Gao Jun didn't care about this breakup tide, young men and women originally grew up in separation and reunion, and falling out of love was also described as a kind of beauty.

But now there is a situation where it is difficult to get together and disperse, and even men and women have begun to fight, which is not good.

Especially in these days, everyone is self-media, and their minds are still very open-minded, although their most relationship is only three months, but at least 90% of them have had a banging experience, and at least 20% of them have left some yellowed video materials.

Today is a fight, tomorrow we break up and turn our faces, if the fruit photos are exposed, it will be a big problem.

As counsellors, we must stop this trend.

The two people who fought came back after being reprimanded, and the homeroom teacher didn't want to pursue this kind of thing too much.

"I'll say a word to them. Gao Jun said to the head teacher.

"Then please. The homeroom teacher thanked him and left, which in itself should be the job of the counselor.

The more than forty people in the class sat honestly, and many of them tried their best to endure laughter, and the two enemies couldn't sit together, and they took the initiative to change places with them.

Gao Jun stood on the podium and watched, and waited until the classroom was silent before he spoke: "It's really weird to go back to school today, there is no joyful theme on weekdays, it seems that falling out of love and breaking up has become the theme, so it's okay, life is changeable."

But just now I noticed at the door that if you break up, you will break up, but there are many strange reasons for breaking up, which really makes people laugh and cry.

Girls say that boys only care about playing games and ignore themselves, which is a manifestation of naivety and immaturity, and boys say that girls are rude and willful and can't come, these are all reasons to break up, even if you say that your personality is incompatible, but what the hell is this gender incompatibility?"

Everyone finally couldn't help but laugh.

When they had laughed enough, Gao Jun said: "I remember as early as when school started, before the first weekend, I told my classmates that it was okay to fall in love, but you must know how to respect and cherish it, but it has only been less than three months, and the breakup wave has begun, what do you mean, is it because it is easy to get a partner in school, do you want to change a few more to try it out?"

Gao Jun's questioning made everyone's faces not look good, because almost everyone has such thoughts, whether male or female.

School is indeed an easy place to engage in objects, as long as you look at the right eye, you don't need a house, a car, a ticket or social status, ability and talent, as long as you look at the right eye, get along, and play together.

"I advise everyone to put away this kind of thinking, men in society complain that women are not first daughters, isn't it all caused by this kind of free atmosphere on campus? Just now there were girls complaining that their boyfriends really contacted their exes because they watched the movie "Ex", and if there was no ex, wouldn't there be no such thing?

In addition, the society is complex, the rivers and lakes are deep, and when you enter the society and need a car and house tickets to make friends, you will feel that it is difficult to fall in love, and why not find a good one to occupy it now?"

Everyone fell into deep thought, but Gao Jun knew that these words had little effect, because the environment was like this, it was indeed easy to get a partner on campus, and there were more girls than boys, and it was not new for women to chase men, some handsome and golden boys, and even each college had a girlfriend, more than Gao Jun.

So he pondered for a moment, and then spoke: "I mainly want to talk about this wave of breakups today, Lu Yao knows the horsepower, and sees the hearts of the people over time, among you people, the first to fall in love, and it has been almost three months since today, the good side and the bad side have also begun to be exposed, people need to get along, and it is natural to break up if they don't get along."

But there are a few issues that I would like to discuss with you today.

First of all, there is the question of the concept of love, that is, what kind of partner you want to find.

Girls are easier to understand, I know that many girls yearn for a man who can be like a father, unconditional, wholehearted, spoiled, loved, hurt, and coaxed by himself, I can't say that this is a luxury, after all, a good man who is obedient does exist.

But I just want to ask girls with this kind of mind, did your father beat you up when you were willful and disobedient? I think they should all be beaten, right?

So, when you find a boyfriend like your father, if they also beat you like a father when they can't bear it, will you be able to accept it too?"

This sentence made all the girls look indignant, and they were afraid of shooting the case, and asked loudly, who dares!?

It's like the typical mentality of just wanting to get, not wanting to give.

Gao Jun is only responsible for making suggestions and sharing his own ideas, as for whether they can listen to it or not, whether they are willing to comprehend it or not, it still depends on them.

So he changed his words and said: "Let's talk about boys, it's not a problem for boys to take the initiative to break up these days, but because of their incompatible personalities, they can't serve the eldest lady, and even because their girlfriends deleted their game equipment, these reasons are too nonsense, this is a sign of immaturity, there is nothing to say."

