He started to get himself drunk, he started to let himself numb himself with alcohol, he started to let himself forget those memories with alcohol, he started to let himself forget those painful memories with alcohol, he started to let himself forget those memories that he couldn't forget.

Obviously, alcohol can't really help you, alcohol can't make you forget those painful memories, alcohol can't make you forget the people who make you miserable. Alcohol has no way to make you forget the things that make you miserable. But everybody will choose to drink heavily at this time, everybody will choose to get drunk at this time, because when you get drunk, you will forget about those people for a while, forget about those things for a while. Because when you're drunk, you can temporarily make yourself feel at ease, and because you're drunk, you can temporarily numb yourself. But this is not a long-term solution after all, in the end you still need to rely on yourself to get out of that relationship, and in the end you still need to let yourself out of that painful memory.

Yes, when a person falls out of love, when a person loses the person he really loves, when a person loses his cherished feelings, it is obvious that you should let yourself really come out, you should not let yourself be trapped in painful memories and can't get out at all, you should really come out, you should not let yourself fall into those painful memories and think about those painful things. You should go out and take a look, you should go out to travel, you should go out and let yourself get in touch with more people, you should go out and let yourself change your mood, you should go out and let yourself not be so miserable, you should go out and let yourself not continue to suffer in a painful environment.

Of course, if a person really loves someone, if this person really loses someone, if this person knows that he has no way to go through the rest of his life with this person, if he knows that he has no way to live with another person for the rest of his life, it is obvious that he will not get out of the pain so easily, and he will not forgive himself so easily. Yes, it was because you were wrong that you lost them, because you were wrong, that you really made yourself miserable, because you were wrong, because you made mistakes, so you couldn't forgive yourself so easily, so you couldn't really get out of the emotional world. It's because you're wrong, it's because you can't get out of that emotion that makes you feel guilty. That's why you should really change yourself, so you should really summarize your mistakes.

Yes, you should summarize your mistakes, you should let yourself out of the painful emotions, you should allow yourself to correct your mistakes, you should reflect on yourself, you should think about what you did wrong, you should think about how you should do it. Yes, when you meet another girl in the future, when you encounter a new relationship in the future, it is clear that you should not allow yourself to make such mistakes again. Obviously, you shouldn't miss that girl, obviously you shouldn't let yourself struggle with painful memories, you shouldn't let yourself struggle with the past, you should think about how you should treat this new relationship, how you should treat this new girl who appears, how you should go the next way with a girl you meet.

If you are still suffering in the past, but you are still struggling with painful emotions, if you are still struggling and not forgiving yourself, if you are still in the emotions of not forgiving yourself, then obviously you have no way to go the next way with others, you have no way to live a happy life with this new girl, you have no way to meet this relationship with a new mentality, you have no way to live a new life with a real single-minded mentality, you have no way to make yourself happy in a new life, and you have no way to make yourself worthy of the current girl in a new life。 Yes, if you know that you are wrong, if you are in pain now, then obviously because you have made mistakes before, if you didn't make mistakes before, you will not be in pain at all, you don't need pain at all, and you don't need to change yourself at all, so in the end, the most urgent thing you need to do is to change yourself, that is, to really get yourself out of the pain.

In the end, he actually came out, and in the end he actually forgave himself. Yes, one should forgive oneself, or one should rightly forgive oneself. If you do something sorry for others, if you have caused a lot of harm to others, it is obvious that you should not forgive yourself so easily, or you have to forgive yourself in a divided way, if you have caused a lot of harm to others, if you have made a big mistake, it is obvious that you should not forgive yourself so easily, or only when others forgive you, you can forgive yourself, only if you have made some amends, only if you make up for others, you can truly forgive yourself. If you just forgive yourself, if you don't do anything, you just let yourself forgive yourself. Such a person is also just a person who loves himself. It is impossible for such a person to live a good life, and it is impossible for such a person to be loved.

Yes, if you only love yourself, if you don't have love for others, obviously, others won't love you either, or that others can't really love you. If someone really falls in love with you, it is clear that this person is not in love with you, but in love with your status and your money. Yes, if you really want to get a perfect love, if you really want to get a real love, then obviously you should really love others, you should really be a person who is willing to give, you should be a person who is really willing to give love, you should be a person who can really make others feel happy, only such people can get love, only in this way can you get the love of others.

In the dream, he may still be fantasizing that he can get the love of the original girl again, in the dream he may still be fantasizing about some impossible things, in the dream, he may still be fantasizing about some things that he can't do at all, in the dream he may still be fantasizing about being able to get people that he can't get at all, but he knows that those things that only appear in dreams, those things that he only thinks in dreams, and those things that he can only think about in dreams.