Chapter 511: The Clus of the Matter
In fact, seeing the smile on Hua Yun's face, Qin Yi roughly knew what was going on. It must have been Hua Yun who called Lei Hao's father in his name, and then told his father about his skipping class. Lei Hao's father was originally short-tempered, so he naturally started beating him.
Of course, this is just Qin Yi's speculation, and you have to ask for details.
Although they didn't have a good relationship, he still had to ask, after all, the injury was all on his face, he couldn't pretend not to see it, right? The other students in the class had already noticed it and were discussing it curiously.
"Yali, Xinying, you lead everyone to read it early. Qin Yi admonished, and then waved his hand to Lei Hao, "Come out." ”
Lei Hao followed Qin Yi outside with an unconvinced face, but Qin Yi didn't tell him about it outside the classroom, but took him to the rooftop of the school first, and then hugged his arm and asked, "Okay, let's talk, what's going on?"
"What's the matter, you don't have any points in your heart?" Lei Hao asked angrily.
"Oh, shouldn't I say this, you don't know what you did?" Qin Yi sneered and asked, "Was it your father who beat him, or was it that little girl's rival?"
"You want to take care of it?!" Lei Hao said angrily, kicking a stone on the ground.
Qin Yi was silent for a moment and continued to ask: "Do you know that you have mania?" There are many specific symptoms, such as overactive thinking, not thinking about the consequences when doing happy activities, sleeping less than ordinary people, and it may also lead to side effects such as delusions, nervousness, and irritability. You've been skipping class recently because you feel like you can't sit still in class, right?"
Lei Hao was silent and didn't speak, and came to the edge of the rooftop to look down.
"What is the reason for your symptoms to worsen? As far as I know, your symptoms were not so severe when you were a child, something must have happened recently, right? Is it the demolition of your house? Or is there something else?" Qin Yi continued to ask.
"Don't talk as if you know me very well!" Lei Hao said angrily, Qin Yi said lightly: "I know you better than you think, I investigated the situation in your family, I know that your house is being demolished, and I also know that your father is also manic." I've also gone to your mom and hoped she could help you, but she's too scared of your dad. ”
Lei Hao was stunned, turned his head and asked, "Have you found my mother?"
"It's okay now, it's not very bland, it's not very giving, and life is hard, but I think it's easier for her than to be by your dad's side. Qin Yi sighed and replied.
"Hmph, that selfish woman, it's good to have a good time. Lei Hao snorted coldly and said, but he didn't say anything more. Qin Yi thinks that he should also know in his heart that his mother is also out of helplessness, and his mother did the right thing, but this does not change the fact that she abandoned him, so it is normal for him to still resent her.
Qin Yi suddenly narrowed his eyes, looking a little puzzled: Lei Hao's tone sounded like he had already seen this matter, which meant that he did not aggravate the symptoms of mania because of this incident, but for other reasons.
"So, is there anything else?" Qin Yi asked curiously, "What is it that makes your symptoms worse?"
"Why do you care?" Lei Hao sneered and asked, "I don't like you, even if you pretend to care about me, I won't have a good impression of you." What I hate the most is people like you, one thing on the lips, and another set on the back......"
"Oh, but my standard of life has always been to do what I say, and I have never broken my promise to my students, don't you think it's contradictory when you say that?" Qin Yi asked with a smile.
"But you don't really want to care about those people in your heart, do you? Lei Hao snorted coldly and said, "If you weren't a teacher, would you still care about this?"
"It's because you're my students that I'm in charge. Qin Yi replied with a smile, "This is indeed my responsibility, but that doesn't mean I'm unhappy, on the contrary, it's just to cultivate you as adults that I came to become a teacher." You know, I used to be just like you, full of anger at everything because the girl I liked in high school fell in love with someone else. ”
Lei Hao turned his head slightly, as if he was a little interested, in fact, his own example was the one that resonated with others the most.
"I liked that girl for a long time, and I've liked it since the second year of junior high school. Qin Yi smiled and said, "Do you know that feeling, as if you know in your heart that this girl is the person in your life." However, I had to accept that she could no longer belong to me, because as time went on, the two of them would only drift apart. ”
Saying that, Qin Yi sneered: "Although I know in my heart that this is because of my own incompetence, I still can't help but lose my temper with everything around me, resentment, anger, and pour my anger on other people and other things. In the end, I still paid the price, I only scored more than 300 points in the college entrance examination that year, and I once felt that my life was over. ”
"More than 300 points? Isn't that only a junior college? How did you get to Stanford University?" asked Lei Hao puzzled.
"Everyone has a chance to start over, and my teacher gave me that opportunity. Qin Yi replied with a smile, "I have learned a lot from my various teachers, how to control my emotions, how to look at the world, and how to see myself. This has benefited me a lot, so I would like to share what I have learned with you. ”
"Tsk......" Lei Hao snorted coldly, and was silent for a while before asking: "The girl you liked in junior high school, is it Teacher Xia? ”
"No, girl, I haven't spoken to her in almost ten years since high school. Qin Yi replied with a smile, "For both parties, the other party is already a stranger, and it is impossible to get back the lost time." I met her a while ago, but that's it. She would marry someone else and we would continue to be strangers. ”
"Some things are fate, right? No matter how much you fight, you can't change it. Lei Hao said with a sneer.
