Chapter 236: First Impressions
"Oh, the head teacher from before. Tang Xueying seemed a little hesitant and didn't want to speak. Qin Yi said softly: "Don't worry, the teacher knows what kind of person you are." No matter what you say next, it won't change your image in the minds of the teacher. Do you believe me?"
Tang Xueying nodded, and then muttered unhappily: "The teacher from before ...... Actually, if you have to say it, it's nothing special, just like everyone else. That's why we don't like him very much. ”
"Same as everyone else?, then why target him alone?" Qin Yi asked puzzled.
"Because, his attitude is very unpleasant. Tang Xueying hugged her arms and muttered, "You know, that's the kind of ...... I have a bitter face all day long, as if I am saying, 'It's really bad luck for the head teacher to be assigned to this class.' If he doesn't want to be our homeroom teacher, let's help him. ”
"......I see," Qin Yi said suddenly, in this way, although the head teacher in front of him was indeed a victim, he also had his own reasons. In fact, the communication between teachers and students is like this, just like Tang Xueying said, he himself doesn't want to be the head teacher of this class, so how can the students in this class agree that he is the head teacher?
As the head teacher of this class, he chose to dislike this group of students instead of believing in them and tapping their talents, so it is not pitiful to fall into today's fate. Because even putting aside the grades of this class, the students in this class did not deliberately want to go against the teacher, at least Qin Yi got along with them very well.
Of course, the previous head teacher did not have such an excellent psychology as Qin Yi, but most of the reason was due to himself. There are indeed a lot of problems among the students in this class, but most of the students are honest and will not cause trouble, and the few students will not make too much trouble as long as they communicate with them well, at least they will not be "ousted" by the students.
So, in the final analysis, the psychology of the previous head teacher himself is the most important factor.
If even the head teacher himself feels that it is unlucky to be assigned to this class, so he refuses to communicate with the students, and feels sorry for himself all day long, as if the whole world is against him, then it will not end well. In fact, doing anything with this kind of mentality will not lead to good results.
"That's why we feel that Mr. Qin, you are different. Because you seem to be happy to be assigned to our class. Tang Xueying said seriously, "I actually thought at the beginning, teacher, are you thinking about something, although you say that you want to help us find what we want to do, but in fact, it is just a change of law to let us study hard and become the same as everyone else." ”
"No one can be like everyone else, everyone is unique, you can disguise yourself, you can imitate the trajectory of someone else's life, but you can never be the same as someone else. Qin Yi smiled, and then touched Tang Xueying's brain, "Okay, you go in first, help the teacher maintain the discipline in the classroom, and don't let them make trouble." ”
"Got it, teacher. Tang Xueying smiled happily and turned around and entered the classroom.
Immediately, Qin Yi called Li Sisi out of the classroom and chatted with her alone.
"Well, I wouldn't admit it, I wasn't wrong. Li Sisi hugged his arms and said angrily.
"There's something bad about both of you, but I'm not here to tell you that. Qin Yi smiled, "Tell me, why do you have such a big opinion about Xue Ying?"
"Then she's disgusting. Li Sisi didn't have a good temperament, "On the surface, one set is another set behind the scenes, and he usually looks good-tempered in front of everyone. Lao Qin, I advise you to be careful, don't look at her being very obedient to you now, maybe she will tell her family what she will say to you behind your back. ”
"You don't have to worry about that, I trust you. Qin Yi said with a smile, and lightly flicked it on Li Sisi's forehead, "Then have you ever thought about yourself? Your personality is very straightforward, and you are also very righteous when you think of what you say." But do you think that is necessarily good, and is this straightforwardness necessarily a virtue?"
"Of course it is! You should be honest as a human being!" Li Sisi rubbed his forehead and said dissatisfiedly.
But on the other hand, sometimes you speak too bluntly and don't take into account other people's feelings. It's like when you talk to Irene, don't you directly accuse the other party of being too weak? Maybe Irene-san thinks it's nothing, but some people will be unhappy about it. And Xue Ying can use a way that everyone can accept to say each other's shortcomings. Qin Yi patiently explained.
"So you still think it's me wrong?" asked Li Sisi angrily.
"No, I mean, everyone has their own personality and their own strengths and weaknesses. Qin Yi smiled, "You can disagree with other people's way of living, or you can refuse to change yourself, but you can't deny others." The teacher has explained to you before, what is the meaning of 'do unto others as you would not do unto you'? Xue Ying is just because the environment in which she lives is different from yours. ”
Li Sisi muttered unconvinced, but couldn't think of words to refute. Qin Yi sighed slightly, he originally expected these two little girls to understand each other without relying on the strength of others, but now it seems that it is obviously a little difficult. Therefore, Qin Yi decided to secretly push them to speed up the process, after all, these two people were his squad leader and deputy squad leader.
"Actually, have you ever thought that the reason why Xue Ying doesn't like you is because she envy you?" Qin Yi asked.
"Tsk, what does she envy me? She doesn't look much uglier than me. Li Sisi rolled her eyes, and then looked down at her delicate breasts that were close to C-cup, "At most, her breasts are a little bigger than her, but isn't she still developing?"
"Not those. Qin Yi said helplessly, "You know that Xue Ying is in a wealthy family with her students, right? Their family is a well-known business marriage family. She was betrothed to a fat, ugly, and perverted man by her parents a long time ago. So you can understand why Xue Ying hates you?"
"What age is it, and there are still parents who promise to be matched?" asked Li Sisi in disbelief.
