Chapter 103: Freedom ......
"But most husbands and wives are mutually compatible!" Yang Ming was persuading her, he was very afraid of marriage, and he was always afraid that he would not be qualified, but he felt even more inappropriate to separate so hastily.
She also reasoned: "But you have always been unwilling in your heart, and now you feel that you can bear it for a while, but what about after a long time? The cornerstone itself is shaken, can there be no problems in the future?"
"Don't think about it now, rest well, and give us a few days to calm down and think about it. Yang Ming persuaded her, "This is not child's play, be sensible!"
"Our flash marriage is not a mature consideration. She said.
"Flash marriages are not the problem. Yang Ming didn't let her think about it.
"How many flash marriages can last long? We are not familiar with the personalities of both parties, and the foundation of the hasty union is extremely unstable. She shook her head.
"Okay, okay, let's go rest, let's stop arguing, okay?" Yang Ming coaxed her to bed, although she didn't speak anymore, she was awake, and she didn't fall asleep until dawn in a daze.
Yang Ming also thought about it all night, and after feeling that she woke up, she discussed: "Let's not separate, if you force me more, I will definitely compromise." β
"Then you ask yourself, are you comfortable doing this, are you willing?" she asked.
"I'm casual, and I don't have everything to my heart's content. β
Li Wei was unhappy: "Look, you're making me blame myself! I designed you to be fooled! This is the fuse of our contradictions in the future!"
Yang Ming was also annoyed: "Don't go to the tip of the bull's horns! No life will be perfect! Don't pursue perfection, and I don't always think about the outside world, can't we accommodate each other?"
"No, don't yell at me!" she pushed him away emotionally, "I was too hasty at first! I thought you would adapt, but now it's not in the plan, I miscalculated!"
"Calm down!" Yang Ming hugged her, "I don't blame you!
"I can't stand this!" she was frantic, "I don't know how to make you happy, the more you behave like this, the more it's my fault, you don't do what I want!"
"I'm a human being, and I have my own emotions, so I can't be a machine that only receives commands. Yang Ming wanted to say that her desire to control was indeed a bit strong.
"I didn't mean it that way, but I couldn't help it!" she curled up.
"Let these go!Just let it be!" Yang Ming helped her.
"I messed up. She muttered, "I always want to control everything about you, and you're not ready, you were wrong in the first place, and we didn't even have time to get to know each other." β
Yang Ming wanted to pull her back, but she was really stubborn. Her original plan was to force it, and both parties would slowly run in and accept her approach, but Yang Ming was slow to do it.
However, Yang Ming felt that it was not normal for husband and wife to quarrel?
He adopted this strategy, and afterwards she calmed down a lot, but decided anyway: "Separation can make us both think calmly, I will change my desire to control, and you will go and live the life you want." When we all feel that the time is right, we will consider whether we are still the right one. β
Yang Ming was silent for a while: "Do you really want this?"
She nodded: "If only we could still look at each other's eyes, get back together." If not, go your own way. I'm very busy with my career, and I really don't have the heart to think about the right and wrong feelings. β
Yang Ming had the heart to keep it again, but she put the logic out: "Can you be sure that you don't miss the outside world of flowers?"
"Just give me more timeβ"
"Can or can't?" she interrupted.
"Not sure. β
"Can you stand me trying to control you, from start to finish?" she asked again.
"No, you can't. β
"I can't stand you, and you can't stand me. Li Wei combed here, "Maybe we can live for a while, but in the long run, sooner or later, there will be problems." β
This reasoning left Yang Ming speechless.
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A few days later, they joined the Civil Affairs Bureau.
It's only been 20 days since the last time, and despite the staff's dissuasion and consideration, the two parties still chose to break up peacefully, ending this hot-headed lightning marriage.
Yang Ming was still holding Li Wei's hand and was not used to letting go, and wanted to ease up: "You said that if we go back and talk about getting back together now, will we be scolded to death?"
"Probably so. She kind of wanted to laugh.
"Definitely say we're insane. Yang Ming shook his head and opened the passenger door for her, "Where do you want to go?"
"I've gone to work and I've been pulling down too many things lately. She said.
Yang Ming drove her.
"What are friends and family going to say?" Yang Ming asked.
"Let's talk about it later, let's hide it for now. She said.
"Yes. Yang Ming didn't tell his parents either.
"When I have time for the weekend, I move my stuff out. Li Wei said again.
"If you like it there, I'll leave it to you. Yang Ming was ashamed.
"It's not fun to live alone in such a big place, it's empty. She shook her head.
"I'll help you move. β
"Definitely. She nodded.
There was silence.
When he was about to reach the ground, Yang Ming shook his head: "I regret it a little." β
"I'm long live liberation now. She laughed, "Who made you not see my goodness! But if you show your demeanor, I will consider being invited to dinner." β
"Will you find someone else?" Yang Ming asked.
"I'm busy. She said. "I'm also very picky. β
Yang Ming added in his heart that if Lao Tzu saw which man dared to think more, arrange a few brothers to break his legs! Lao Yang was also black, Zhang Bing and Song Dewen's gang of guys, it was easy to get a person.
Sure enough, it's still the domineering psychology of males, so I'm quite unreasonable! Even if I become an ex-wife, it's not something that Xiao Qisan can get close to.
Finally delivered to the bank, Li Wei opened the car door and looked back at him: "I won't go back at night, get together with my girlfriends." β
"Don't get drunk. Yang Ming was a little worried.
"I have hangover medicine in my bag, I won't give men a chance. "She's smart.
He was a little uneasy: "Don't trust the men outside, they like to cheat and cheat like me! or even worse, every word is for desire!"
She laughed, "No need for this, I'm not as casual as you." I'm demanding of men, and you're overcaring. β
"There's something to find me, anything!" he earnest.
"Hmm!" she agreed.
Seeing Li Wei's figure disappear into the bank building, Yang Ming still couldn't help but sigh, and it was over, just like the lightning at the beginning, he was caught off guard.
He can't say whether Li Wei's approach is right or wrong, cut through the mess quickly, long pain is better than short pain, if he still has a regretful mentality, can he ensure that there will be no problems in the marriage?
He really didn't dare to guarantee it. It may be wise to choose to separate, but her own scumbag thinking is still in the impulse to constantly harm the outside world, and it is not suitable to bring it to her.
"Freedom...... Damn!" Yang Ming took out his mobile phone, planning to meet a few guys, have a drink and roar, and clean up these wrong emotions in his heart.
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