Chapter 602: The Irony of Laughter (Thanks to Sister Xue for the tip)
As for the stepfathers and mothers, they are still in their prime, and they don't need Yishoudan for the time being.
However, Gu Fanxin is ready to conquer a Danfang that he has not tried and dedicated to his stepmother and father-in-law: that is the Dingyan Dan, if they succeed, they can always maintain their current appearance.
Gu Fanxin took out a few glass bottles, and labeled each bottle and sorted them into categories.
Fortunately, this ordinary pill can be stored in an ordinary glass bottle, and there is no need for panaceas such as Peiyuan Dan and Yang Qi Pill to be stored in a jade bottle or jade box.
In this way, ordinary packaging bottles will not be noticed by people with ulterior motives.
First of all, put together the four portions for Grandma Hai.
These four people are her relatives in her past and present lives, although grandma always chooses to give up herself when she faces conflicts between her parents and herself, but after all, she has been born and nurtured in her past and present lives.
Although it was the mother who really gave birth to herself, but the mother only gave birth to this body, and if it weren't for the grandmother, she would have really disappeared from this world a long time ago!
It's like what ei feng sings in the song: Sing a mountain song to the party, I compare the party to my mother; My mother only gave birth to me, and the party's brilliance shone on my heart, and when the old society whipped me, my mother would only shed tears......
In fact, ei feng is still better than himself, at least there is a mother who really loves him. The mother is kind, and the son is filial to his parents, which is touching.
Grandma's dedication to herself is more like a kind mother.
In Gu Fanxin's mind, grandma is like her real mother, from the time she was a naked baby, grandma has taken on the responsibilities that a mother should fulfill, and her real biological mother herself has not even drunk a sip of her milk.
Grandma has grown up from the time she was a ruler, a handful of and a handful of urine to pull herself, from babbling to toddler, leading herself step by step, taking care of herself, the so-called parents didn't even look at herself with the right eyes!
I heard that when I was a toddler, my grandmother was going to relieve her because the family was poor and there was no stroller, and no one helped her hold the child, so she temporarily put herself in a chicken cover, which is a small mouth and a large chassis made of bamboo or rattan, to protect the chickens.
The parents patronized their eldest son, and no one looked inside the chicken hood.
Then he was sad, and he continued to walk forward with the chicken cover, and then leaned over and fell there. …… And then the head broke!
And when they were a little older and a little more useful to them, they used themselves as a little servants to squeeze.
And grandma always tries her best to protect her, so she will subconsciously ignore grandma's harm to herself. Always be accommodating and tolerant in this way.
As for his father and mother, Gu Fanxin didn't plan to give them any pills at all, and even the spiritual spring water didn't plan to give them at all.
To say that I used to have fantasies and hopes for the so-called parental affection, but I was worn out again and again by their birth.
Don't use the words "people are not saints and sages, who can do no fault" or "the world is all parents", and easily want to cover up those injuries to yourself.
In fact, she is also very stingy, with clear grievances, and there are kindnesses to repay kindness, and there are grievances to repay grievances.
Like my grandmother, who is now a devout Christian, she likes to apply the stories in the Bible books to everything.
He even took the trouble to read to her Matthew 5:38:42 about revenge.
"You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth.'" But I say to you, 'Do not oppose the wicked.' Whoever strikes you on the right cheek turns around and turns the left cheek and beats you, and if someone wants to sue you, he will take away your coat and his coat, and if someone forces you to go one mile, you will go with him two miles, and if someone asks for you, give him him, and if someone asks you to borrow money, do not refuse. ……”
Gu Fanxin understood what her grandmother meant at a glance, and this passage made her sneer.
Grandma deliberately took out this passage from the thick "Bible" for herself to read to her, she didn't think it was unintentional, hehe, in order to ease the relationship between herself and the family, grandma is really attentive!
For her so-called parents, she feels that she has done enough to be kind and benevolent in all aspects, but what is the result?
Does grandma feel that her granddaughter is prosperous, and her grandchildren, sons and daughters-in-law are down, and then grandma's mother is soft-hearted and begins to sympathize with her son and daughter-in-law again!?
Do you still want to make yourself like in your previous life, a daughter who was submissive to her parents and finally lost her life with a single-minded and filial piety?
He even beat a side drum and said that those who do big things should be open-minded and repay grievances with virtue. Especially to your own parents!
"There are no parents in the world".
"If a person is not a sage, he can do no wrong."
To put it bluntly, "The pi yan stinks, you can't cut it off and throw it away, right?"
Be a man and look forward, without the help of your mother's family, you will be too lonely in the future, and you will suffer......"
Complaining with virtue is a phrase we often hear, what does it mean when people usually understand "complaining with virtue"?
That is to say: Master Confucius taught us that if others bully you, you have to endure it, and if you are broken teeth, you have to swallow it in your stomach, and when others bully you, you should treat him better, use your love to influence him, and use your heart to move him.
With grandma's understanding, that is to say, if they beat you, you don't have to care about their resentment, use your own good virtues to treat your father's abuse, scolding and resentment, you don't resent them, you have to be good to them, treat him with your virtue and favor, and let them repent themselves, okay?
When your father and mother find out that you have not done anything wrong, they will come sooner or later to put down their prejudice against you, that is, the so-called human hearts are flesh and blood, you use your filial piety to influence them, obey them, after a long time, in the end, you will still know which is really filial to them!
Now Gu Fanxin is watching his grandmother become more and more disappointed.
Is it that he has always been obedient to "complaining with virtue" and honestly obeying their exploitation and oppression, and he is a good child, a good daughter, and a good granddaughter?
Think about it, if someone slaps me, I have to force a smile and laugh and say that you beat me well, the more you beat me, the better I will treat you......
Imagine, grandma, will you be dumbfounded when you encounter this situation, what a great sentiment ......!
"Grandma, I don't have such great sentiments as you, really, I can't. Gu Fanxin smiled sarcastically, and even laughed out of tears.
Let Liu Lanzhi, who was still ready to preach bitterly, automatically close her mouth.