But there is one thing I must mention, and that is about the first daughter.

Don't you think that while you are in school, women are easy to deceive and have more girlfriends, and on the other hand, you hope that your girlfriend is a first daughter, don't you think this is inconsistent?

A man who proposes to break up because of the first daughter issue, I think this is no longer childish and ridiculous, but shameful.

I won't say much about the complicated principles and social issues, but I will tell you about the adult world and my own life experience.

I'm an older young man, and I can see this, so I'm also at the age of talking about marriage, and the old people in the family are anxious, so I also went on a blind date this weekend, and I met three of them in one go.

I won't say much about the specific situation, just a brief introduction to the three of them.

The first one, an absolute first daughter, is gentle, virtuous, has a stable job, does not wear makeup and does not spend money indiscriminately, and is willing to do housework and cook good dishes...... is this one who looks like Sister Feng and weighs ninety-three kilograms. ”

After Gao Jun finished speaking, the audience was in an uproar, and the voices of disappointment were endless, obviously everyone felt sorry.

Gao Jun sighed slightly, and said: "The second, a female white-collar worker, graduated from a doctoral student, has a promising future, is white-skinned, beautiful, bewitching, and an absolute white-collar beauty, but she has five boyfriends before, and she has had a cohabitation relationship with three of them, and she has also made a human life. ”

"Cut ......" The audience suddenly booed with disdain.

Gao Jun was very satisfied with their reactions, listened to their discussions, scolded the street, and after calming down, Gao Jun said again.

"The third, that's really the national color and fragrance, the model figure, fashionable and beautiful, has worked in a number of first-tier cities in large bathing centers and nightclubs, has a car, a house and millions of deposits and is willing to take it out and share it with me, and promise to be completely conscientious, live a single-minded life, ensure single-mindedness, she thinks I am an honest person, if I want, I can get a certificate with me next month. ”

"Whose ancestral grave is dug by honest people, who is recruited and who is provoked!?"

Gao Jun's words immediately aroused the anger of countless people, and they slapped the table and stared at the scriptures.

But scolding and scolding, the voice slowly subsided, and then became eerily quiet.

This is when everyone really fell into deep thought, both boys and girls.

The first one is almost perfect, but the looks are too ugly, and as for the second and third, either past is unacceptable.

However, these three kinds of people include almost all women in society, and if they can defend themselves like jade in this fancy world, how ugly do they have to look?

But if you want to be beautiful, you must have her past, have a career, have an independent, strong, good-looking, gentle and single-minded personality, and have millions of savings willing to contribute, then you have to be an honest person.

This is the real society, and it is so cruel.

"Dear students, I can tell you responsibly that if you think that you can fall in love at will in college, and you can not cherish others or yourself, then the vast majority of the girls here will become the second or even the third type of women. Gao Jun said solemnly: "Not to mention you boys, if you don't cherish it today, you must choose from these three kinds of women tomorrow!"

Please remember my words, and tell them to your roommates, your friends, and even more so that you remember that youth is short, and feelings are precious, so don't use them to squander, let alone waste them!"

After speaking, Gao Jun waved his hand and left in style.

As soon as I went out, I met Zhang Jiao, the little girl was looking at him with a smile, clapping her hands and praised: "Wow, this is the education class of Teacher Gao that everyone loves, it is really ingenious, it is really sharp, not to mention the students, even I have benefited a lot." ”

"Oh, tell me, what are the benefits of it?" asked Gao Jun more seriously.

"It gives me a lot of confidence. Zhang Jiao puffed up her chest proudly and said: "My mother, I have a successful career, I am innocent, I have no love experience, I am white-skinned, beautiful, in good shape, and ...... in character."

Before he finished speaking, the latter words were glared back by Gao Jun, and the girls who hammered the dead with their mouths open and closed their mouths can't be linked to gentleness anyway.

Zhang Jiao's face turned red, and she glared: "At least I'm the first daughter." ”

"Not necessarily, that thing, the hospital can fix it for three hundred. Gao Jun said.

"I'll rub it, I don't believe you try ......it" Zhang Jiao is this temper, saying that it will explode when she breaks out, but this time she held back, rolled her eyes and said: "Damn, don't come to this set." ”

Gao Jun smiled and said, "Okay, I know that you are a rare and superb product, and I must cherish it." ”

"That's pretty much it. Zhang Jiao snorted: "Let's get down to business, I came to you to tell you that I just received the news that Hu Bo is dead!"