"If your family is so poor that you can't live, if you don't marry a rich family, you and your parents will starve to death, will you marry?" Qin Yi asked with a smile.
Li Sisi was silent for a while, and said unconvinced: "But if she doesn't marry their family, she won't starve to death." ”
"It's just an analogy, it's just a similar situation. Qin Yi patiently explained, "So don't take many things for granted, do you know how I communicate with you? Why do others take it for granted that you are a cancer and a heinous bad student, while I think you are just a group of unique and talented children?"
Li Sisi looked at him with wide and beautiful eyes, obviously curious about this question all along. Qin Yi replied: "Because, although a person's character will be determined partly because of innateness, most of it is formed because of the influence of acquired experience. For example, Zhang Feng, his anger has a reason, if you know his experience, you will not blindly blame him. ”
"Okay. Li Sisi muttered, looking like he was persuaded by Qin Yi.
So, don't be too Xue Ying, maybe you envy her for being born in a wealthy family and being able to contact those rich and handsome, but in fact, she also envy you for being free and willful to chase the love you want. Qin Yi said earnestly.
"Oh, I know!" Li Sisi said impatiently, interrupting Qin Yi's preaching, "Is there anything else to say? ”
"I hope you can understand by now why the teacher wants you two to be friends. Qin Yi sighed and said.
Li Sisi didn't bother to pay attention to him, turned around and entered the classroom. And Qin Yi also followed, thinking about how to solve the problems left over from the previous head teacher. In fact, this is the biggest problem.
Why do these students in the current class have the idea that "they are a cancer"? Why do they give up on themselves? It is precisely because the previous class teacher left this impression on them. If the homeroom teacher had positively told them from the beginning that they were not cancerous, but just different from ordinary students, these students might not be like this now.
The previous class teacher did not do this, but told them frankly the reason why the school assigned them to this class, which made this "cancer" idea deeply ingrained in the minds of these students.
That's where it all comes in. Children at this age, both mentally and mentally, are easily influenced.
Therefore, when many teachers were students, they said to those children with poor grades or unstable personalities, "You will be scum when you grow up like this, the scum of society, and drag others back", which is actually a kind of verbal violence, which will have a lifelong impact on the psychology of students, but some students are relatively strong and will not take it to heart.
But for some psychologically fragile students, these words are enough to hurt them for a lifetime. But in reality, what a person does when he is young does not affect his whole life. No one will decide what kind of person they will be in life because of what they do at the moment, the key is what they think now, and the courage and determination to change themselves.
Qin Yi has also seen that many top students when they were young grew up smoothly, and like others, they chose an ordinary job and received an ordinary salary to live an ordinary life, while some students who were called by the teacher "can only be the scum of society in the future" have experienced all kinds of setbacks and trials when they grow up, but in the end they have become famous and have achieved great success.
This first impression was important, and now these students already feel that they are a cancer on the school, and that they are brought together so as not to interfere with the learning of students in other classes. And if Qin Yi wants to change this idea, I am afraid it will take a long time of hard work, and it may not be successful.
The school will not cooperate with him, because the school does bring them together to prevent them from interfering with the learning of other classes. This made Qin Yi's next work extremely difficult, but he could only come step by step.
Thinking of this, Qin Yi regained his spirits, the teacher is a role model for the students, so he must stay positive.
What's more, life after retirement is to be a little challenging to be more interesting, otherwise he may have to "find something to do" for himself like Cheng Hua, and that will only increase the possibility of their identity being discovered.
At this time, Qin Yi suddenly looked at Huang Tianming who was sitting in the position, so he smiled with interest.
"Huang Tianming. Qin Yi held his chin and teased, "You seem to be quite honest these days." ”
"Oh, it's not good to bother you all the time, I'll give you some time to reconsider. Huang Tianming said with a smile.
"Huh, is it?" Qin Yi teased with a long emphasis, then hooked his finger at him and motioned for him to come over.
Huang Tianming stood up, but his movements were obviously stiff, and his walking posture was a little awkward. After coming to Qin Yi, Qin Yi glanced at him with a smile, and then coldly reached out and patted Huang Tianming's shoulder.
"Ouch!" Huang Tianming took a breath of cold air in pain, grinning in pain.
"Hmph, do you think you can fool me?" Qin Yi smiled angrily, "How about it, now you know how high the requirements for physical ability are in free fighting, right?"
Huang Tianming muttered unconvinced, but couldn't find the words to refute it.
At that time, Huang Tianming was really enthusiastic about learning from Han Tianyu, and Qin Yi did not stop him. Actually, this is true of fighting, and at the time it felt like it was nothing, and my body was still able to eat, but the next day I felt that my muscles were unusually sore. This is because fighting is not the kind of vigorous anaerobic exercise that occurs for a short period of time and does not put a lot of load on the muscles at that time.
However, this kind of exercise actually forces the muscles to constantly explode, and it is a long-term anaerobic exercise, so when you calm down afterwards, you will feel that the muscles are abnormally sore, and almost all the muscles of the whole body will be used.
This is also the reason why Huang Tianming didn't come to pester him to learn boxing in the past few days, because Huang Tianming's whole body hurt badly.
"If you understand, let's do what I say. Qin Yi teased with a smile and motioned for Huang Tianming to return to his seat. At this time, he was also a lot more relieved: there was no need to care about what kind of negative impact the previous head teacher caused, just follow his own pace, step by step. Sooner or later, these students will realize that those "first impressions" they have been engraved on are wrong. "If you understand, let's do what I say. ”