Bai Xiaohua didn't allow himself to tell lies, and Bai Xiaohua didn't allow himself to say specious things, but at this time he felt that he could say such things.

Yes, a lot of times, you shouldn't generalize. A lot of times you shouldn't limit what you do, and a lot of times you shouldn't limit your words. Because you need to choose your words according to the situation, because you need to choose your actions according to the situation, because you need to decide what kind of words you want to say according to the specific situation. Obviously, he values this friend of his very much, since his friend has made a request for him, since his friend is eager for him to take a look at Zhang Hao, then it is obvious that Bai Xiaohua feels that he needs to consider his friend's opinion.

Although she knew that her friend's opinion was wrong, although she knew that her friend's opinion was not reliable, although she knew that her friend's opinion was not very correct, but it was clear. Since it is his friend's opinion, he needs to think about it, and since it is his friend's opinion, he needs to really think about it. Even though she knew it was wrong, he felt that he still needed to analyze it, even though he knew his friend's opinion was wrong. He felt that he should still pay attention. Bai Xiaohua did not continue to talk about this issue, but raised another question.

"That's right. How's my uncle doing?"

In fact, Li Xiaomei's father's condition has worsened in the past two days. Li Xiaomei's father has been forced to pay debts by creditors for the past two days, and Li Xiaomei's father's health is not particularly good, anyway, all in all, all kinds of things add up, Li Xiaomei's father is sick. Li Xiaomei actually went back to see her father.

"Much better, thank you for your concern. ”

In fact, at this time, Li Xiaomei was still thinking about Zhang Hao's problem, because it was obvious that Li Xiaomei was a person who paid special attention to feelings, or Li Xiaomei was a person who paid special attention to love, so when his love came, when he found out that he was in love with Zhang Hao, he felt that he was really devoted, she knew that she was wrong, yes, if you invested all your feelings in a relationship from the beginning, it is obvious that you are wrong at this time, you should not be at this time, your behavior at this time is wrong, and your thoughts at this time are also wrong。 It's not that you shouldn't start with all your feelings, it's that you don't know the other person at all, it's not that you're going to lose in the relationship, it's that any normal relationship should be gradual.

Yes, whether you're in a relationship or you're doing something, you should understand that. The law of development of all things in the world is similar. If you love someone very much at the beginning, if you put all your emotions into it at the beginning, if you start to do something without scruples at the beginning, then it is obvious that the end result may not be particularly good.

Here's a particularly simple example. You may especially love your lover. But at the beginning. You shouldn't allow yourself to be fully emotionally involved, or you shouldn't let yourself sink deep in the first place. Because the two of you don't have a deep emotional foundation, when you really fall into a deep relationship, when you feel that you really love him, obviously at this time you will do some inappropriate behavior, at this time you will say something inappropriate, if the relationship between the two of you is very deep, if the relationship between the two of you is no longer the same, then it is obvious that the two of you can of course quarrel unscrupulously, of course the two of you can discuss some topics unscrupulously, of course the two of you can say some things unscrupulously, but if the relationship between the two of you is not so deep, the relationship between the two of you is not so deep。 At this time, of course, the two of you should avoid some problems, and the two of you should wait patiently.

Yes, a lot of things in this world require patience. In fact, Bai Xiaohua's thoughts were very complicated, or rather, he remembered one thing, so he talked about one thing, and at this time, Bai Xiaohua of course also thought of this problem, so he said it directly.

"Li Xiaomei. I probably have a feeling, do you love Zhang Hao very much?"

Li Xiaomei nodded, of course. In fact, she was very surprised why Bai Xiaohua said that the topic was a little upside down. Yes, Bai Xiaohua was still talking about his father just now, and Bai Xiaohua was still talking about something to tell him just now, but now he turned to the topic of Zhang Hao. Bai Xiaohua continued.

