"Because of my quarrel over this matter, during the Chinese New Year this year, I made up my own mind, I said that if it didn't work, forget it, just break up, and I bought myself a house here. ”

Although you are 28 years old, but because you are not married, this money is not my own, it is from the family, who said this, your sister and sister's money are also given to his mother.

"Basically, all the money earned from treatment is handed over to parents, and they are distributed, but I am from my graduation, and in the past four or five years from my graduation to the past four or five years, I basically do not intercept the money, give it once every six months, and give tens of thousands to myself in half a year."

I said you have to get enough money quickly, because my dad doesn't want to give up on this basis.

"The reason her family objected to this is not called force majeure, my buddy, I personally don't think this is called force majeure, in fact, sometimes I say it at noon today, because some friends have been with me for a while at noon."

Some friends asked me if there is a big gap between men and women, do you think it is acceptable, I said, there is a premise to ensure what kind of premise, you have to first talk about tradition and gender roles.

This man is a little older than the woman, I don't think it's particularly abrupt, then the woman is not more than five years older than the man, if more than five years older, then this marriage has a lot of adventure, making money in it, but both of them can talk about it together, what does this mean? It shows that everyone has a different mental age.

So if the mental age of two people can be compared and fit, and the psychological age can be reached together, then I think it can be said that they are a good couple together.

"If you can talk about it in particular, it will be a good couple, if of course you haven't known him for three months, if your parents, your father and your sister and sister are just because they are older than you, they deny everything about this man, they deny your feelings, it's too simple and rude"

This kind of stick beating mandarin duck to be honest, after I heard it, I really supported you, your love road is also very bumpy, and Dad, I think this matter has to be watched separately.

These are two different things to raise the three of you with hard work, and the three of you must be filial to her, but she raised you with hard work, then as a father, as a single father with hard work, but the father I don't think he has the right to use her own likes and dislikes and opinions to kidnap her daughter's life.

"And in this we hear a kind of worldly prejudice, what kind of worldly prejudice? If I haven't found a suitable partner yet, and I don't want to settle for me to be single all the time, I've been waiting for the right soul mate to appear, and I feel like the right soulmate, so I waited until I was 40 years old."

Then others say that I must be abnormal, or I am abnormal in orientation, this is not too biased, this is not too unfair, this is not very hateful, because of my own affairs, I decide my own marriage, I decide by myself.

"I would rather be single, I don't want two people to quarrel all day long or divorce after getting married, I won't say who succumb to anyone's tongue, there are many like this around me, it's this one who is in his thirties, or even to the age of forty and still sticks to his own principles"

This guy and this big girl, who can open their mouths and say that there must be something wrong with this person who is not married, and there is something wrong with insisting that he does not deal with it, which is obviously a prejudice, a secular prejudice.

Personally, I think your father and your sisters are cheesy, I personally think I don't know, what is your boyfriend like, you have only been together for three months, but I think it's not good to evaluate people so simply and rudely, people just take marriage very seriously.

I don't have a suitable one, I resolutely can't afford to educate, it seems that you can't find it for a while, she likes the person she thinks is suitable to get married, and besides, she likes her, she thinks it's suitable, you must think it's right, you must think it's appropriate?

If you don't follow his wishes, you think that you are angry with me, and I will raise you with hard work, and you will not find someone I like, and let me live for many fewer years, and then make you feel guilty, is it fair to you?56

"He's now because my sister is going to get married at the end of last year, and my sister won't call me when she gets married, and I don't have anything to do with the family now, and he said this yesterday, just give me all my things, my own things, and blast them all the way out, right?"

Let me give it to me at the end of this month, whether it's your own company, or wherever you go, you just don't want me anymore. I don't know what to do now, because every day when I come home, the atmosphere is very tense, and I don't want to, but listen to the girl, or you will move out for a while. However, you tell your dad on WeChat, and you say that I know dad and you are very angry with me now.

"In fact, I will also observe carefully, as I get older, I will also carefully consider, many things do come to the time when I should make my own decisions, and if I insist on something, I must be responsible for my own choices, I know that you want to see my happiness, so I hope you can see my happiness, I through my efforts, let you see my happiness"

So I must be happy to show you, I see what else he can say, I told him, I said it yesterday, she hasn't moved out yet, then run out and try some things, the parents' decision may not be correct, at this time it depends on your choice.

Do you want to fight for your own life, or do you want to be a good girl and listen to him and let him dictate your life, to be honest, I don't think anyone has the right to do this, and parents can't do it.

It's definitely not just because of age, you should think about it, and I don't recommend that this girl continue, she must continue to get along with this boyfriend, but you do have to observe and think more.

"It's really sad for a girl to live in such a family, and her father, sister and sister don't have any affection? Isn't this prejudice? What if you are 12 years older? Everyone is an adult."

How old you are, you have to observe, he said that you won't know much in three months, don't rush to get married, you have to improve yourself first, then your level is decided, and at the same time it is convincing.

It's not surprising if people really prefer to be lacking rather than excessive, no one stipulates that it is not normal not to get married, but some people are arrogant and prejudiced, if you don't get married, you are abnormal, and there is no way not to argue with them.

He also said that it was acceptable, but he had to agree to find him a wife to have children, and she couldn't marry me, what did that mean? I can't marry him, he can't marry you, because you can't have children, she wants to get married and find a woman to have children, and then let you do something, you have been with him, be an extramarital lover for him, when did he say that?

"He's always said that, he's always said that, and he knows we're all arguing now, so she's always said that for this girl. You didn't object to it when he said it for the first time, I'm particularly strong, each of his views is different, everyone's character is different, you are particularly opposed, so why oppose him?"

We just said that Xia Worm can't be spoken, if you are a girl with strong will, self-esteem and self-love, I think a girl with strong will, self-respect and self-love, will immediately turn her face when she hears this kind of words, and then her boyfriend will still have a chance.

Where did he have that opportunity? Where did he get that opportunity? He continues to nag these garbage words in front of you, what kind of society is normal, he says it is normal, do you believe it? Can you express your sincerity to him to him, will you jump? Is this his point of view, or is it your point of view? Because you always don't answer me, I found that everyone has such a bad problem, if you don't answer my words directly, can't we directly answer my words and face the problem directly?

"Where can you hide? Hiding and hiding is not good for us to solve the problem at all, right? You answer my sister's question, is this his point of view, or is it your point of view? Everything is like this now, his point of view, he doesn't care about you, believe it or not, do you think it's right or wrong, you know it's wrong. ”

Do you think what kind of character he can say such a thing is? Because you can't have children, I can't marry you, I marry another woman as my wife, and everyone knows that I am married to her and have children.

He didn't wait for anything? First make an appointment for you to be a third party, who loves another person will outline such a kind for the other person, aren't you trampling on my life? I can still be with you, you spoil me so much, and let me be with you, how can I be with you, so how do you stay with him for a year and a half?

Or are you just like him, and this time we quarrel, right? We rarely see each other, but we just don't leave, right? Why do you want to give him this opportunity to insult you? Or do you think it's not an insult? Then why are you entangled with this kind of person? What do you want to do when you are entangled with someone who insults you? Do you think you are so bad that you must spoil yourself so badly? Because I think my own conditions are not good, I only say that your own conditions are not good.

Because you can't have children, because you can't have children, your own conditions are not good, so you have to throw away all your dignity, is this because others think that your own conditions are not good, or do you yourself feel that your own conditions are not good?