"Do you think so?" Qin Yi asked with a curious smile, "If I want to change, I can indeed change it." I could chase that girl back, but for her, would that really be the best ending for me? Not necessarily. The past is gone, it is better to pursue a new beginning, I feel happier with Mr. Xia. ”
"Hmph, isn't that the self-consolation of the loser......" Lei Hao lowered his eyelids and said with some frustration.
Qin Yi was silent for a while and asked, "Is there anyone in your family who has any terminal illness?"
In terms of Lei Hao's age, it should be impossible for him to have this kind of feeling, the children at this age are the age of the second year of secondary school, and they all think that people will win the day, and my fate is up to me, and there is this kind of "fate" feeling, which means that he must have encountered some insurmountable power. And when it comes to this kind of thing, the most direct thing is a terminal illness.
At present, the most immediate and insurmountable fate for human beings is nothing more than terminal diseases such as AIDS and cancer. It's easy to feel hopeless about this kind of thing, and for many people, "terminal cancer" is no different from the death penalty.
"My grandma ......" Lei Hao lowered his head and looked at the playground under the rooftop, "She was already in very poor health, and her condition has deteriorated in recent years. Recently, she felt very unwell and went to the hospital for a check-up and found that she had cancer, which was terminally ......"
Saying that, Lei Hao gritted his teeth and hammered the rooftop: "Actually, grandma felt uncomfortable a long time ago, but my dad knew that he didn't take her for a checkup! Grandma said that she had cancer, but my dad kept telling her that she was thinking too much! He actually hoped that grandma would die early, because grandma would have a lot less trouble if she died! He didn't need him to always ask for leave to take care of her, and he always had to spend his money to treat her when he was sick, and the house over there could be sold to buy a new house after grandma died......
Speaking of this, Lei Hao's tears kept dripping on the railing of the rooftop: "But I can't help...... I don't have any money, and I don't have any money. My grandmother has loved me since I was a child, and even if I have a bad temper, she still buys me what I like to eat. She has never enjoyed any happiness in her old age, and she only barely lives on the hundreds of yuan given by my father every month, but she still has to save money to buy me McDonald's, which I like, but now that she is sick, I can't help anything......"
As he spoke, Lei Hao hammered the railing of the rooftop hard, as if he was venting his anger.
Qin Yi sighed slightly, and his mood was also very heavy. What Lei Hao said is actually very common, no matter what country it is. The elderly will definitely bring some burden to the family, after all, the children have their own lives, and they usually have to work, so it is impossible to stay with the elderly all the time, and they will naturally feel upset over time.
Therefore, in fact, many families with elderly people generally have this kind of thought, hoping that the elderly will die early, and they can save a lot of things when they die, and the family burden can be much easier, which is really cruel. When the children were young, they also brought a lot of trouble to their parents, who sacrificed a lot of time to accompany and take care of their children, and when they were old, they hoped that their children could sacrifice some time to take care of themselves, but they were disliked. This is not the case for every household, but it is by no means unique.
"My grandmother's wish has always been to see me get married, to see me get into a good university, so that she can go out and show off to others, but she can't wait. Lei Hao said, kneeling on the ground and crying out in pain, "The doctor said that she actually has a 70% chance of being cured, but my dad doesn't want to treat her at all, he just wants grandma to die early, and she will be clean when she dies......"
"Alas. Qin Yi sighed, pulled Lei Hao and forcibly made him stand up, "Be like a man, don't kneel down without moving, and you can't cry at every turn." A man has gold under his knees, and he can kneel for the people he loves, but he can't kneel out of despair. What's more, it's not time to despair yet. Didn't the doctor say the same? There is a chance of seventy. ”
Hearing Lei Hao say this, Qin Yi actually breathed a sigh of relief, this was mostly some guise for the hospital.
Of course, cancer is indeed terrible, but many cancers can be cured, but hospitals often say that the situation is serious, which is the routine of hospitals. For example, no matter what the disease, go in and do a full body examination first, a polyp will say that it may become a tumor and persuade you to cut it out, even if it is benign, the hospital will tell you the worst.
To put it bluntly, it is for the sake of money and not medical ethics, and Grandma Lei Hao's cancer is actually not a very serious kind, although it has spread, but since there is a 70% probability that it can be cured, it means that there are not too many complications, and it has not spread to important tissues and organs, and it is not a cancer such as blood cancer or bone cancer.
In other words, cancerous tissue can be cured by surgical removal, but before that, chemotherapy must be given to reduce the spread of cancer cells, and the probability of 70% is very high.
And the main problem is that this treatment will definitely cost a lot of money, and the average family will definitely not want to pay it.
After all, the old man is already over 70 years old, so how many years can he live if he is cured? Let the old man live for a few more years, but let his children bear the debt for decades, in terms of pros and cons, many families are unwilling, and even many old people themselves are unwilling. Qin Yi has also seen many similar situations, parents would rather commit suicide than bring too much burden to their children.
But the money can be earned again, and the family can't come back if they lose it. Sometimes, family affection cannot be measured in terms of money.
"Anyway, I can help you with this. Qin Yi replied, "But you must know that people can't blindly rely on others, so you'd better give me a starting spirit." ”
"How can you help? Can you lend me money?" Lei Hao glanced at Qin Yi and asked, Qin Yi smiled: "I don't open a bank, where did I get so much money." But don't forget, the Internet is so developed today, why not try crowdfunding. ”