When two people become more and more familiar. The assistant security captain felt that he needed to do something else. to make your relationship with this little security guard even better. Thinking about it, in fact, he didn't think of more good ways. The way he thought of it was actually to have a drink with this little security guard. So that's what he did.

On this day, when there is no one in the store. In other words, when the other employees in the store are off duty, when there are no customers in the store. The deputy security captain suddenly stopped him and said that he wanted to drink with him.

And he agreed. In fact, he is not very happy to eat with people he doesn't like, but if you are unhappy, you should certainly not simply refuse. Or that you will encounter a lot of unhappy things about yourself, and you will also meet people you don't like very much, but do you have to reject them?

If something that you are not happy about actually happens, do you have to close your eyes and act as if you didn't see it? Of course you can do that, but no matter how much you deny it, it did happen, and you should allow yourself to face it positively, or you should actively address it. If there are really serious consequences of this matter, of course you should not be afraid, and of course you should actively deal with the consequences of this matter. When you really don't like someone, but that person is pestering you to do something with you. Should you refuse?

In fact, you might as well agree to him at the beginning, you might as well do something with him at the beginning, because then he won't bother you anymore, because then he won't have to waste more of your time, or you can even teach him some things by communicating with him, teach him some things to make him understand some things so that he doesn't bother you anymore. All of this, of course, depends on the situation.

Now although this security deputy captain is also a person he hates, although he is also a person he doesn't like very much, but he doesn't really hate this security deputy captain, and he doesn't say that he must refuse this security deputy captain's invitation. So he agreed, and he wanted to see what was on the mind of this deputy security captain, of course, on the surface, the mind of this deputy security captain was obvious. Since the deputy security captain wants to invite him to dinner, since the deputy security captain still chooses this time, it means that the deputy security captain does not want to really disclose the relationship between the two people with him now, but the deputy security captain wants to establish an intimate relationship with him, so he chose to do such a thing at this time, but this is all a superficial phenomenon, that is, the surface situation is like this, but as mentioned above, you can never only look at the surface of a thing.

You should take a look at what's hidden beneath the surface.

In fact, this deputy security captain looks very distinctive, that is, the face of this deputy security captain is not a very ordinary face. Of course, this security deputy captain is not a very handsome person, the face of the deputy captain of this table is actually very special, this special even makes him feel that this security deputy captain is actually not a very ordinary person, yes, sometimes you can observe what kind of person a person is from a lot of details, you can say that a person is very powerful, you can also say that a person is a very ordinary person, but you must always have some basis, that is to say, what you say, you make judgments, there should be some basis, you can judge whether this person is powerful or not through these bases, you prove by your own judgment what this person really looks like as a person.

And at this moment, the face of this deputy security captain is even full of smiles, yes, this kind of smile even seems a little stammering, this smile even seems a little flattering. Of course he should be flattering, or in his heart he feels that he should be flattering, because he has requirements for this little security guard, because he has his own requirements for others. If you have an idea for a person, if you have a request for a person, if you want to ask this person to help you with something, if you want to ask this person to borrow some money, then obviously, you should smile at someone. You should be flattering to others, and you should show your best attitude towards others.

Of course, he doesn't really approve of this kind of expression of others, that is, although he thinks that he is a person worthy of the stammering of this security vice-captain, he also does not want to get this kind of treatment, because he does not want to be a person who is stuttered by others, or he does not need to be stuttered by others at all, because what he needs is actually something real. Of course, the stammering of this security deputy captain is also a real and real thing. Although it is true, all real things are divided into good and bad, and all things that are cherished are graded. Obviously, this security vice-captain's stammering is useless, and this security vice-captain can stammering is of no use to improving his strength, so he actually doesn't like it very much, since he doesn't like it, then he also said it, he said that he doesn't like this expression.

But when he said this, the face of the deputy security captain was actually not very good-looking, yes, no one would make his face look good, and there was no one who was not embarrassed at this time. Because I like this security deputy captain very much, he wants to show his respect, and he wants to show his respect, but it is obvious that he does not really express his thoughts correctly, and he does not express his respect very correctly. So he slapped the horse's leg on the horse's leg. Of course, he didn't actually regret it, or he felt that he was actually right to make such a respectful expression, at least better than his cold face. Yes, in fact, in everyone's life, or in everyone's philosophy, everyone should think like this.

That is to say, when you have requirements for others, when you want to ask others to do something, when you feel that the other party is worthy of your respect, of course you should let yourself respect others, when others give you a face, of course you should not care about other people's opinions, or of course you should not care about other people's preferences, whether others like it or not, whether you like it or not, since you have needs, since you have your own inner thoughts, of course you should make this expression, or of course you should make some expressions that you think can express your heart, and you can only express your own mindIf the other party doesn't like it, then there is no bigger problem, because obviously, the other party understands your mind, the other party understands your mind, and the other party accepts your mind, but maybe he doesn't accept your way of expressing your mind, as long as you remember to correct it next time, as long as you remember to improve your method next time, it will be perfect. But if you don't do such a thing this time, if this time you still beg others to do things with a cold face as before, it is obvious that others will not like you even more, and others will not appreciate you very much.

When he saw the embarrassed look on the face of the deputy security captain, he knew that his sentence was actually not very appropriate, yes, although he knew that others wanted something from him, although he knew that he was a person with a higher status now, but no matter how high or low your status, no matter what kind of person you are, he felt that he should be humble, or that he should take care of other people's feelings.