of doubt and said, "Why did you change your mind again?"
She knew that Mo Fan's proposal was not only for this matter, but also for her future development. The subtext is: if you have concerns about your new position and job, then give up and keep the status quo right.
Mo Fan shrugged his shoulders and said, "I don't want you to force yourself to do what you don't want to do. ”
At this time, the elevator door opened, and Mo Fan let go of Lu Xiaorong's hand. Entering the elevator, it is natural to block her side so that she does not get squeezed by others.
Lu Xiaorong found that Mo Fan was still very careful in some small things, and she unconsciously felt that she was being cared for, and the corners of her mouth couldn't help but smile.
It's naturally good to be taken care of like this in life, but at work, does it depend on him to always stand in front of him? As a result, even if he doesn't get tired of it, he will eventually become a vase.
Lu Xiaorong didn't want to be a vase, and she didn't think that Mo Fan wanted her to become a vase.
So she really didn't understand, Mo Fan spent so much time and energy to help him fight for the opportunity to be promoted, and now that the opportunity was won, why did he want to give up? In this case, why bother so much effort in the first place.
When the elevator stopped on the 22nd floor, the two walked out, only to find that Hu Dawei was not there, obviously not taking the same elevator as them.
Lu Xiaorong thought about it and felt funny, and said: "You are very majestic now, even the colleagues in this group are afraid of you." ”
Mo Fan said: "Who said that? If you are afraid, you are also afraid of you, the supervisor, or he thinks that there are too many people in the elevator, and he will wait for another one, what does it have to do with me!"
Lu Xiaorong looked at him and said, "I really want to learn this from you." ”
Mo Fantian said shamelessly: "I have too many advantages, what do you want to learn?"
Lu Xiaorong smiled slightly and said, "After learning from you to make a fool of people, you can still feel that it has nothing to do with you." ”
Mo Fan looked into her eyes and knew that she was motivated by feelings, so he said, "Aren't you afraid that after you learn it, you will find that you are no longer yourself?"
Lu Xiaorong said: "People always have to grow, and it is normal for changes to occur. The most important part is the same as it is, you say?"
Mo Fan was silent for a moment and said, "I'm still the same sentence, don't force yourself." It's okay to try, but if you feel like you can't do it or don't want to do it, you can always give up. ”
Lu Xiaorong said dissatisfiedly: "Before I started doing it, you gave me a back seat, how can this be?"
Mo Fan said: "There is nothing that is not to be done. You're not the only one, don't let yourself get too tired. ”
After knowing that Lu Xiaorong's competition report was stolen, Mo Fan had an idea to train her to be a strong woman in the business world, at least to the extent of being able to take charge of herself. Lu Xiaorong has this potential, and at the same time works hard enough, although her personality is a little weak, and she is not suitable for the deceitful shopping mall battle, but this can be changed slowly.
To achieve this goal, it naturally takes a lot of thought. Mo Fanken did this, in addition to the fact that the two had a one-year master-apprentice relationship, but also because he was confident that he would pull Lu Xiaorong into his camp, which was equivalent to training a team for himself.
Of course, this can't be used to talk about utilization, because this is first of all in line with Lu Xiaorong's own pursuit, helping her achieve her goals, and helping herself do things by the way, is a win-win result.
But just now, after seeing Lu Xiaorong accept the suggestion in a tangled situation, Mo Fan suddenly regretted it.
The sea of commerce is full of treachery, and it is full of deceit. In many cases, it is no less cruel than war, so there is a saying that shopping malls are like battlefields. There is no smoke here, but there are still dead people. The drama of ruining one's reputation and family is staged in different places every day.
In this circle, good people are not without room for survival, it should be said that most of the value is created by them, but they are only suitable for doing the most basic work. In addition, there are many roles such as stepping stones, carrying black pots, blocking gun holes, and so on. These uses can be stacked at the same time and can be reused again and again until they are scrapped.
