Now thinking back to his wife's words and cognitions at that time, I find that it is more in line with today's social reality and marriage and love ecology 20 years later.

I was listening and pondering my wife's words, and when I saw that I didn't speak, my wife continued as if talking to herself: "The waves are very beautiful, the wind and waves are gone, the water surface is calm after all, and life is the same. Hand in hand, go back and forth together, accompany each other forever, and truly do it, in order to be regarded as a long-term love. ”

My wife's high-minded talk amazed me at the same time, and at the same time, my heart was full of doubts: This girl has only graduated from college, how can she have such a deep understanding and understanding?

"You're not going to get married, are you?"

As soon as the words came out, I immediately regretted it, but it was hard to recover.

Although my wife did not show obvious displeasure at the time and did not argue about it, the politeness and politeness of the breakup that day was enough to make me realize the seriousness of the situation.

Later, when I called my wife again, although she did not refuse to answer my call, she was polite and polite, and obviously distanced herself.

"What I can tell you is that I'm not married, I'm only 23 years old, and I haven't even had a boyfriend before you. ”

"I... I just asked casually, I didn't think about it, you ......"

"Don't call me anymore, do you?" my wife didn't listen to me.

I was completely dumbfounded, holding the phone in my hand and unable to spit out a word.

That's it!

My suspicion of her was undoubtedly a disservice to her.

I regret deeply, I don't think about eating, and my mind is full of her shadow when I met my wife in those days.

When we met for the first time, the introducer introduced the two of us to meet and got to know each other, and then we didn't sit for a while and left.

We exchanged some simple messages and didn't know what to say, because I was so nervous that I didn't even dare to take a serious look at the girl across from me.

"Do you like movies?" I remembered that there was a movie theater nearby.

"You want to watch a movie?"

The seats in the cinema seemed to be covered in soft cloth, and I can't remember if they were two or singles, but I remember clearly that there were armrests between us. My wife was clinging to the handrail on my left, and I was not a gentleman but I did not dare to approach, and I was afraid of touching her, so I leaned to the right. I don't know if it was because I was too nervous or for some reason, but I went to the toilet halfway through, and when I came back, I still sat down on the right side of the seat.

The wife whispered, "Why are you sitting so far away?"

I didn't know how to reply, but I was much more relaxed, and I quickly leaned towards her, but I still didn't face her. Later, I didn't pay much attention to the content of the movie, and I kept wondering what my wife's words meant.

Actually, I'm not really honest, I'm just a little nervous and worried that I'll mess things up early, because I already have a good impression of her as soon as we meet, and I don't want to "offend" her.

Although her eyes were fixed on the screen, her mind was constantly devising what steps to use to test her true attitude.

Because I couldn't get close to the armrest, I had to pretend that I was tired of sitting and adjusted my posture, and casually put my hand on the armrest. But that's all, I didn't dare touch her hand over the handrail at that time.

I don't know if my wife had seen through my trick by then, but when I took my hand off the armrest, she quickly put her little arms and hands on the armrest.

Pretending to have pins and needles under my buttocks, I twisted my body, inadvertently put my hand on the armrest, and quickly retracted it after touching my wife's arm, which means to say: I'm sorry, I didn't mean to touch you!

After all, I didn't speak, and my wife didn't retract her hand, and continued to stare at the screen as if she didn't know.

Holy!(Dirty at the time) Can I be a little more daring!

I didn't have any idea of what the movie was going on, and after repeated ideological struggles and countless times of self-motivation, I still pretended to put my hand on the armrest unintentionally, but only a little bit, because the handrail was basically occupied by my wife's arm, and I was basically hanging my elbow in the air.

My wife still hasn't retracted her hand, which is a great encouragement to me.

If you don't do it, if you don't do it at this time, when will you wait!

I grabbed my wife's hand directly with my hand.

At that moment, I found that I was so embarrassed, I scared myself for a long time, and I almost didn't pee my pants, but they didn't mean to hide at all, and pinched my fingers in return.

Later, I held my wife's hand until the end of the movie, and the story of the movie didn't enter my mind at all, so I was secretly excited.

"What do you think of this movie?" asked my wife when I left the theater. I don't quite understand the smile on his face.

"The movie... Movies are okay, don't you think?"

"Do you like Ada?" the wife still had an eerie smile.

"Ada, which Ada?"

"How many Ida do you know?"

"I don't know Ada, huh?"

My wife covered her mouth with her hands and quickly turned away, turning her back to me.

Later, I learned that Ida was the heroine in the movie "Piano Lesson" just now.

It's a shame to be thrown to my grandmother's house.

When I got out on the street, I didn't dare to hold my wife's hand anymore, and I don't remember what we talked about, but I remember that my wife said after I didn't know Ada, "I knew you didn't watch the movie properly." ”

The wife is not the kind of girl who is particularly beautiful and stunning, and her skin is not very fair, but her facial features are still relatively delicate, her eyes are dark and shiny, especially a pair of dimples that look very good when she smiles.

She was also well-proportioned, and the bulge was a swear of her existence, but it was only discovered after a few contacts. Because the mentality and concept at that time were not as open as they are now, girls would not be as bold and exaggerated as they are now.

I just thought back to the few times I saw my wife, and finally went back to my last meeting and phone call with chagrin.

Suddenly, a detail in the last phone call made me suddenly feel bright: when my wife said on the phone that I should not call her again, the tail note was upturned and there was a "bar" word, wasn't that obviously a deliberative tone?

Is it really saved?

My wife is a very empathetic person, and although my suspicions hurt her, she didn't make me unduly difficult.

After finally resuming the meeting, my wife was full of spring breeze, and her attitude of ignoring the past gave me great comfort to the anxiety.

I was steady, I was bold, and I began to flamboyate.

I hurriedly confessed my mistake to my wife: I really didn't expect that you, a hot college student who had just come out of the pot, would have such a profound understanding of love, even more than many middle-aged and elderly people who have had marriage and family experience, I was so surprised and admired that I couldn't believe it, so I asked that stupid question that didn't have a brain. I'm not really suspicious of you, don't worry about me, you should be my sister, no, aren't you a teacher, I will be yours from now on.

"You're not saying I'm getting old before I get old, are you?"

"No, no, no, that's definitely not what it meant. ”

"You don't have to doubt me, and I don't hide anything from you. Don't be confident, I know very well that you look ordinary, but from your experience and fragments of language, I can see that you are an enterprising person and a person who cherishes family affection, and I haven't found any bad habits or bad qualities in you for the time being......"

My wife stopped, probably observing my reaction, and stared at me for two seconds before continuing: "I'll just open the net, continue to associate with you, and give you a chance to mend your ways." ”

"Thank you for not caring about the villain!" Although I usually behave more modestly, my wife's amnesty gave me the courage to continue to be poor.

I couldn't hide my excitement, so I took a sip on my wife's forehead and circled around in my arms.

This reassuring pill finally entered the stomach.

Thinking about it now, those celebrities and big names, the love dog food that they spilled out is still steaming, and in the blink of an eye, the news of cheating, new love, or tearing the face of the divorce to the court is flying all over the sky, and I realize more and more the precociousness and wisdom of my wife.

At this time, I am so confused about sleeping with Wenwen, how can I not miss my deceased wife, why don't I want my wife to help me analyze and give me some guidance?

But after Wenwen's incident, I didn't bother to look for my wife for a few weeks.