Chapter 060.Phrases.Love is chatter

& Time September 15, 1986, the evening rain will be the time to leak the beginning of the silence &

Scattered on the blank page of the poem notebook "Flowers, Flowers".

===Give it to her and give it to yourself ===

1). Forget what you should forget, to the point of 'having no time to take care of it'.

2). Please do not be blindly confident, nor blindly inferior, pay attention to this topic: compare Marxism with the traditional idea of the mean, and find out the qualitative similarities and differences. [Not an existing conclusion, but a unique discovery in nature.] 】

3). Listen to my explanation of "unity and tension, strict sù liveliness". Your emotions have changed so much, your plasticity is so great that you can't even find a shadow of your past. So, I still have to say - your experience, you should understand the feelings. Singing, just sing your love, where are the strengths of your love, where are the strengths of your character, where are your intellectual strengths? Your career is how to make yourself a talent.

4). I have expressed my attitude to Minister Chen of the Municipal Party Committee and Principal Zeng of the school, and I will be responsible for your growth. So, there is some help that you can't refuse. No matter how boring this help is, it turns out to be so. For affection, as with other qiē, I do not advocate repression and restriction, but rather regulation. Transforming brotherhood and love into friendship is also a kind of 'superb' transformation. [As early as the age of nineteen, I misinterpreted this word, this kind of strength, the recipient will not be happy to accept it. 】

5). To you, I have to remind you to pay attention to the accumulation, to pay attention to the good handling of these accumulations, I am the one who pays the most attention to these two things among us [these are two things, not one, and if you mix one you will be ignored], I will not explain the reason for this, and you should understand that this is the difference between me and them.

6). If it is because of me, you lose your self-confidence and feel inferior, which is not surprising and normal. Everyone has their own strengths, and everyone has their own places and times when you lose your self-confidence and feel inferior. But I think it might help us move forward 'in sync'. We have the ideal for each of us, because one person walks in front, he can turn back and pull the rest of the people. Others will also work hard to catch up because they are lagging behind.

7). We had to keep an eye on these two words, 'location' and 'distance'. Please pay attention to them, both in life and in study. The position of the person is different from the person, and the distance from the target is different for each person. At different times, people are in different positions and at different distances. Use your wits and abilities to find your sweet spot. And, because of the time trick, you'll have to constantly adjust your position.

8). You just feel the distance between me and you, and you find that the distance between me and me is getting farther and farther away - in fact, this is just a situation. We may be far away, we may be close, or we may not be at all. I said to you, I am a strange book, and in this respect, this book is strange, it is the master of location and distance, it can go far, far away from you, or it can be right next to you. Time, location and distance, when I have time to write a book, this topic will be blown by me and 'the sky is falling'. [My words have been obviously difficult to understand since junior high school, and I think it's because my words have more connotations than they are commonly used, and I'm wrong.] 】

9). We don't start from the same running line at the same time to the same goal with the same stride and frequency, and our own conditions are not equal - of course we will run with different results.

10). The old specimen did not find out the difference between himself and us, and of course he could not find the distance between us, which is a fact, and he even admits it painfully. To recognize our different positions and calculate the changing distance between us, we must have a correct, true and clear understanding of the world we live in and his ideal model. It's not that I'm bragging, as far as I know, this is something that only I can do in our small world, and even a gentleman can't. Gentleman, lose the false self-esteem on the **, admit this from the heart, don't be angry, anger is a kind of expression of self-willedness, it indicates that the cultivation is not enough.

11). People, who does not have pain, bear the pain by themselves, do not use pain to infect others, [others may be brave to bear the pain for you, but I advocate that my own people should learn to bear it themselves], but should take the initiative to share the pain of friends. I object to the old-fashioned view of suffering, but it's not to say that our conversations and our articles don't talk about pain. We should say, and we have to say it well, and we have to deal with it. If you have really suffered, you will find that the so-called pain of the old kind is not enough of the real level of pain, but like the fake pain of 'disease-free**', the real pain is more than that. If we are defeated by such false suffering, we deserve it.

12). I'm sorry for the old thing, this is just my personal true opinion, I can't hide our differences, otherwise someone will fall into the deep well between us and can't get out. We should not be in contention. Perhaps, the correct answer is not in our hands, and we are still looking for it. Yes, whether you or I, young us, no matter how correct the answer is, let's keep a doubt first.

