Han Jingjing felt embarrassed and angry, before Gao Jun entered the door, she heard relatives and friends talking like this, she didn't care, Gao Jun naturally didn't care, but how embarrassing it would be for her parents to face Gao Jun.

Borrowing money is clear to Gao Jun, the two have also discussed in the bed, it is to ask for interest, which is very normal, because the other party's income is simply unable to repay, or it takes a long time to repay, and this money, in such a long time, if Heli Wealth Management, the income will definitely exceed the ordinary interest several times, which is already very kind.

And Gao Jun also said that when he borrowed money, he was a relative, and when he asked for money, he was an enemy.

This is all something he has seen with his own eyes, the old relatives don't want to lose their faces, they don't borrow money for several years, and they hate them when they come to the door and get angry.

So Gao Jun said to Han Jingjing at the time, if you don't borrow now, you will turn your face in the end, and when you ask the other party to repay the money after borrowing, you still turn your face, rather than having no money at all, it is better not to borrow at all.

It's just that I didn't expect the other party's resentment to be quite deep, and on this big New Year's Day, I actually mentioned it in public again.

And looking at the situation, his poor cousin seems to have changed to a new job, as if he has a lot of income, and he has to take the opportunity to brag about it.

The elders are all old, basically retired, no matter what work you used to do, what position, there is nothing to brag about after retirement, the hero does not mention the courage of the year, and now he needs his children to add glory to his parents.

It seems that most of the families in my dynasty are like this, getting together for the New Year's holidays to brag, tearing each other apart, comparing each other, and worshipping high and low.

The same is true of Gao Jun's family, of course, Gao Jun has also seen the really warm and harmonious big family, even if he has gray hair, but when his brothers and sisters meet, they are still very affectionate, talking about interesting things when they were children, remembering their ancestors together, and the younger generation is also respecting and loving each other, respecting each other like guests, and the scene is indeed warm and warm.

It's just that there are very few such families, after all, each family is a separate individual, with different life backgrounds, different economic conditions, and different social statuses, so it is difficult to achieve real harmony.

Maybe you used to help poor relatives in the countryside, but in a blink of an eye, the poor relatives in the countryside demolished their houses and occupied the land and became a demolition generation, and when they got rich, they scolded you for looking down on them back then.

The most important thing is related to everyone's cultivation and moral cultivation, and to the traditional culture of our dynasty.

Just like a certain family that Gao Jun came into contact with before, four generations are in the same house, the old man has three daughters and one son, each of them has already married a family, and the branches and leaves are scattered, and the huge family has a party every New Year's Day, and it is happy for the old man.

At the beginning, it was the default hospitality system, the eldest sister of the Qingming Festival, the second sister of the Dragon Boat Festival, the third sister of the Mid-Autumn Festival, and the old brothers of the Spring Festival.

I insisted on going back and forth for a few years, and in this year, everyone was treated, but during the Spring Festival, the old brother with poor conditions asked everyone to AA system, and the seemingly harmonious family quarreled at that time, and finally broke up unhappily, so angry that the old people were hospitalized.

From this point of view, Gao Jun feels that foreign countries are doing very well, and they have formed an AA system in their culture, whether it is to make friends or relatives, it is the level of personality and cultivation that they really don't get along, so let's just don't socialize.

Going out to eat and drink is always AA, and foreign countries still have a separate meal system, you can't afford to order a good set meal, you can eat some salad and steak, and no one will make fun of you, each pays their own money, talks about topics that are of interest to each other, and wants like-minded people to talk, not to show off.

"Ahem......"

Han Jingjing coughed lightly twice at the door, which was regarded as informing the people inside, and the private room suddenly quieted down, Gao Jun took Han Jingjing's hand, and carried the gift in the other hand, and Wu Xiaoyi also came over, and actually grabbed her arm, which seemed to be more intimate than Han Jingjing at first glance.

Gao Jun glanced at him, but saw Wu Xiaoyi pitifully and said, "I'm a little scared." ”

Gao Jun sighed helplessly, maybe she didn't adapt to the unfamiliar environment, anyway, it was my aunt, so he didn't say anything, and Han Jingjing didn't feel anything wrong.

The three of you just led me by the hand, and I walked in with you, and if you came again to help carry the things, the four of them would be able to go to the west to learn the scriptures.

As soon as the tall and handsome Gao Jun appeared, he immediately became the focus, and Han Jingjing came hand in hand, like a golden boy and a girl, making the young people present ashamed of themselves, and Wu Xiaoyi was not far behind, beautiful, with a hint of cold arrogance in her temperament, genius is actually the least afraid of seeing people, much higher than ordinary people's IQ, everything in the world will become simple in their eyes, and they can deal with everything easily.

Everyone stopped talking, and looked at them in unison, Han Jingjing spoke first: "I'm sorry aunts and uncles, uncles and aunts, I went to pick him up just now so I was late, let me introduce first, this is my boyfriend Gao Jun, and he is also my colleague at Qinhai University." ”

Anyway, there is one thing that I am better than foreigners, that is, socializing, many foreigners are too straight, I don't like you and you, so I really ignore you, and tell you clearly, I don't like it.

