Chatting is very skillful, such as Qin Yi's beginning, which directly pushed the reason to Li Shengnan's parents, making it difficult for her parents to speak even if they wanted to blame Li Shengnan. Therefore, when she heard this, Mother Li suddenly turned pale, glared at Li Shengnan fiercely, and smiled guiltily: "I'm sorry, teacher...... What's the trouble with this kid?"

"She was caught cheating on her midterm exams and her test results were cancelled. Qin Yi replied lightly.

"Ah!?, you dead girl, how do I tell you to your father! We didn't ask you to study well, how can you cheat!?" Mother Li raised her hand angrily and anxiously to hit Li Shengnan, but was stopped by Qin Yi.

"Don't you think you should think about this?" Qin Yi said lightly, "Why didn't you ask your daughter to get too good grades in school, but she still wanted to improve her grades by cheating? ”

Saying that, Qin Yi looked at Li Shengnan: "Children at this age are the times when they need everyone's attention, they are eager to get the attention of others, and the more they can't get it, the more they will crave." As far as I can tell, you and your husband pay too much attention to your son at home and basically nothing to your daughter, and that's the root cause of this. ”

"Oh, teacher, you don't have a child yet, so you don't know. Mother Li said with some embarrassment, "After her brother is born, how can she still pay so much attention to her? The baby needs to be watched and taken care of every day, and then the older one needs to be picked up and dropped off from kindergarten every day, and after starting school, she needs to pay attention to learning." It's not ......like you don't know how fierce the competition is these days, teacher."

"I know, I'm from that era too. Qin Yi smiled faintly, "It's just that I think you and your husband will definitely be able to find time to chat with your daughter if they want to." Don't you think so? Isn't there time for a few greetings at dinner? Can't you prepare a second meal when preparing a bento? I don't think it's a very troublesome thing, and if you and your husband have that mind, you can certainly do it. ”

"No, I ......" Mother Li said a little embarrassed, and then glared at Li Shengnan complainingly, as if she felt that it was her fault that she was so embarrassed in front of Qin Yi.

"If you really don't want this daughter, I can help you too. Qin Yi said, looking at Li Shengnan, "I know some institutions that can help you find a good family, some people who are really willing to pay attention to her and love her to take care of her, and let her be fostered in those families." I don't know, what do you think?"

"This, how can this be done!? She is our biological daughter! Moreover, we didn't abuse her!" Mother Li said in disbelief, Qin Yi turned to Mother Li and explained lightly: "Psychologically speaking, you are indeed abusing her psychologically. She is also your and your husband's child, but she doesn't get your attention at all, and you focus all your attention on your youngest son. Since my speech on psychology is also considered authoritative, these institutions will listen to me. ”

Saying that, Qin Yi stood up and wandered around the house: "I have been observing this house since I came in, I don't know if you have noticed, there is almost no indication in the room that there is a daughter in this family." The wall is covered with the award ...... of the youngest son"

Mother Li hurriedly explained: "However, that's because this girl can't get the award if she doesn't fight for herself!"

"Oh, is it?" Qin Yi asked rhetorically, "I'm not sure about this, in fact, every child will get one or two awards more or less when they are young, even if it's just a small one. Did she not get it, or did you not care? But I can't help but notice that your youngest son got the ...... at school."

As he spoke, Qin Yi stretched out his hand and poked one of the awards: "What is this? What is the health award?"

"Yes...... It is a prize to win for one month to keep the seat edge without garbage in elementary school. Mother Li explained.

"Look, your youngest son has such a trivial award certificate, you have to frame it, I think your daughter must have won a similar award when she was a child, right?" Qin Yi asked with a slight smile, Mother Li was speechless, Qin Yi didn't hold on to the question and continued, but turned to other aspects: "Then look at the photos." ”

As he spoke, Qin Yi's gaze swept over the photo frames placed at home: "Let's take a look, four, five, six photo frames, there are six photo frames in the living room alone, one of them is a photo of you and your husband, one is a family photo of your whole family, and the remaining four are all photos of your youngest son, none of them are photos of your daughter alone, and this family photo is ......"

Qin Yi sneered and pointed to Li Shengnan, who was standing on the edge of the family portrait: "You and your husband are around your youngest son, and Shengnan is standing on the side as if he was excluded by the three of you, which is really telling the problem, isn't it?"

"This, teacher......" Mother Li hesitated and didn't know how to explain.

Qin Yi looked at Li Shengnan and said, "In my opinion, your daughter is actually still a very beautiful girl, although she dresses up a little boyish. So, I can basically say that you and your husband don't pay any attention to your daughter's state, whether it's her psychology or her studies, or all aspects of her growth, do you remember what she likes to eat?"

"Remember...... Mother Li nodded, and Qin Yi continued to ask, "Then when was the last time you made this dish?"

Mother Li was silent, and Qin Yi smiled: "So, you see, I don't even need to ask her how you and your husband usually treat her, just from the current situation in your family, you can know her treatment in this family." ”

Qin Yi said and sat down again: "Although Shengnan's grades are not good, it doesn't mean that she has no talent and nothing she is good at. With the right guidance, I don't think she will achieve anything less in the future than your son. So, if you think this daughter is redundant, I can help you put her in a family that cares more about her. ”

"She's our biological daughter after all, she won't agree, right?" Mother Li looked at Li Shengnan and smiled.

