Chapter 1329 On the Education of Children
When everyone was surprised that Xiao Susu was willing to give Xuanxuan a toy like a baby.
Soon Xuanxuan returned the toy to her younger brother.
"Ha, it's a moving puppet. ”
Seeing that Sister Xuanxuan returned it to herself, Yue Xiaosu held her shoes in her arms again.
"Hee-hee-hee, small, human, play. ”
It was only at this time that Yue Yi reacted.
It turns out that the son is very smart and knows that his sister will not ask for his own toys.
So I'll give my sister my favorite toys to see.
But the other brothers are not necessarily,
Especially Brother Fang Xiaozhuang,
I like to tease myself every time,
That's why Xiao Susu didn't give him the toys to see.
In Xiao Susu's little head, he gave the toy to Fang Xiaozhuang's brother, that is, the meat bun beat the dog, and he may not come back, so he must not give it to him.
Put your son down and let the children bring him to play with him for a while.
Yue Yi met with the parents who were present to accompany their children to class.
Especially saw the two mothers of Dong Wanxiu and Ye Luna.
"What do you think of the two mothers? You've been getting along well with your daughter during this time, right?"
Dong Wanxiu looked at her three daughters, her eyes full of doting looks.
"I really didn't expect my child to be so cute,
Come to think of it, I used to leave them behind, and it was really the wrong choice. ”
Ye Luna also nodded: "Yes, my Sissi is really well-behaved and very smart." ”
Instead, Ye Luna said to Yue Yi again: "By the way, aunt, can't you take the time to make up for my family's Sissy? Among the three in your family, two girls have all kinds of full scores, and Sissi also has to get full marks." ”
Hearing Ye Luna's words, Yue Yi suddenly couldn't laugh or cry.
"It's not a matter of making up classes.
Each child's level of academic acceptance will be different.
You can't force your child to be a perfect score,
Or do what you can,
As long as she tries,
It's not a perfect score, is it?"
Yue Yi's words, Dong Wanxiu agreed very much.
"yes, I also think that a perfect score on the exam is just a score. ”
Ye Luna was immediately unconvinced: "Of course you don't care, your three daughters, two of them are full marks, okay, our family is just a little bit worse, why can't you give her a make-up class?"
Ye Luna's words made Dong Wanxiu not know what to say.
Thinking of his three daughters, both of them are full marks.
It doesn't seem to have much to do with me.
The daughters were able to get full marks in the exam, and they relied entirely on their own efforts.
There is also Yue Yi, the aunt and father, who usually teach.
Yue Yi spoke again: "Actually, Qianqian really doesn't need to make up classes, her grades are already very good, she understands all those things, but she sometimes gets nervous during exams."
At this point, Yunyun, Xinxin, and Xuanxuan did better.
If you want to say that you are not nervous, Xuanxuan can be said to be the best. ”
Dong Wanxiu immediately smiled and said: "Hehehe, yes, Xuanxuan will always be like that, she is cute and cute, and she can't see even the slightest nervousness." ”
Ye Luna looked enviously at Xuanxuan who was playing there.
"Hey, Xuanxuan is very powerful, let me tell you, I think Xuanxuan is the smartest of these children. ”
Hearing this, Yue Yi immediately waved his hand.
"I can't say that, don't compare children with each other, I think every child is unique, they don't need to be compared, each child has their own strengths. ”
Dong Wanxiu also nodded: "Yes, don't compare the height of the child like this, it's really not good." ”
Ye Luna was suddenly a little strange, and looked at Yue Yi and Dong Wanxiu in surprise.
"Isn't that bad? Why?"
Yue Yi said very seriously: "Because this will hurt the child's self-esteem, many parents always like to say in front of their own children, 'Look at how other people's children are', which is to hit their children's self-esteem and self-confidence."
Not being able to see the shining points of their own children, but only blindly emphasizing the good of other people's children, is a failure of parental education. ”
Whether in his previous life or in this life, Yue Yi has seen too many similar examples.
So Yue Yi was seeing the three children of the Su family.
After moving into the Su family to accompany them,
I kept encouraging them,
I don't compare them to other children.
but to encourage them,
Stick to what you're good at.
Give full play to what you are good at,
Then there will be something to gain.
So in the Su family, the environment of the three little girls is very free.
They can be coquettish like little girls,
You can also express your opinions like little adults,
You can even have a little mood when necessary.
And many times my aunt will respect their respective ideas and opinions.
When they make mistakes, they will also be very serious about correcting them.
In this way, the self-confidence of the three girls of the Su family was cultivated.
If you have self-confidence, you will work harder in everything you do.
think you can do it,
Then your own efforts are taken for granted.
"So we have to guide the children more and let them do a lot of things on their own, cultivate their self-confidence, and with self-confidence, they will do well, as for the score, there is no need to force it. ”
Ye Luna was also a little ignorant when she heard it.
Suddenly, I found that
My mother is really incompetent,
There are a lot of things that I haven't thought about,
Don't even know what your daughter wants?
I feel like helping my daughter beg her aunt to help her make up for her lessons,
Letting her daughter get a 100 point in the test is what her daughter wants.
But in fact does the daughter need it,
Ye Luna didn't know this at all.
After a moment of silence, Ye Luna sighed: "It seems that educating children is also a very complicated matter. ”
Yue Yi said with a smile: "Hehehe, educating children is a very complicated matter for parents and children, and it is not something that can be explained clearly in three or two sentences, and parents and children need to work together." ”
Turning his head to look over there, a group of children were having a good time.
Especially the scene where the big children play with little Susu is very warm.
Yue Xiaosu's children's shoes "giggled" and laughed non-stop,
I like to go around my brothers and sisters like this,
Play with your older siblings.
Yue Yi suddenly asked the two mothers: "Do you want to ask the children to see if they are willing to go back to live with you at night?"
This question instantly stunned the two mothers, and they didn't know what to say?
For a long time, Ye Luna came back to her senses first.
"Can we take the kids back for the night?"
Yue Yi nodded: "Yes, but I will send it here tomorrow, because tomorrow the children may have to prepare a performance, so every child must be present to discuss." ”
The matter of preparing for the performance was naturally ignored by the two mothers.
Both mothers were occupied by the fact that they could take their daughters back.
Dong Wanxiu couldn't help but ask again: "Is it really possible?"
Yue Yi smiled and nodded again: "Well, but let the children agree by themselves." ”