"I remember a passage that said that when people have unfulfilled desires, they are at the painful end, and when they are satisfied, they are at the boring end, and that their lives swing like a pendulum between these two ends. ”

"I was shocked, I was right, I was sometimes bored, sometimes painful, but then, I was very surprised, why my pendulum always shook so fast, I was miserable and bored. ”

Feng Linhai's speech was still very interesting, and when he said this, many people were amused by him.

So I felt that he was sarcastic about me, I wanted to attack him, I wanted to beat him, I looked at the author's signature, it was Schopenhauer, I searched, and found that Schopenhauer was dead, I couldn't find him, so I had to throw away his book. ”

"Why would I want to attack him? ”

"Because he was the truth, he was a nasty honest man to me, so I wanted to attack him. ”

"You have to forgive people's bad roots, we always know the answer to the matter, but we run away from the truth and pretend to find it, and we don't allow others to tell you the truth that stings you. Whoever says it, you will immediately want to lash out at him and attack him. ”

"It's a pity that it's too late for me to throw the book, after all, I've already finished reading it. ”

"Even if I threw away the book, I still couldn't fool myself, the truth had been revealed by myself. I knew that the reason I was miserable and bored was that I was escaping from reality, because of a failure, I shrunk myself into a small world of drunken dreams and death, my vision was too low to see anything else, so the two parts of my pendulum were too close together. ”

"One second I'm miserable, the next I'm bored. ”

"But I knew the truth, and I still didn't want to change, until my brother, he told me, unwilling, wanted, why can't men change a little bit?"

"I thought about laughing, I thought about continuing to ignore him and be my own coward. ”

"But he didn't give me a chance, he didn't say anything, he didn't do much, just in front of my eyes, took me to drive his car, started his company in front of my eyes, and then stretched out his hand to me and asked me if I wanted to change it?"

So I opened my own bar, opened my own company, and had the courage to reach out and knock on every door that was closed to me. ”

"You have to admit that having the courage to live seriously in life is really a wonderful thing for me to enjoy, and I can feel that I have really become a god who controls the course of my life. ”

"I felt that I was a little less fragile, and slowly I was able to stand up and face my past self, and face up to myself who was curled up at that time. ”

"So today, in addition to saying love to the person I love, I also want to say thank you to my brother very sincerely, don't refuse!"

Lin Feng really didn't expect Feng Linhai to say such a thing on this occasion to thank himself, to be honest, he was a little moved, and after a moment of silence, Lin Feng smiled and nodded to Feng Linhai on the stage.

Feng Linhai's parents, who were at the same table, also looked at Lin Feng with gratitude, and they also knew that Lin Feng's help to Feng Linhai was far greater than they imagined.

Many old people of the Feng family, hearing these words, looked at Lin Feng even more kindly.

Even among those people in the Feng family, some of them were originally opposed to befriending Lin Feng with shares in exchange for development, and they began to understand at this time.

In this way, in fact, it is not bad to have such a person as a partner.

As a friend of Feng Luo's two families, he also looked at Lin Feng with understanding, and knew in his heart that he didn't blame their relationship for being so good.

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In fact, Feng Linhai said this, not just to say thank you to Lin Feng at an important moment in his life.

Talking about this at this time, in fact, Feng Linhai had thought about it before today.

First, Feng Linhai really wanted to say thank you to Lin Feng, but in addition to thanks, he also had thoughts.

No matter what kind of relationship, it requires the exchange of information and feedback, that is, communication.

It's just that relatives still need more communication to be more harmonious, Lin Feng has been helping him so much, he needs to feedback his gratitude to Lin Feng.

Second, Feng Linhai has not forgotten that Lin Feng came here, in addition to his engagement ceremony, he also came to make an appointment with the Feng family he invited.

Today's Feng family is here, and he needs to say these relationships and these words sincerely, so as to reduce some bad rumors brought about by the transfer of equity with Lin Feng later.

After all, your Feng family is in a hurry to send money and shares for the sake of development.

This knot, it's good to say, it's not good, it's a loss, it's also a well-known family in Suzhou Province, and some people will look down on it when it spreads.

From the Feng family's point of view, with such a realistic and deep layer of gratitude and reasons in it, no matter where it is transmitted, there will be no disparaging words such as saying the Feng family's dog legs.

People will only praise the Feng family for being emotional, and Lin Feng for being of good character.

There will be some disgusting words, which will make Lin Feng and the Feng family embarrassed when they hear it.

Third, it is to define this relationship in front of everyone.

No matter what happens to everyone in the future, both sides will have a layer of guaranteed friendship.

This is just like everyone says that when you are friends, you should not talk about money, but you are destined to talk about interests, and no one can say what will become of the two sides in the future?

Today's characterization can allow the Feng family and Lin Feng to face small disputes that may occur in the future with a softer mentality based on feelings.

Being able to be soft with each other and understanding can at least prolong the honeymoon period of cooperation for a very long time.

When Feng Linhai was engaged, he publicly talked about gratitude and said that Lin Feng was based on these three thoughts.

After all, Feng Linhai is a child of a big family, and the education he has received since he was a child is definitely an elite education.

From the time he was cheered up by Lin Feng, started his own company, started a business away from home, and started a business without his family, to today's quasi-family, he quickly absorbed the education he had and turned it into his own mature quality.

After Lin Feng was surprised, he immediately guessed Feng Linhai's thoughts.

Looking at Feng Linhai, Lin Feng also sighed in his heart, yes!

This is the right reason for his investment in Feng Linhai.

It can be said that Feng Linhai at this time, the intelligence he has is the one who is really qualified to cooperate with Lin Feng.

is a partner who can bring benefits to Lin Feng and can be assured enough, not the little brother who used to be completely pulled by friendship.

These are not careful thoughts, nor are they calculations.

It can only be said that this is the quality that a mature man, or a business or family helmsman, should have.

At the same time, Lin Feng saw Feng's father and Feng's mother with more smiles on their faces, and Lin Feng's heart was even clearer.

Obviously, this Feng Laoshuai also saw what Feng Linhai meant, and he was more satisfied with Feng Linhai at this time.

When he came to the stage to announce that all the shares would be given to Feng Linhai, even though his strength and vision were praised, Lin Feng didn't believe that he couldn't see his eldest son's expression when he stood on the stage.

If he didn't feel a little guilty about his eldest son, he wouldn't have been so unclear at home before, so that Feng An would have the heart to fight with Feng Linhai.

So after listening to Feng Linhai's words, Feng Laoshuai could smile a little more.

Obviously, there was less guilt in his heart, and he was satisfied with Feng Linhai's performance, knowing that he had chosen the right one.

This is the same as Feng Linhai talking about gratitude at a moment like today, it is not that there are bad intentions, nor between relatives, but there are so many careful thoughts.

It's just that the quality required between a big family and an ordinary family is different, and having true feelings and intentions in everything does not mean that it has to be very simple and purposeless.

Lin Feng sighed in his heart, this is a big family, and it is indeed different from ordinary people's way of thinking and communicating.