However, Li Shengnan had been resentful for a long time, and Qin Yi's reasoning ignited her anger for a long time, so she stood up and said angrily: "Why don't you agree!? You and your father didn't treat me as a daughter!"

"What are you talking nonsense about, you dead girl!?We worked so hard to raise you so much, why didn't we treat you as a daughter!" Mother Li asked angrily, Qin Yi interjected at this time: "Theoretically, that is the obligation of parents, and if you don't do this, it is an illegal act." After all, family is such a thing, and your children will take care of you when you are old, and life is such a cycle, don't you think so?"

Saying that, Qin Yi said curiously: "From another perspective, when you get old, if your daughter treats you like you treat her now, and gives you a little money every month to take care of you, what will you think?"

"We don't expect her to take care of us when we're old!When she gets married, she'll be someone else's family!" Mother Li replied, Qin Yi nodded suddenly: "So, did your parents say the same about you back then?"

"You...... Teacher Qin, what do you mean by this!?" Mother Li suddenly became a little annoyed and angry.

"There is no offense, but there is a saying that 'do unto others as you would have them do unto you'. The way you feel when you hear these words is the same way your daughter feels when she hears them, don't you think so?" Qin Yi asked with a smile.

Mother Li's face turned blue and white for a while, but just hurting the parents like this can't solve the problem, and it is impossible to solve the conflict between their family by threats alone, and it still has to evoke the feeling that the other party first gave birth to Li Shengnan. Therefore, Qin Yi continued: "Why did you name your daughter Li Shengnan?"

"It's hope...... She's better than boys. Mother Li grabbed her pants uneasily and said.

Qin Yi frowned, shook his head and said, "Lying...... You want her to be a boy. ”

Seeing this, Qin Yi's mood was actually a little heavy. He originally meant to let the family get back together, but after talking to Li's mother like this, Qin Yi found that the parents really had no feelings for Li Shengnan.

From the very beginning, the parents wanted Li Shengnan to be a boy, so they gave her this name, and raised her as a boy since she was a child, to put it bluntly, Li Shengnan was a substitute. But it wasn't until they gave birth to a real boy that there was no need for this substitute.

However, after all, it is her own child, and she can't be starved to death. However, that's all there is to it about the paternal love and motherly love they provide. It's brutal, but it's a common phenomenon in many places. The older generation of people has a deep traditional concept, and always thinks that they must have a son in order to be considered a long face, and even some families will continue to have a boy until there is a boy.

Qin Yi knew that he had a classmate, and his wife had seven daughters and a son in the family, because their parents always wanted a son, so they kept giving birth, but all of them were daughters until the eighth son was born.

This traditional thinking is as deeply ingrained in the minds of older generations as cancer, poisoning themselves and their next generation, and what is more terrible than cancer is that this concept will continue to endure. Thinking about it, Qin Yi shook his head and sighed, stood up and waved his hand to Li Shengnan: "Classmate Li Shengnan, come out with me, the teacher has something to talk to you about alone." ”

As soon as he went out, Li Shengnan covered his mouth and cried, Qin Yi sighed, took out a napkin from his pocket and wiped her tears and said, "I know this is a bit cruel, I'm sorry, the teacher's original intention was to help your family reconcile." But I didn't expect that your parents still have a trace of fatherly and maternal love for you as I thought......"

"It's not the teacher's fault...... Li Shengnan sobbed and stammered, "I, I actually always knew, he—they didn't love me at all." For them, I'm just a substitute for my brother before he was born. ”

"Alright, alright. Qin Yi's voice softened, helping her wipe her tears, "Even if that's the case, there's nothing wrong with it, you will still meet those who really love you." If you try to live, good things will happen. ”

"Teacher, you, are you going to send me to foster care? I, I'm willing to go to someone else's house......" Li Shengnan said with a sob.

"How is it possible, I was scaring your mother and wanted to see that she didn't care about you. If the teacher really did that, the school would have expelled me, and in other words, it would be breaking up someone's family. Qin Yi replied with a smile and patted her shoulder, "Come on, come with me to relax, and talk about your future plans by the way." ”

Li Shengnan followed him while wiping his tears, and Qin Yi said as he went downstairs: "In short, I still suggest that you stay away from your parents and choose to live in the school." Try to have as little contact with them as possible, calm your mind, and slowly let yourself get used to the days without them. At the same time, you can reach out to more people outside, make more friends, and connect with other people. ”

Qin Yi thought about it and replied, "For example, you can consider getting a pet, or volunteering, so that you can contact and connect with more people." You must know that there are people in this world who are related to you by blood but do not care about your happiness at all, but at the same time, there are people who are not related to you by blood but can remember your birthday every year. ”

Saying that, Qin Yi smiled and said, "Do you know, the teacher has some relatives, and the only purpose of their reunion every Chinese New Year is to brag about how prosperous their son is now, and no one else is as good as them, and they don't care about how others are doing." But at the same time, the teacher also has a godsister, although the teacher may not say a few words to her in a year, but every year on her birthday and New Year, she will send me blessings. Who says you have to be related by blood to be family?"

Li Shengnan nodded, wiped his tears and said, "Teacher, I listen to your ......"

"Anyway, let's go back first. Even if your parents may not really love you, that place is still your home, where you grew up. Qin Yi sighed and said, "Besides, don't you like your brother very much, don't forget him, he is innocent, and he is different from your parents, he is related to you by blood, and he really treats you as family." ”

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