At that time, Bai Xiaohua felt that the girl in front of her was a little similar to herself, and Bai Xiaohua felt that Li Xiaomei and her were simply natural friends. Of course, Bai Xiaohua didn't know why she had such an idea at that time, and now Bai Xiaohua seems a little ridiculous when she thinks about it, because it is obvious that the two people are not the same at all, and the two people are not very similar at all.

At that time, Bai Xiaohua seemed a little weak, Bai Xiaohua was a little cowardly at that time, but Li Xiaomei was not like this at all, Li Xiaomei at that time seemed a little tough, and Li Xiaomei at that time seemed a little domineering, but Bai Xiaohua just had such a feeling, Bai Xiaohua just felt that the two people were very similar, he could see that Li Xiaomei was actually a weak girl, she could see that Li Xiaomei was actually a little flustered in her heart at that time, although Li Xiaomei looked like nothing on the surface, although Li Xiaomei looked like a very strong person on the surface, although Li Xiaomei seemed to be a particularly powerful person on the surface, but it is obvious that deep in Li Xiaomei's heart, he has roughly understood that Li Xiaomei is not like this at all.

In the depths of Li Xiaomei's heart, he is probably also a little weak girl, in the depths of Li Xiaomei's heart, he probably also feels a little embarrassed in this situation, Bai Xiaohua at that time felt that he saw Li Xiaomei's heart, in fact, it turned out to be like this, and later when the two of them talked about this matter, Li Xiaomei said that he was actually a little panicked at the time, but he felt that he couldn't lose his face, he felt that he couldn't lose his momentum, so Li Xiaomei was holding on to the boy at that time。

At this moment, the two of them brought up the old story again. Both of them were caught up in the memories.

Obviously, when a person is caught up in memories, he feels that he should be nostalgic at the moment. When one starts to feel nostalgic, it gets a little sentimental. When a person is sentimental, his heart is already loose.

Yes, Bai Xiaohua understands this truth, so Bai Xiaohua deliberately brought up the old topic. So Bai Xiaohua deliberately brought up the past events, so Bai Xiaohua deliberately mentioned the previous things. When he saw that Li Xiaomei was a little sentimental, she knew that she should say what she really thought in her heart, and he knew that he should put forward his own request. Yes, he has requirements for Li Xiaomei.

"Li Xiaomei. I'm not going to say anything else. People may meet a lot of friends in their lives, some friends may break up with you soon, some friends may be separated from you because of some misunderstanding, some friends may just be simple friends of wine and meat, some friends may just like a certain aspect of you, when you lose the advantages of this aspect, he may no longer like you, but some friends are lifelong friends, I think you are my lifelong friend, or you should also think that I am a friend of the doctor, right?"

Heard Bai Xiaohua's affectionate confession. Li Xiaomei nodded.

"You're my lifelong friend. Because the personalities of the two of us are actually really similar, although I don't know how you saw it before, although I didn't show a little bit of my inner personality before, but obviously you can see it, since you can see it, then it proves that the two of us are actually of the same mind, of course, the same mind, it may be a little too ambiguous, but it is obvious that I really like you as a friend, in fact, we have been together for a few years, I feel really satisfied, and I am also very fortunate to have you as a friend. ”

Bai Xiaohua nodded.

"Then let's move on. There are things you can say to your family, things you can say to your friends, things you can only say to your classmates, and things you can only say to your colleagues, but no matter what friends you have, I think you can say to me, because we are the best friends. Are you right?"

Li Xiaomei could only continue to nod.

"Of course. Actually, you were like that before, no matter what problem you had before, you could not tell other people that you can not ask for help like other people, but obviously you will definitely say to me, so I think we are really good friends. ”

Li Xiaomei finished saying this. Deep down, I probably already understood what Bai Xiaohua meant, yes, Li Xiaomei is not a fool, Li Xiaomei is a very smart person, so Li Xiaomei at this time also knows what Bai Xiaohua means, at this time Li Xiaomei is a little moved, yes, often when your friends offer you help, they are very rude. Yes, they don't care what you think in your heart, they don't care if you are willing to accept their help, they just blindly express their concern, they just express their concern roughly, they just express their thoughts roughly, but they don't care if you want to accept it or not, but they don't care what you think in your heart, they don't care about your inner activities at the moment.

Obviously, Bai Xiaohua is not such a person, Bai Xiaohua is the person who really cares about her, so Bai Xiaohua paved the way for such a long time. The reason why Bai Xiaohua laid down such a long sentence was because Bai Xiaohua wanted to really help him, and because Bai Xiaohua was his real friend, so Bai Xiaohua took the trouble to say so much.

"Well, it looks like you've got it. You know, I would ask you for help when I was in trouble before, and when I was in trouble before, I didn't want to tell other people, because the two of us have the same personality, because we have the same temperament. So we don't want to trouble others, or we all have our own pride, and we all have ourselves in our hearts. Principle, we don't want to trouble others, we don't want others to help us, but when we are in trouble, we all want someone to help us. Yes, you should admit that you also need someone to accompany you and you also need someone to help, so I want you to tell me what is really in your heart. ”

Li Xiaomei was a little moved at this time, when a person was moved, he would easily say what he thought in his heart.

"Actually, I understand what you mean, you should want to ask me what happened to me lately, but you can't help with this matter at all, so I didn't ask you for help. Actually, this thing is really difficult, if I tell you, I think you will definitely be very unhappy, if I say to you, you will definitely be very unhappy like me, of course I hope you are happy. ”

Bai Xiaohua was also a little moved! Yes, friends should be like this, friends should think like this, friends should probably think about their friends like this. Sometimes everyone thinks that friends are there to ask for help. When you are in trouble, you will not hesitate to ask your friends for help. When you encounter difficulties, you will not hesitate to say your difficulties and ask for help, but obviously at this time you do not consider the feelings of your friends at all, if you encounter something, you do not hesitate to ask your friends for help, if you encounter some things, you do not hesitate to say your inner thoughts, if you encounter any difficulties, you do not hesitate to say your difficulties, then obviously, you do not think about your friends at all, you do not consider your friends' feelings at all, because obviously, sometimes the pain cannot be shared。

If you encounter any irresistible difficulties, if you encounter any unbearable pain, and you do not hesitate to tell your friends about your pain, then it is obvious that if your friend is really a friend who thinks about you, if your friend is a friend who is your true friend. Then obviously your friends will definitely start to worry too, your friends will definitely start to grieve as well, your friends will not even be able to eat, and your friends will even worry about you all the time.

Whether you want your friends to worry about you or not, when you speak your heart, when you say your sadness. Your friends will worry about you, so if you really like your friends, if you really think about your friends, then of course you should consider whether there is any need to say anything about it.

So Li Xiaomei thinks like this, Li Xiaomei feels that her friends have no way to solve the difficulties she encounters, and her friends have no way to bear the difficulties she encounters, so he didn't say it at all, or she chose to bear it alone, he chose to let herself bear these pains alone, he chose to let herself bear these difficulties alone, and he didn't allow his friends to bear them for him at all. Or she felt that if she said these pains, he would not feel any relief herself.

Because obviously if your friend can't help you, if you know that your friend can't help you, then obviously your friend can't bear the pain for you. If your friend can help you, then it is clear that you can talk to him about your pain and you can ask him for help.

"Actually, I didn't encounter anything that made me miserable, just because of my family's problems. I have a business at home. Probably someone cheated him, so now my father is in a very difficult situation. ”