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Xu Zhaodi was unwilling to put it forward, the bride price money is set for these money, but the things that are too big gifts can no longer be missing.

Traditionally, "three books and six ceremonies" are required for happy events.

The three books are the letter of appointment, the letter of ceremony, and the letter of welcome. The six rites include Nacai, asking for names, Najib, Naji, asking for appointments, and welcoming relatives.

Traditional customs have been simplified a lot, and now everyone generally takes the "big gift" as the beginning of a wedding.

'Passing the big ceremony', also known as 'the next big engagement,' is one of the traditional wedding etiquettes of the Han nationality in China. It is also the most solemn ceremony in the marriage process, which takes place about 2 to 8 days before the wedding.

The man's family chose to set an auspicious day and sent it to the woman's house with gifts and a variety of gifts.

What does the man's family usually bring to the wedding ceremony?

The first indispensable is the bride price, which was previously unclear where to put it, but now it is placed in a piggy bank.

According to local customs, see how much others give and how much you give, generally according to the current trend, and the gift money symbolizes the man's family, implying that the bride will not be poor when she marries, so that the woman's family can rest assured.

According to traditional practice, before marriage, the man has the custom of preparing a wedding cake as a dowry.

The second is a load of cakes and snacks. Seal the red line with a newspaper and tie it into several packets, and paste the word "" in the middle (the snack bag must be even numbered).

Many people are not very clear about why to give wedding cakes and how to prepare wedding cakes in wedding gifts.

In fact, the wedding cake is used by the man's family to let the woman share it with relatives, to express the gratitude of the man's family.

The woman's family thanked her relatives for taking care of them over the years, and also expressed the joy of "my family has a girl who has just grown up", which also made relatives and friends happy.

The third is that "delicacies of the mountains and seas" are divided into four, six or eight types, the style and quantity are abundant and thrifty by people, usually each section is divided into two packs, regardless of the number of catties.

In addition to fat cabbage, other optional items include: abalone, oysters, scallops, shiitake mushrooms, sea, squid, dried shrimp, shark fin and fish maw.

The fourth is three animals: two pairs of chickens, two males and two females if the parents are incomplete, one pair is enough, and the chicken means vibrant;

A live lamb (it is not clear what the meaning of sending this lamb is, but it must have a deep =^_^= meaning), and the other half of the pork, from the double fly, that is, one piece is connected to open two.

The rest of the small east and west are prepared with combs: the so-called "one comb to the end, two combs of white hair and eyebrows, three combs of children and grandchildren", the comb has the meaning of "knotted hair", especially the white prime minister, refers to the husband and wife love each other all their lives, and grow old together.

Ruler: Measuring tool, extended to the standard of happiness in married life, refers to hundreds of children and thousands of grandchildren, happiness has a long history, and it is also a blessing for the newlyweds to rise step by step in their future life and career.

Mirror: represents perfection, completeness, and means the bride's beauty, and is a sweet and happy wish for the bride's married life; Even if time passes, it will still maintain the beautiful sustenance of youth, flowers and moons.

Dudou: It was originally a tool for measuring grain, and it was used in wedding ceremonies to show that the man's wealth was abundant and his family was wealthy, and his daughter could live a rich life with plenty of food and clothing, ease and worry-free after marriage.

Scissors: It is one of the "six certificates" in the traditional wedding, mainly used for clothing tailoring in life, and the wedding ceremony implies the bride's wedding life after marriage.

Abacus: A calculation tool used to calculate income and expenses in life, a small abacus in wedding etiquette, implying the ideal and planning of the newlyweds for a peaceful and prosperous life in the future, and being able to invest and manage their finances reasonably and win Guangmao financial resources.

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