Chapter 178: Routines and Sincerity

Gao Jun's words instantly mobilized the emotions of all the students, and after a smooth conversation, these people actually matched each other tacitly, and they rhymed together, full of tacit understanding.

Looking at their ardent expectations and eager desire to learn, Gao Jun felt a little helpless.

Qinhai University is an institution of higher learning, and almost all of the people who are admitted here are the top students of their original high school alma mater, so their high school life is not as colorful as most people, falling in love, engaging in objects, and playing games, they are more about studying, reviewing, and practicing.

Now I finally breathe a sigh of relief, I can finally grow up and enjoy freedom, but I am stunned to find that I can't do anything but study them.

In order to prevent them from going down the wrong path or being emotionally hurt, Gao Jun felt obligated to talk more about life with them, after all, they had studied long enough.

Gao Jun smiled bitterly and said, "Okay, then I'll share my experience with you."

This is your second weekend after your first date last week, and it stands to reason that some couples have already established a relationship, and this weekend has reached the stage of getting to know each other better.

Of course, it is also a time for each to do their best, and the routines and means fly together.

In love, girls are the dominant, and boys are mainly to please girls, which is an eternal rhythm.

So this date, in order to deepen the understanding of boys, girls will deliberately create a lot of tests, of course, this is understandable, although girls are dominant in love, but to some extent they are in a weak position, I am traditional, so I hope boys are ready.

If a girl breaks her foot while shopping, if a girl pays special attention to a certain item while shopping, the boy must stay, even if the girl says it badly, she must secretly go back and buy it.

If the girl breaks down halfway, you have to be prepared to be a rickshaw driver, if the girl says it's cold, your warm coat should be taken off immediately, in short, there will be all kinds of unexpected tests, it depends on whether the boy is attentive, in short, the details determine success or failure.

But ......"

Speaking of this, Teacher Gao suddenly raised his voice, and his eyes swept over the girls at the scene, serious girls: "I must warn the female classmates here that it is okay to test their boyfriends, but they must have a degree and a good grasp of the scale."

If a boy can run downstairs to your dormitory in the middle of the night to sing love songs to you, can meet any of your unreasonable demands in public, can let you lose your temper, can play a clown to make you happy when you are unhappy,、, can save money to eat instant noodles for a week in order to buy you gifts, can turn on his mobile phone 24 hours a day and be on call for you, then this boy is either a fool or a liar.

If he can do the above things, first of all, it means that he has no principles, and he is at the mercy of others, and such a man has no future.

If he is not a stupid fork, then he must have a strong sense of purpose if he is so compromised, and then he needs to be even more vigilant.

So I once again remind the girls to test their boyfriends to be moderate, and to be a lovely woman who is worth paying for boys!"

The girls suddenly showed a clear look and understood.

Teacher Gao said well, if you want others to pay for you, first of all, you have to be a person worthy of making people pay.

Therefore, there is a correspondence between receiving and giving.

Mr. Gao finally concluded: "A man is like an onion, if you want to fully understand him, you will peel it, but you will cry while peeling it, and you will find that he has no heart."

But what you don't know is that what you peeled from the beginning was his heart, but you didn't believe it.

The most important thing in love is to be sincere with each other, trust each other, communicate in the truest state, and don't be suspicious. ”

There is applause here......

Gao Jun smiled slightly and said: "Now let's talk about the boys, this second date, the boys will inevitably prepare carefully, and they will also be routines, but they can't escape the means of marketing." ”

For example, some boys will talk sweetly, swear that they will wholeheartedly treat you in the future, give you the best in the world, and so on, which is a typical sales pitch.

Some boys are in good condition and will promise to share with you how much property and real estate they have in the family, which is obviously a promotion.

Some boys don't say anything, they don't do much, they just look handsome, have a charming temperament, and have an elegant demeanor, which makes girls fall in love, which is clever marketing.

There are also boys who are good at everything, so that your girlfriends and female classmates around you praise him in unison, which is a wonderful brand effect.

In fact, to put it bluntly, it's all a routine. ”

The students burst into laughter and once again saw Gao Jun's profound knowledge and rich life experience and experience.

In the end, Gao Jun said: "To sum up, I believe everyone understands that regarding emotional issues, as an outsider, I can only share some experiences, and the road always needs two people to walk, and the future needs to be created by yourself."

And when I say this, what I want to express is nothing more than two words, that is, sincerity!!

Love is not about chasing interests and goals, it can't be quantified, it's just about the emotions of two people.

There is a good saying, it is called, if you treat each other sincerely, I will depend on each other for life and death, and if you are hypocritical, I will act on the spot.