13）.‘ I am a dandelion seed, and no one knows my happiness or sorrow...... 'This time, no one can resemble what it is like to be physically ill by that fateful 'little negligence', and I will not exaggerate it here. It wasn't until I warned my readers in my treatise [No!] about 'Breath Transmission' that I told my readers, by the way, how to deal with this suffering. This monograph, that's when you stumbled upon Qigong Therapy and Fitness in our house, and you asked, 'Is this yours?' ''No wonder your body is so great.'' Actually, there are a lot of things in this book that are not very good. There may be some places where there is a mistake. 'Can you write a book like this?'' Absolutely. I had a similar essay when I was a freshman in high school—this is what we call this book.

14). Broad and profound, all-encompassing, high places are not cold, sorrow is the most bitter, the pursuit of health things, to never be satisfied, but when the external help can not meet your requirements, do not have too many complaints, to know that everyone has an insatiable heart, the old way to the help of the situation can not solve all the problems, the complaint is bigger, the gentleman's complaint to the society is also bigger? too many unnecessary complaints, will make your wheel of struggle difficult to start. Even if it is reluctantly launched, the rotation is not so cheerful. Knowing how to give is a thousand times happier than receiving grace.

15). Yihe, you said in my diary that if I have the ability in the future, I will repay you. In my heart, I don't want you to repay, but if there is a time when you must repay, I still accept it and bless you from the bottom of my heart. No one can deny that he has no chance of a catastrophe from which he will never recover. Maybe I will fall into poverty and no one will take care of me, and in the midst of a very difficult life, I will write books and speak according to my creed, and become a 'mentally ill' that everyone spites about, and then it will be a great blessing for me to be able to repay me.

16). I think that in the future, I can organize my 'crazy dream' book in this way, based on a 'red-depicted' novel written by my own experience, and use all my knowledge and ability to play with it, which is a better structure, and it will make my topic 'have a basis'.

17). Strange woman's writing:

"I know how to go my way

May you also strive for your ideals

Sing praises to the people with all your heart

May we merge not far away!"

18). Su Zi said: "There is hatred and no one is provincial." The gentleman gave me a word, and he said, "Dignified, yes, dignified, that word is appropriate." Lu You also said: "I have no intention of fighting for spring, and I am jealous." ”

19). To my own attention: the division between public and private is not very good, because even if it is the same person, the starting point of doing one thing is not very simple, and often it is necessary to take into account public and private and others in advance. In the relationship with the old one, another her, strange women, etc., there is no longer a need for the unity of the starting point. Mature people know how to walk my way. Don't dwell on some small misunderstandings, I'd love to make a note of the physical discomfort at this time, and also sort out the complex adjustment methods. But I can't do that. "I love to see the first rays of light appear on the horizon......" writes Wood Axe.

20). From Yueping, Xiao Chen, Chen Yueping, to Yueping's classmates, and then to his younger brother's classmates, this is the distance that is getting farther and farther. I can't make up my mind, there are some things that I should say or not, and whether I should be honest all the time? But one thing is certain, there are many things that are not good for me personally. People seem to have deprived me of the right to joke, and they will take my jokes seriously [I took them seriously], and I still have a lot of things to say during the holidays. I can't finish my actions in words, and it doesn't have to.

21). I not only hurt his self-esteem, but also made her cry 'I want to learn!'. She felt inferior and lost some of her self-confidence. Is she more sober? more aware of herself? Sometimes, it is a cruel torture to recognize herself. The famous quote of the British scientist Huxley: "In the eyes of the dictator, the wisdom of freedom and the freedom of wisdom are the greatest enemies." ”

So, what about us, our 'view of freedom'?

Personal integrity is a topic that cannot be avoided.

Yi He is right, there is nothing wrong with the old way, but I am wrong.

Remember, people complain about others, and they complain about death. Don't be weird.

It is necessary to see all kinds of things outside of the human body.

Let the light of wisdom, the power of no resistance, the chest of all things, and the warrior of justice.

22). Even if one day, you go through a thousand hardships and dangers, and love is rewarded, but have you ever thought about it? In addition to love and family, what else have you got? Happiness? Are you happy? Sober up?