Episode 127 Changing Habits

When Cheng Wucai was busy holding the Three Provinces Ring Competition, Jiulong still locked himself in his room, and even turned off the phone, and didn't go anywhere.

This is the first time that Kowloon has become an otaku, the door is not out, and the second door is not serious study and thinking.

He read the book very carefully, especially the part of the book that talks about eliminating negative attitudes.

He also asked himself a very practical question, is it a short-term fight and a long-term survival?

Now it seems that once getting rich can be met but not sought, and it is not worth paying high risks in pursuit of high returns in the futures market, which is a manifestation of people's greed, and will only invite failure.

In the final analysis, futures itself only provides a good investment tool, the risk of the futures market itself, can be resolved by good capital management principles, the biggest risk comes from the greed and fear in the trader's heart, high risk and high return is not the true face of the futures market, just their own subjective feelings and evaluation of futures, chasing high profits is not the most important, chasing low-risk trading ideas, restraining the greed in their minds, so that they can survive in this market for a long time, is the basis of everything.

Kowloon's understanding of the futures market is very similar to his understanding of life when he was growing up.

He vividly remembers that when he was in the third grade, he felt that he had grown up and understood that the world of adults was nothing more than that;

When I was 18 years old, I already thought I was an adult, but when I came out of school, I found that I was so ignorant of society and so helpless in society......

Such thoughts were repeated year after year, until their ignorance was discovered.

Today is just yesterday's tomorrow, and it is also tomorrow's yesterday, I haven't changed, but my heart is self-righteous, which shows that our vision has great limitations, and we can only understand what we have experienced.

In fact, contrary to what many articles say about retail investors who are not good at stop loss, most of the time you can stick to strict stop loss and understand the importance of stop loss.

But the mistake they made is not in this, the most typical mistake is based on the fundamentals, positions and trading volume, position ranking or harmful technical indicators, and even the so-called sense of disk, etc., subjective judgment of the market, but ignore the most important price, and take this as the basis for entering and exiting the market, the whole operation process feels good, in fact, there are many loopholes, even the basic homeopathic trading is not good, often lost in the market.

The saddest thing is that I understand the importance of homeopathy, but I can't do it or forget it when I actually do it.

In a few cases, they can operate with the trend, but they end up losing money due to poor fund management or other reasons.

Secondly, the lack of perfect trading rules, even if there are trading rules, but cannot be strictly followed, is also the most important reason for failure.

Finally found the reason, Jiulong breathed a sigh of relief, picked up the phone, hesitated for a moment, and still called Yun Shuiyu.

The other party's voice came: "Why, I realized it so quickly." ”

"Luckily, I think I've found something wrong. ”

Kowloon rarely has such a lack of confidence, as if in front of Yun Shui Yu, he is a child who does not grow up.

"The main thing is that there is a problem with the operation method, and there is also my own poor control. ”

"What you say is not on point, you don't know how to be a man. ”

Yun Shui Yu replied unceremoniously.

When will she not be a man? She is filial, upright, and has never harmed anyone, so why can't she be a man? She wants to say that people are amazing and endless, scare me, I'm not scared.

You can say that I failed to do futures, but I didn't fail as a person, Jiulong immediately pushed back: "Beauty, don't spray people with blood, I don't have anything to offend you when I ask myself, you don't need to say this about me." ”

The other party not only did not get angry, but smiled: "Do you know why futures are so difficult to do? It is because you are flawed, such as greed and fear, such as impatience, for example, easy to get angry, used to doing long, operating the keyboard does not listen to the call, etc., as long as you have weaknesses, you will be used by the dealer, so it is very important to be a person to be a person with no weaknesses as much as possible." ”

I see, this made Kowloon not expect.

"Okay, you take a while to rest, look for weaknesses, make a plan, and gradually overcome them. ”

Yun Shui Yu arranged the task in an almost commanding tone, and hung up the phone without waiting for Jiulong to reply.

Alas, how come in the eyes of the other party, you are all faults?

Kowloon looks back at itself, and these problems mentioned by Yunshui rumors seem to exist, how to solve them?

He read the book for a while, and it was explained that in order to develop a good habit, it is first necessary to study its importance, because only when you understand its importance will you have a strong desire to cultivate this habit.

Analyze the necessity and feasibility of the habits cultivated, and in a sense, overcoming a bad habit and cultivating a good habit is the most difficult thing in life, but it is also the most valuable in life.

Therefore, to develop a habit, it is important to start a feasibility analysis so that you build on a rational and scientific foundation.

Otherwise, if you have a hot mind and do it blindly, you will often give up halfway.

To cultivate good habits, it is necessary to "make overall arrangements and break them one by one." ”

The realization of human habits is a huge system, which is like a big tree, with stems, branches, and leaves.

It can be a habit at work, or it can be a study, health, or emotional.

The various habits of getting along with others can also be habits of thinking and behavior.

Therefore, when you understand the importance of habits to your life and destiny, you should make overall arrangements for the habits you are going to cultivate.

In this way, we can distinguish priorities, clarify the priority, and then cultivate step by step, which will be more effective.

The cultivation of any good habit will not be easy, so it must be gradual, from shallow to deep, from near to far.

Especially at the beginning, it is better to have less than more, rather simple than complicated, and easier than difficult.

Start with a habit that is easier to do, interesting to do, quick to taste the sweetness, and can be constantly motivated by yourself and the people around you, and work harder and take longer, so that it is easy to succeed.

The first three days of the key are focused on one month.

Once you've made the decision to develop a good habit, the key to success lies in the first three days, especially the first month.

Kowloon finally understood that the top priority now is to overcome the problem of not obeying the call, and there is only one way: stay away from the computer and divert his gaze.