Therefore, I hope everyone will be less routine and more sincere. ”

The students resonated greatly with his words, they need such a life coach now, they have studied for 12 years, there are still four years in the future, they just need to absorb knowledge, but that is just 'teaching', what they need more is 'education', to guide them to better embark on the right path in life.

Gao Jun looked at them with a smile and said, "Okay, now any of you have arranged a routine tomorrow, cancel it if you can, if you really like each other, even if you sit on the beach and chat, sitting on the top of the mountain to watch the sunset is also a kind of beauty." ”

After hearing this, many people immediately took out their mobile phones, which startled Gao Jun.

I have to say that today's students are all brought bad by the bad atmosphere of society, student couples go out on dates, and also learn to book high-end restaurants, go in and out of high-end clubs, and arrange romantic surprises, which is of course very good, but have you always done this?

There are a few ordinary people who can take their wives to eat Western food every day, unless they are foreigners, because they eat Western food every day.

Gao Jun shook his head helplessly, sure enough, it was a deep routine in the city.

At this moment, the eldest sister of the group leader suddenly came, called Gao Jun out, and said: "Xiao Gao, inform the students, this afternoon, the regular meeting of the cadres of the whole school, the leaders will finally inspect each branch, or random, so let the students all wear school uniforms, and there will be a flag-lowering ceremony at four o'clock in the afternoon, and pay attention to your words and deeds." ”

The eldest sister of the group leader left in a hurry, and went to the next classroom to inform, Gao Jun sighed again and again.

"It's a routine. Gao Jun said: "It turns out that the leader inspection is at most to do a big cleaning, but now he has to dress uniformly, and he has to do a small ceremony in which all the people participate, in addition to tossing the students, there is a fart meaning?"

He was disgusted with this kind of formality, but in a way.

He conveyed the original words of the group leader's eldest sister to the students, and the teacher immediately blew up the pot, which was supposed to relax in the afternoon, and they were ready to go out to play, but this time it was all in the soup.

Among them, Zhao Kun complained: "Do you still have to wear school uniforms? Oops, our school's school uniforms are ugly, and the quality is still poor, it must be that the school leaders have received kickbacks from the garment factory!"

After he finished speaking, there was a sudden grumbling.

Gao Jun waved his hand and said, "Just wear it, it's not a bad thing, I left a lifetime of regret because I didn't wear a school uniform." ”

Everyone was stunned for a moment, could it be that they still had regrets when they saw a life expert like Mr. Gao.

"What's going on, what do life regrets have to do with school uniforms, Mr. Gao?" asked a girl in the front row.

Gao Jun looked at her and said: "I remember when I was in middle school, there was a girl I had a crush on for a long time, and in the end I couldn't muster up the courage to confess to her, and finally when I graduated, the teacher asked us to wear ugly school uniforms to take graduation photos, but at that time, during the rebellious period, I was a maverick in casual clothes."

Who would have thought that in the end, I was arranged to stand with the girl and take pictures.

That was the only time I could take a photo with her in a couple photo, but I missed it, and I'm still a pity!"

The students burst into laughter and clapped vigorously.

Everyone is an honor student, and I admire Gao Jun's active thinking very much, wearing a school uniform is ugly, but when men and women are matched together, it becomes a couple's outfit, but it becomes a romantic thing.

People need to be active in their thinking, look at problems from multiple angles, and maybe bad things can become good things.

Lu Lei was a real person, and asked curiously: "After that, haven't you met again?

"Hey, don't mention it. Gao Jun sighed heavily and said: "When I was fifteen years old, I caught the cicada, thinking that I had caught the whole summer, when I was sixteen years old, I kissed her face, thinking that I would be with her forever, and when I was twenty-six years old, I saw her again, but she told me that fast food was three hundred and eighty-eight ......."

The students below immediately exploded and burst into laughter.

"Ahem!" Suddenly there was a heavy coughing sound at the door, Gao Jun turned his head to see that Tong Ling was standing at the door, holding a stack of papers, which should have just finished the test and happened to pass by.

If Gao Jun usually talks nonsense, forget it, but last night he used a gentle kiss to force Tong Ling to admit the relationship between the two in front of his family, which is equivalent to establishing a love relationship.

I met 'Your Majesty' in the corridor just now, because I didn't have a chance to talk about something, and now I happened to be passing by and listened to his nonsense, Teacher Tong couldn't help but be a little angry, and more often depressed, she really didn't know anything about Gao Jun's past, just like this kind of fast food 388 old friends how many of him are there?