"Actually, you know what? I have a feeling right now. It's that two people shouldn't quickly enter a state of love at the beginning. ”

Li Xiaomei was a little surprised, it is obvious that Li Xiaomei is not such a person at all, or in the relationship, Li Xiaomei does not think so at all, because Li Xiaomei believes in love at first sight, because Li Xiaomei believes in a natural pair, Li Xiaomei thinks so, he thinks that if you like someone, if you really like someone, if you quickly immerse yourself in the relationship, in fact, this is a very good thing. This can only show that the two of you are really in love, and it can only mean that you have met the right person.

I think what you said is wrong, I think as long as the two people are right in the relationship, I think as long as you meet the right person in the relationship, I think as long as you meet the right relationship in the relationship, then obviously the two of you can of course do something unscrupulously, of course the two of you can talk about love unscrupulously. If you say what you say, then I might as well find a marriage partner, if you tell me that I might as well just find someone who I have a little bit of a good impression of him, and she also has a little bit of a good impression of me, then the two of us will definitely not fall in love, but is this kind of love called love? Is this kind of love real love?"

Bai Xiaohua didn't want to discuss the topic of love with him at all. Bai Xiaohua also felt that it might not be particularly appropriate for her to say these words, because obviously, everyone has their own habits, everyone has their own past experiences, and everyone has their own different ideas, anyway, all in all, everyone has different concepts, of course everyone has different concepts of love, of course everyone has their own way of life, and of course everyone has their own ideas. So it is impossible for him to ask Li Xiaomei to live according to his ideas, and it is impossible for him to ask Li Xiaomei to fall in love according to his opinion, because obviously, no matter how good you are with a person, no matter how good your relationship with this person is, no matter how much you care about your friends, no matter whether you think your friends are right or wrong, obviously, in some things, you can't ask for your friends at all, in some things, you can't manage your friends, and in some things, you can't limit your friends, especially in the matter of falling in love。 You can't control your friends at all, and you can't ask your friends how to fall in love.

"Well, let's not talk about it. I need to tell you a message. Actually, I talked about it a few days ago. But I still think it's a bit illusory, so I'll tell you when things are confirmed today. ”

At this time, Li Xiaomei didn't know what Bai Xiaohua was going to say, yes, if Bai Xiaohua said that thing, then obviously, Li Xiaomei didn't believe it at all, or that no one in this world would believe it, because obviously, he didn't ask Bai Xiaohua to do anything at all, or she didn't ask Bai Xiaohua to do anything, or deep down, he didn't want Bai Xiaohua to do this thing at all, because obviously, if Bai Xiaohua did this, he would push his sister into the abyss, of course, it may be a bit exaggerated to say that his sister debuted in the abyss, but Li Xiaomei feels that this sentence still makes sense.

"You don't want Jiang Fan to borrow money, do you?"

Bai Xiaohua nodded.

"Actually, Jiang Fan had already agreed a few days ago, but I was a little unsure, or I didn't believe it at all, so I won't tell you until today, when Jiang Fan has gathered the money. ”

At this time, Li Xiaomei's mouth opened wide in surprise, or this was Li Xiaomei still couldn't believe what she heard, because it was obvious that the amount of money that her father lacked was too huge, or that every clear-eyed person understood that his father had no way to repay the money, and his father had no way to pay it back before, and his father had no ability to pay it back. But now there are people who are willing to lend money to his father.

"Bai Xiaohua, have you made it clear to Jiang Fan that my father is very likely to not be able to repay this amount of money, or I am sure that my father will not be able to repay this amount of money in his lifetime. Of course, I can pay it back for my father, but I'm not sure if I'll be able to pay it back even when I die of old age. ”

Bai Xiaohua nodded.

"Of course I've made it clear. I have explained all the situations to Jiang Fan, and I have made all the situations clear to Jiang Fan. But Jiang Fan is still willing to take this one. In fact, I also explained my meaning to Jiang Fan later, and I also wanted Jiang Fan to explain what you meant, but Jiang Fan told me so. Jiang Fan said that Bai Xiaohua's matter was his business. Bai Xiaohua's friend is also his business. ”