Zhuge Liang has seven ways of being human, namely, asking about right and wrong and observing his will, being poor and observing his changes with rhetoric, consulting him with strategy and looking at his knowledge, telling him about his courage with calamity, drunk from wine and looking at his nature, looking at his honesty with profit, and looking at his belief with his deeds.

This Han family is really a scholarly family, and the old couple knows Zhuge Liang's old wisdom very well, and they are also quiet and handy when using it.

Therefore, just after taking a sip of wine under the table, Gao Jun didn't even eat the food, and his old mother-in-law, who has been a primary school teacher for 30 years, asked a big macro question: "Xiao Gao, you are a university teacher, what do you think about the problem of college students 'being unemployed after graduation'?"

This is to ask right and wrong and look at their aspirations.

I believe that every prospective mother-in-law is estimated to ask this, after all, people have no ambition, and if they do not have lofty ambitions, they are destined to make no difference.

Gao Jun is a teacher, she has this question, if Gao Jun is a practitioner in other professions, she will also have related questions, she doesn't care what you do, it mainly depends on your cognition of your own career, your future planning, and your own ambitions.

Gao Jun looked at Han Jingjing, but the chick only cared about eating with her head down, and didn't look up at her face at all.

Until she was deliberate, and her emotions did not calm down, Gao Jun could only smile and say: "Auntie, you are a macro social problem, including many factors in all aspects, first of all, we look at it from the good side, that is, educational resources are becoming more and more abundant, and the overall level of education of the people has been greatly improved, and it is no longer a stage where everyone has books to read, but most people can receive higher education."

Last year alone, there were nearly 8 million college graduates across the country, and in the same way, there are many people who aspire to high-quality jobs, so they naturally have to face cruel social competition and the law of survival of the fittest.

Since it is the survival of the fittest, we should focus on the students themselves to find the reason, why others can do it but you can't? Many people, dragging their luggage, carrying the dreams of the whole family, enter the campus and start an independent life, which they praise as the so-called freedom, and always feel that the time is still early, and they have fun in time.

Playing games, falling in love, makeup is more important than beauty, and even more important than studying, but they always blindly think that as long as they go out of school, they can do an earth-shattering career, but they don't know that in love, they waste the best opportunity to improve themselves and exercise themselves......

This is the main reason why many people are unemployed after graduation, what resource problems, social problems are secondary, students' own problems are the main one, want to change this situation, as a teacher, we must help students establish a correct learning attitude, cherish the time on campus, work hard to improve themselves, improve themselves, let them know that there are four seasons in the world, but there are only two seasons in life, hard work is the peak season, no effort is the off-season. ”

The three members of the Han family looked at Gao Jun, who seemed to bloom with the dazzling brilliance of a human soul engineer, Han Jingjing had heard before that there was an alternative counselor in the Foreign Language Academy, who openly told students in class how to fall in love, distinguish between green tea, and tell boys what to marry a and marry a.

As soon as she heard it, she knew that it was Gao Jun, and now it seems that she is really clever and eloquent, and she perfectly answered her mother's question from the teacher's standpoint, as for ambition, teaching students to become successful, this is a teacher's most ambitious ambition.

The prospective mother-in-law smiled at Gao Jun and expressed her satisfaction, but before Gao Jun had time to be proud, the prospective father-in-law beside him had already picked up the wine glass and said, "Come on, Xiao Gao, let's meet for the first time and have a drink." ”

Gao Jun hurriedly raised his glass, the cup was the first cut than the prospective father-in-law, touched it lightly, watched the prospective father-in-law take a sip, and then drank it himself, drinking a little more than the elder to show respect.

The old man has worked in the cultural center for a lifetime, and finally retired from the post of deputy director, and he is also a knowledgeable cultural person, and his face began to flush after taking a sip of wine, and they all said that people who drink on the face are easy to socialize, and some people can drink more when they drink.

Putting down the wine glass, the old man smiled: "It seems that Xiao Gao, you are also a person who understands wine, but you know that the ancients had many drinking rules." ”

The culture of wine has a long history in my dynasty, and this is part of my ancient civilization, which is to study the cultural connotation of Gaojun.

He smiled slightly, picked up the wine glass with his lotus fingers, and said: "The lotus finger holds the cup, which means that the wine is more fragrant than the flowers, holding the wine is like a flower, the full cup is a ceremony, not overflowing for respect, first respect the venerable, then respect the elderly, first the literature and then the military, first salute and then the soldiers, raise the glass lightly, go deep into the throat, stretch the eyebrows, throw the cup again, drink it all, not a drop is left, hearty and smart!"

After speaking, Gao Jun actually drank all the wine in the cup, and even heroically.

The prospective father-in-law is very satisfied, the secluded wine culture, the rules of drinking have long been ignored, what first respect the respected and then respect the elderly, now who is rich and powerful first respects whom, our excellent civilized traditions have long been corrupted by money, fame and fortune.

Could it be that Gao Jun still knows this, which means that he has a certain degree of cultural accomplishment.

