Chapter 379: The Child's Status
"My wife is twenty years old this year, and when she got married, she was only eighteen years old. Ye Rongrong said.
"Twenty years old this year, it's really a little younger, old classmate, you're terrible, the old cow eats tender grass. Wen Haitang said jokingly.
"What kind of old cow eats tender grass, I'm not even thirty years old, okay. Ye Rongrong said depressedly. Why do men feel old when they are almost thirty years old?
"You and your wife are almost ten years apart in age, and you don't want the old cow to eat tender grass. Wen Haitang didn't care about the depressed look of his classmates at all, and said happily.
After all, old classmates, old tablemates, met after more than ten years, and some of them were classmates and friends, and they talked to each other very casually.
Unlike in school, you have to disguise yourself every day, think twice about what you say and do, and even beware of colleagues in the same office, because everyone is in competition, and you don't know when the other party will sue you in front of the leader.
Friendship with each other is always mixed with too many things, which makes people feel so unreal.
"This is called the old cow eating tender grass, so there are also thirty or forty years old between celebrity couples, what is it?" Ye Rongrong asked.
"Hehe, that's an old cow eating tender grass. Wen Haitang said with a smile.
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Half an hour later, under Dai Wanli's superb cooking skills, a sumptuous dinner was placed on the table.
"I said it's just a few of us, isn't it too wasteful to have so many dishes. ”
Ye Rongrong looked at the table full of dishes, and said with some control. His old classmates and husband and wife were too enthusiastic, which made Ye Rongrong a little embarrassed, for himself, he made so many dishes, and many of them were seafood that southerners love to eat. Expensive dishes.
Ye Rongrong is also a chef, and he often goes to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, knowing that this table of dishes costs seven or eight hundred yuan, which is still calculated according to the price of the vegetable market in the countryside, and the price of the vegetable market in the provincial capital. This table of dishes has to be thousands of them.
"This is specially approved by my wife, usually eat at home, just three or two dishes, and all accommodate children, this time it is thanks to the glory of you, I can have a good meal. Dai Wanli said with a smile.
"You're all fat like this, and if you get fat again, you won't be allowed to go to bed, and you'll die of pressure ~ on ~ your body. Wen Haitang glanced at his man and said.
"Huh. Don't show your affection in front of me, or the next time you come to my house, I'll show you it. Ye Rongrong said with a smile.
If he hadn't met Wen Haitang here, Ye Rongrong would never have thought that Dai Wanli, his best friend in junior high school, would end up walking together with Wen Haitang, the school flower at the time.
Looking at the loving appearance of their husband and wife, Ye Rongrong was very happy in his heart.
"Okay, who's afraid of whom, husband. You say yes. Wen Haitang said.
"Yes, everything my wife said was correct. Dai Wanli said with a sycophant.
"Huh. Wan Li, you're done, you're just 'wife and inflammation' now. ”
Ye Rongrong said with a smile. It seems that time can really change people's personalities, and now from Dai Wanli's body, Ye Rongrong can no longer see his fierce appearance in junior high school.
In fact, this is not the case with himself, Ye Rongrong couldn't help but smile bitterly in his heart, it seems that everyone is really starting to get old unconsciously.
"I think 'wife's inflammation' is pretty good. Anyway, someone hurts, isn't it?" Dai Wanli said.
"Yes, you're right, I don't know how many people envy you. Ye Rongrong nodded and said.
Although Ye Rongrong is very macho and Liu Jingqing is in a weak position at home, it does not mean that Ye Rongrong does not agree with Dai Wanli's statement.
"Wife management" is also a manifestation of love. Because I love you and care about you, that's why I will control you. It's just that different women behave differently.
Some women treat their men with her tenderness and let their men feel their full love, just like their wife Liu Jingqing.
There are also women who express their love for their men by restraining their men, but the expression is just a little more domineering.
There is no right or wrong between this, it's just that everyone chooses differently, and of course it is also related to each woman's personality.
Let's take Liu Jingqing as an example, Ye Rongrong wants her to be strong, but she can't be strong, because her character is naturally soft and weak.
However, this kind of soft and weak woman, once she is ruthless, is also very crazy, otherwise Liu Jingqing would not be able to run away from home.
"Wife, can I have a drink today?" Dai Wanli asked, looking at his wife.
"Hehe, I'm happy today, I'm licensed. ”
Wen Haitang said. Usually, Wen Haitang doesn't let him drink for the sake of his health, after all, people are fat, it's better to drink less alcohol, so that it is not easy to hurt the body.
"Begonia, you are this in your house. Ye Rongrong clenched his fists and stretched out his thumb to Wen Haitang and said.
"I'm not the number one in the family, this is the number one, I'm the number two. Wen Haitang smiled and pointed to his daughter sitting beside him and said.
"I'm the third, and I'm going to serve these two. Dai Wanli said with a smile.
Like many Chinese families, the status of children in the family is the highest, whether it is eating, drinking, wearing, or wearing, the first thing to consider is the children.
This is also what Dai Wanli said, usually at home, a family of three eats, that is, three or two dishes, and they are all accommodating to the children's love.
In Huaxia, there is the idea of respecting the old and loving the young, and it can be seen from this sentence that the status of children is higher than that of the elderly, because the old man just respects it, and you have to love the child.
People who have not been parents do not understand the status of children in the hearts of parents, and when they have children, they will find that life has changed.
But after having a child, all this has changed, and there will suddenly be an inexplicable sense of responsibility in my heart, and my husband and wife are no longer living for themselves, but for their children.
This is why children are the strongest bridge in marriage, and many marriages will not last long without children.
Because they don't have a common responsibility with each other, everyone is still making their own calculations, and this kind of marriage will not last long.
But once you have a child, you will have a common responsibility, which is to raise and nurture the child well.
When your child grows up, you have to think about your child's studies, and when your child graduates from college, you have to think about your child's work and marriage.
When the child gets married, you can't rest yet, and you still have to help the child take care of the grandchildren. When all this is done, when you look back, you will find that your husband and wife have gone through a lifetime before you know it, and they are about to go to Huangquan together. (To be continued.) )