2089 Thoughts
This girl will not say what she really thinks in her heart so easily.
"Okay, okay, let's stop talking, since Bai Xiaohua has understood, then we don't need to say anything more, but obviously, we really need to advise you, in fact, girls can be reserved, girls can also care about their own face, but obviously, if you really want to go on with others, if you really love that man, then you should learn to manage yourself. That is to say, you should let yourself not care about your own face, you should let yourself be in the face of men, in fact, men love face, if you really love that man, you should save men's face, in fact, women's face is not important, of course, I am not saying that men are important, women are not important. Rather, sometimes a man is like a child, so women should be more sensible. ”
In the face of such a tirade from his friend, Bai Xiaohua agreed from the bottom of his heart, he felt that sometimes a man is indeed like a child.
"You're right, I'm probably already feeling that way by now. Actually, this is my first time in a relationship, and I feel like I'm good enough. I also know I misunderstood him. ”
When Bai Xiaohua's friends heard the word misunderstanding, they probably understood what kind of situation Bai Xiaohua had encountered, obviously Bai Xiaohua's boyfriend must be with another girl, if Bai Xiaohua's boyfriend was with someone else, then Bai Xiaohua should of course be angry.
Yes, if a woman sees a man with another woman, and the woman is not angry at all, it only proves that the woman has nothing to do with the man, and if the woman is the man's girlfriend, then it is obvious that the woman should be angry, and if the woman is not angry at all, then that is the big problem. So, if you have a girlfriend, then obviously, if your girlfriend is angry with you, it only proves that your girlfriend cares about you.
Therefore, Jiang Fan understands this truth, so Jiang Fan officially understands this truth when he comes here to apologize. If Jiang Fan doesn't understand this truth, if Jiang Fan just blindly condemns Bai Xiaohua, if Jiang Fan's heart just blindly thinks that Bai Xiaohua is ignorant, if Jiang Fan's heart just blindly thinks that Bai Xiaohua is a person who is particularly easy to be jealous, then it is obvious that Jiang Fan will not choose Bai Xiaohua to be his girlfriend at all, or Jiang Fan will not let you Bai Xiaohua be his partner.
It seems that Bai Xiaohua is really angry this time. ”
Sometimes just because you understand a truth doesn't mean you can actually follow it.
Or sometimes you already know the truth of the matter, but obviously, sometimes you doubt yourself, sometimes you overturn the truth, sometimes you doubt the truth, sometimes you have other ideas.
If Jiang Fan is a little more determined at this time, if Jiang Fan has no other distracted thoughts at this time, then it is obvious that Jiang Fan should not have such thoughts at this time.
Yes, Jiang Fan shouldn't have such thoughts at all, Jiang Fan shouldn't have such thoughts at all, Jiang Fan shouldn't even have such thoughts. Obviously, Bai Xiaohua was not angry, yes, what is angry, it can only be said that the person did a wrong thing, and then this person especially hates this thing, so this person is angry.
But obviously, Bai Xiaohua was not angry, Bai Xiaohua also knew that he shouldn't be angry, he knew that he had no reason to be angry now, because he understood that the other party was not wrong at all, and the other party apologized to him. But that's what Jiang Fan thought. Jiang Fan felt that Bai Xiaohua was angry, if it wasn't for Bai Xiaohua being angry, then why didn't Bai Xiaohua come down now.
This is what Jiang Fan is thinking at the moment. So, it's not a particularly good thing for a girl to be reserved, and if you're very reserved, then obviously you're creating an illusion. This illusion is that you are really angry, you don't want to be with others anymore, you have completely hated other people. If you particularly hate a man, if the man feels that you particularly hate him, then it is obvious that the man will not be in love with you again. Obviously, the two of you before thought it was a misunderstanding, before the two of you thought it was just a simple quarrel, before both of you thought it was just a small thing, but you got angry for a very small thing, you ignored others for a very small thing, you really started to hate others for a very small thing, and really began to doubt other people's character, so obviously, this thing really hurt others, and this thing also really hurt this man, so of course this man will not be so happy at this time。 This man will even be particularly sad and indignant at this time.
"Bai Xiaohua, since they have already given you the steps, then you can go down, why don't you go down here?"
Bai Xiaohua didn't know why he hadn't gone down yet, it was obvious that he should go down at this time. At this time, he has forgiven others, because he is no longer angry at this time, because at this time he also understands that there is a misunderstanding between the two people, because at this time she also understands that she is actually not angry, but it is obvious that Bai Xiaohua at this moment does not want to go down, Bai Xiaohua does not want to face that man.
Ten minutes later, Bai Xiaohua figured it out, because he felt a little ashamed.
Yes, Bai Xiaohua felt very ashamed, because it was obvious that last night was a misunderstanding. What happened last night was also a very simple misunderstanding. But because of such a very simple misunderstanding, he began to doubt the man's feelings for her, so Bai Xiaohua at this time was a little ashamed, so Bai Xiaohua at this time felt that she should not be, so Bai Xiaohua at this time also felt that she had no face to face that man again, anyway, Bai Xiaohua at this time actually felt that she had no face to face others at all, anyway, Bai Xiaohua at this time was angry with herself, anyway, all in all, Bai Xiaohua at this time was suspicious of herself。
"Am I really the right lover for him?"
Bai Xiaohua asked herself in her heart, or another person was torturing Bai Xiaohua. Or rather, Bai Xiaohua is questioning herself.
"Maybe I don't love him enough. ”
This is the first conclusion that Bai Xiaohua has reached, yes, he feels that he may not love others enough, if he loves others enough, if he loves Jiang Fan enough, if he is rational enough, if he is good enough, then it is obvious that he should not doubt other people's feelings, and he should not doubt himself, yes, in addition to doubting the feelings of that man, he also has doubts about himself.
First of all, he felt that he was good, he felt that he deserved the love of that man, and he just didn't deserve to be treated like this. Yes, when the unit misunderstanding occurred, it was obvious that she had doubts about the man, he felt that the man should not treat her like this, she felt that the man's love for her was not particularly deep, he felt that the man's love for her was not particularly innocent, anyway, all in all, she had doubts about the man, he had a great disgust with what the man had done, and she also had doubts about the man's character.
Yes, of course he would have doubts about a man's character, because it was obvious that Jiang Fan should not do such a thing. But he just believed it. Originally, he should have believed that Jiang Fan would not do such a thing, but he really believed that Jiang Fan would do such a thing, so he understood that he had doubts about Jiang Fan's quality, if you can doubt others once, then obviously you can doubt others a second time, if you can doubt others three times, then you can doubt others a fourth time.
Anyway, once the doubt arises, then the doubt will persist. Yes, this is Bai Xiaohua's idea, obviously, Bai Xiaohua's idea is a little naïve, and Bai Xiaohua's idea is also a little selfish.
"Bai Xiaohua, have you drilled the tip of the horns?"
Bai Xiaohua knew that he had drilled the tip of the horns at this moment, but obviously, although he knew that he had drilled the tip of the horns, he felt that he still had no way to get out of it by himself. He feels that if he really doubts others, then it is obvious that he is not a firm person, if he is not a firm character, if his love for others is not so deep at all, if he does not love others so much, if he does not have so much confidence to be with others, then it is obvious that he should not be with others, he should not delay other people's time, it should not delay other people's feelings, and he should not waste other people's youth.