None of the people who can stand at the top here are good people in the pure sense. Good people can come this far, and they have long since mutated.
So if Lu Xiaorong wants to be successful, she must go through some changes, some of which may even distort her nature. Mo Fan can guarantee that she can follow her and achieve the highest demands in her career. But it is impossible to estimate how those changes will affect her temperament.
There are successful people who say that they are so poor that they only have money left. Although it is very stinky and underpumped, it also tells a fact. On the road to success, you will gain a lot, and you will inevitably lose a lot. How to measure the value of these gains and losses, everyone has different standards.
Lu Xiaorong's entanglement at that moment showed that she had some resistance in her heart, and she was still a good person in her nature. As soon as that choice was made, she was a good person who began to deteriorate.
The reason why Mo Fan felt a little regretful was because in Lu Xiaorong's transformation, he was too dominant. In a sense, Lu Xiaorong passively accepted his transformation. If it continues to develop, if it is more serious, it is tantamount to being brainwashed by him.
Maybe according to normal development, the environment will still force Lu Xiaorong to make some changes, but at least that is her active choice, not passive acceptance, there is a big difference between the two.
The consequences of destroying a person's personality can be very serious. At least until now, Mo Fan didn't know if he could afford this responsibility. He didn't want to see Lu Xiaorong follow the route he designed, and finally lost himself completely. Compared with the simple life now, who can be sure that she will be happier at that time than now.
It's a pity that Lu Xiaorong seems to have made up her mind, her logic is simple and simple. She has her own goals and doesn't give up easily. In the process of achieving the goal, if there are things that must be learned, then learn them, and if there are things that must be done, then do them.
Although this is also Lu Xiaorong's own choice, there is no doubt that it was influenced by someone.
Mo Fan really wanted to tell her that many things are not so simple, and the reality will be a hundred times more cruel than the most severe situation you can imagine. In his life in the different planes of his dreams, he had seen too much. But this kind of thing has not been experienced personally, and no matter how much others say, they can't understand it too deeply.
So in the end, I can only persuade her, if she thinks it's not good, she should withdraw, a woman doesn't need to be so tired.
When waiting for the elevator below, Lu Xiaorong's appearance as a happy little woman made Mo Fan very excited. He hopes that she can always be like this, what an iron lady and a strong woman, in fact, it is very boring.
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The two stood in the elevator hall and looked at each other, neither of them speaking.
Mo Fan hoped to see Lu Xiaorong change her mind, but Lu Xiaorong's gaze was very firm.
At this time, the door of an elevator opened, and Hu Dawei walked out of it. As soon as he raised his eyes, he saw Lu Xiaorong and Mo Fan standing facing each other, as if they were playing a game of affectionate looking, and he couldn't help but be stunned on the spot.
Mo Fan turned his head to look at Hu Dawei. Hu Dawei was startled, and subconsciously wanted to retreat into the elevator, but the elevator door was closed, so he stuck his whole body on the door, and he didn't know whether he wanted to cry or laugh with the expression on his face.
When Lu Xiaorong saw Hu Dawei like this, she couldn't help laughing, and turned around and walked towards the company. I only heard Mo Fan say: "Xiaohu, it's early!" is the same as meeting for the first time this morning.
Hu Dawei is a little older than himself, Mo Fan used to see it and seemed to be called Brother Hu, but now he has become a little Hu.
The more Lu Xiaorong thought about it, the more funny she felt, and she still had a smile on her face when she checked in at the front desk.
"Director Lu, morning!" Xie Yuwen, the little girl at the front desk, greeted Lu Xiaorong, and saw that Lu Xiaorong was very energetic today, and she looked very beautiful, so she couldn't help but be very envious. I thought to myself, when will I become a woman like Director Lu?
At this time, Shen Tai'an walked to the front desk with a cup of coffee, and when he saw Lu Xiaorong, he said, "Xiao Lu, are you well?"