And I am the kingdom of heaven, the state of etiquette, even if the two of them have a deep hatred, in the public, if they don't want to tear their faces, they still greet each other with a smile and ask for warmth.

Therefore, after Han Jingjing's official introduction, everyone welcomed in unison.

Gao Jun was even more personable, and he greeted Han Jingjing's parents first: "Hello uncle and aunt, first of all, I wish you two elders and all the elders an early year, and I wish you all a happy New Year and good health."

In addition, I have to apologize to my uncle and aunt, originally this official visit, my parents should also come, but their two elders are old, and their legs and feet are not good, it is really not suitable for long-distance travel, I originally wanted them to make a call, but my father said that the call was too insincere, and specially asked me to apologize for them, and asked the second elder not to be surprised.

In addition, my parents said that when you and the two elders return to Qinhai, they will definitely go to the station to greet them, apologize in person, and ask you two to go to my house to entertain you again. ”

Gao Jun's words are sincere, his attitude is respectful, and anyone who sees it will be happy, as for his parents, this is not an engagement banquet, and they have not officially issued an invitation to meet their in-laws, how can they let people go on a long journey to push everything away for the New Year.

Sure enough, Han Jingjing's father said: "Xiao Gao, don't be polite, it's all a family, not to mention that we will go to Qinhai to settle down in the future, and if we have the opportunity to meet, maybe we will go to your house every day as a guest, so don't be annoyed when the time comes." ”

As soon as the old man made such a joke, the atmosphere suddenly warmed up, and Gao Jun hurriedly introduced Wu Xiaoyi: "This is my cousin, who just came back from a foreign country and wanted to walk around, so she came with me." ”

In addition to the third-generation babies, Han Jingjing's little cousin and cousin looked older than Wu Xiaoyi, but they were still older.

Han Jingjing's parents are also embarrassed, how do you call this, she is nearly thirty years younger, it's not appropriate to call her a big sister, right?

Wu Xiaoyi was generous and said: "Uncle and aunt, don't be embarrassed, let's talk about our own things, I'm just an uninvited villain, my mouth is sweet, and I won't be sorry to eat for a while." ”

Everyone immediately laughed when they heard this, and everyone was not embarrassed, who really cared about adding an extra pair of chopsticks.

Taking advantage of everyone's happiness, Gao Jun immediately handed over the gifts in his hand, followed Han Jingjing to get to know everyone one by one, and gave out the gifts: "A little of my heart, filial piety to all the elders, a little nutrition to talk about the heart, I hope that the elders can take good care of their bodies and live a long life, so that they can help us more and support our younger generations." ”

The words are intimate, the gifts are also good, everyone at the scene is happy, and they all showed sincere smiles, but a few of those little whites pouted, just like women hate beautiful women, men hate handsome guys, and men and women hate rich people.

Under the earnest greeting of everyone, Gao Jun and the three of them sat down, and they all understood in their hearts that these were two uncles, two aunts, among which there were naturally aunts and uncles, two cousins had already started a family, with sisters-in-law, and both held little babies, the two little Fuwa were very cute, and the other was a cousin and a cousin, all of whom were relatives of Han Jingjing's grandmother's family.

When the older generation reaches this age, they have basically withdrawn from the stage, and they don't even have topics such as academic performance and boyfriends and girlfriends, because the children have grown up and basically got married, and if you want to compare with this kind of topic, you can only live a few more years than your grandchildren.

But when a newcomer joins, the elders naturally have to communicate briefly, asking Gao Jun how old he is, how many people in his family are, how many acres of land per capita, how many cows are in the field, whether the seventh uncle and grandfather are in good health, and so on.

Gao Jun naturally answered truthfully, Master of Psychology from Boston Medical School, this must be said, he has been saying it for half a year, and even he believes what he said.

School-level counselors, with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan, and subsidies for overtime during holidays, are also outspoken.

"Only more than 10,000?" Money is always an inseparable topic on the table of Chinese people, and many things can be derived around money.

Han Jingjing's cousin immediately pretended to be surprised and said: "The dignified returnee came back to work as a counselor, and the salary is so small, so why do you work hard to go abroad to gild?"

Gao Jun smiled slightly and said, "I only came back this year, and I just joined for a semester, and it's not clear what will happen to my future development, so let's do it first." ”

"Isn't that a waste of youth?" said the little cousin, "Shouldn't we young people take advantage of our youth and vitality to work hard to create our own careers?" ”

Wu Xiaoyi nodded frequently, in line with her style, when she was young, she coveted love and satisfaction, and when she was old and frail, she couldn't fight anymore, which was also what Han Jingjing taught in the bed on weekdays, so she forced Gao Jun to go to cram school to work part-time.

It's just that now my cousin is saying it, and he is obviously scolding people.