"Oh, this kid is just gossiping, why are you still doing it. The prospective mother-in-law complained, but kept pouring wine for Gao Jun in her hands.

Han Jingjing sat aside without saying a word, pursed her lips, and looked at Gao Jun with a smile, the prospective son-in-law came to the door, the father-in-law and mother-in-law would be exquisite, every household was like this, but the ways and methods were different, his parents didn't ask him how much his salary was, but he had a car and a house and other worldly worldliness, which was already a poetry heirloom.

Gao Jun is very single, anyway, the ultimate goal of the old couple is to get themselves drunk, and to get drunk with wine to see their sex, then open up and drink.

Anyway, all kinds of torture and tests are inevitable for the first time, and compared with the temptation of these two cultural people, it is much better than asking for a house and a car ticket, so as to understand each other, and even a kind of elegance.

Gao Jun hadn't drunk rush wine for a long time, and this glass of white wine was in his stomach, his whole body was warm, and his face began to redden.

I only heard my mother-in-law say: "Nannan, this house is your choice, you are young and not with bad legs and feet, why do you choose a first floor, and it is too old, the lighting is not good, the pattern is not good, the decoration is also old-fashioned, Xiao Gao, why didn't you persuade this stupid girl at that time." ”

Gao Jun grinned, a pun, Gao Jun knew the old lady's intentions, and immediately said boldly: "This house was originally used by Jingjing as a laboratory, the school has many inconveniences, and she doesn't want to be too far away from the school, so she chose here, as for choosing the first floor, it is to prevent accidents and dangers in the experiment, and the first floor is convenient to dispose of."

Of course, I also think that this place is too old, and the layout is not good, but it is enough as a laboratory, as for the house we will live in in the future, I am looking, the suburbs are under construction, there are a number of real estate under construction, I heard that the city government will also move over, and there are also a number of large shopping malls at home and abroad will also choose there, both political circles and business districts, I have asked friends to help pay attention, and I will buy it when it opens. ”

Although Gao Jun's words were nonsense, he accurately grasped the old lady's pun, not only did he not care about Han Jingjing's wholly-owned house, but also promised that he would buy a wedding house in the future.

The old lady was very happy, and she vigorously served Gao Jun vegetables, which were her specialties.

This is to look at its incorruptibility with profit, and to look at its belief with its deeds.

The old man who refilled the wine then raised his glass and said: "Come, Xiao Gao, let's drink some more, seeing that your career is going well and getting along well, our old couple is very happy, and we should drink more if we are happy." ”

After saying that, the old man drank a big sip by himself, Gao Jun could only accompany him more or less, and began to say some homely gossip, such as asking Gao Jun about his age, education, family situation, etc., and no longer used routines to observe him, but the frequency of raising a glass was very high.

Gao Jun always felt that he would not be so easy to get past, the old couple was just Han Jingjing, a daughter, and there were many relatives and friends at home such as seven aunts and eight aunts waiting to watch the excitement, of course, they had to choose a son-in-law who was not only liked by the girl, but also able to earn face.

Every girl is the pearl of her parents' palms, just like a pot of flowers carefully served, she has worked hard for more than ten or twenty years, and she has not dared to relax her care for a day, and finally bloomed.

It won't be too happy for anyone, but there is nothing to be done, so the son-in-law's character and other conditions are very important.

At the last class reunion, Gao Jun asked about a female classmate who didn't come to attend, but was told that she married away from home a few years ago, and her parents strongly opposed it at that time, but she was determined to marry, but when love began to cool down, passion turned into feelings, her life was not satisfactory, there were friends who were good with her, and I once saw her circle of friends, on which was a thermometer, showing a high temperature of 38 degrees and 8, and a glass of water.

The accompanying paragraph is that the high fever is uncomfortable, and he asked me to drink more water, hehe, Mom and Dad, I was wrong.

Although I don't want to be in ancient times now, after a girl gets married, she can't go back to her parents' house without the permission of her in-laws, only the man divorces his wife, and the woman has no initiative.

But nowadays, women still rely on men for the most part, so marriage is not child's play, who doesn't want to start from the beginning, who doesn't want to form a happy family, happy life, rash divorce, youth is delayed, reputation is ruined, there is a risk of a second marriage, there is a risk of a third marriage.

Therefore, those mothers-in-law will fight for the old face, and ask for a car, a house and a deposit with red eyes, all in order to let their daughters have a guarantee.

Gao Jun can fully understand the mentality of being a father-in-law and mother-in-law, just like Han Jingjing always smiling and not opening, she knows that Gao Jun can understand, and she also knows that Gao Jun will deal with it well.

It's just that Han Jingjing and Gao Jun didn't expect that this old couple was too strong, and they were not much better than Zhuge Liang's way of employing people, and even surpassed them.

For example, now, the prospective mother-in-law said that the food was cold and she wanted to go back to the pot to heat it up, Han Jingjing originally came to ask her to go, but she was held down by her mother.

It's just that the old lady just entered the kitchen for a while, and let out a terrible scream......