If you want to ask any question that bothers the school the most, it is undoubtedly the phenomenon of school bullying. It's not bad, it's not skipping class, it's not early love, it's not blatantly raising the bar with the teacher, it's school bullying. This problem is like a dead knot, the bullied student is tightly tied inside, and sometimes it cannot be solved by brute force.

The most difficult thing to solve is that even if the school and parents intervene to find the person who bullied the student, the problem is difficult to solve, and the bullying is likely to continue as a result of retaliation, and it may become more severe, resulting in unimaginable psychological and physical harm to the student being bullied.

And even if the school and parents don't intervene, it will not be so easy to help students solve the problem on their own.

It depends on the personality of the bullying party, and there is no set way to deal with it. Some students on the bullying side will arouse their desire to bully when they encounter those who are not convinced, which will lead to the worsening of bullying, while some students on the bullying side will find it boring and lose their desire after encountering those students who are not convinced.

So, essentially, the solution starts with the bullying party. However, there are often a large number of people involved in the bullying party, and it is a waste of time and experience whether it is coercive or enlightening means, at most it is to choose a representative from them to punish it as a warning, and this has no effect.

This is also the reason why bullying incidents end in a dark way, often ending with the bullied student transferring to another school. However, this is also not a good method, because the bullied object is somewhat withdrawn and does not have too many friends, and it is not easy to get along with the students in the class, and then change to a new school at this time, other students are old friends, only one stranger, which makes it difficult for transfer students to integrate into the group, and finally live their high school life alone.

Moreover, in the end, it will still leave an indelible psychological shadow, so it is difficult to have a perfect ending to bullying incidents, resulting in such incidents will always be the most headache for schools and teachers.

This girl's name is Xie Yilin, and she also belongs to the type that rarely talks in the class, she doesn't have many friends, and she rarely laughs, and occasionally says a few words to her tablemates, but usually most of the rest time is just silently listening to songs in the seat.

This girl's name is very beautiful, and the person is actually very beautiful, not very tall, about one meter in her early fifties, and her figure is also very slender, looking similar to a junior high school student, with a peugeot melon seed face, Danfeng eyes look charming, a small nose and naturally ruddy lips, she is indeed a very handsome girl.

"Go first. Qin Yi glanced at Li Sisi, and then came to Xie Yilin's side.

"Xie Yilin. Qin Yi smiled and said, Xie Yilin didn't say anything, just silently sorted out her hair and clothes. Qin Yi sighed, many people think that bullying between boys is terrible, and they are often beaten around and robbed of their finances, but what is really terrible is actually the bullying between girls.

Bullying between girls is not only physical harm, undressing and taking videos and uploading them to the Internet, or beer bottle corks, etc., but what girls are best at is actually "relationship violation", which is cold violence, through verbal attacks, cynicism, spreading rumors, isolating and excluding others, etc.

On the other hand, boys, where can they be so careful, if they don't like it, they will be beaten at most. So in fact, the really scary thing happens to be bullying between girls, and similar phenomena have been increasing in recent years.

Seeing that Xie Yilin didn't speak, Qin Yi frowned slightly: "It's a student from another class, right?"

"Teacher, I'm not going to raise the national flag today. Xie Yilin said lightly, tidied up her hair, then plugged in the headphones and lay down on the table, buried her face in the crook of her arm and listened to the song quietly, as if she didn't plan to communicate with Qin Yi.

"Do you mind if the teacher listens with you?" Qin Yi asked with a smile, "Just think of a teacher who teaches rusticism, what is the trend." ”

Xie Yilin didn't raise her head, and after a while, she took off a headset from her ear and handed it to Qin Yi. Seeing this, Qin Yi took it and stuffed it into his ears, and the song was Eason Chan's "It's Okay".

"Well, good taste, Eason Chan's songs are good. Qin Yi replied with a smile.

Xie Yilin still didn't say anything, and continued to bury her head in listening to the song, while Qin Yi asked, "You like to listen to music very much, right?"

Xie Yilin still didn't answer, so Qin Yi said to himself: "That's why you went to practice?"

Xie Yilin was a little surprised at this time, she raised her head and glanced at Qin Yi, as if asking how he knew.

"Teacher An mentioned to me that your body is very soft, and your usual posture will inadvertently straighten your waist and abdomen, and your shoulder blades are open outward, which is a typical dancer's characteristics. Qin Yi smiled and said, "Why didn't you continue?"

Xie Yilin held her chin and sighed slightly: "For many reasons, I started learning to dance in the third grade of primary school, and then because I didn't grow tall, and then the teacher said that I didn't look good at dancing, and said that it didn't make sense for me to continue dancing, so it was better to forget it." At that time, I was just about to take the high school entrance examination, so I gave up. ”

"Actually, it has nothing to do with being tall," Qin Yi said with a smile, "Dancing girls must be confident, dare to laugh, and believe that they are the most beautiful, so that they can have that attractive temperament when they dance." ”

Xie Yilin nodded: "My dance teacher said the same thing. ”

"Do you feel sorry to give up halfway?" Qin Yi asked with interest, Xie Yilin shook her head: "It's okay, in fact, I don't particularly like dancing, I just like music, and I like singing more than dancing." ”

"That's right. Qin Yi nodded, and after a while, he asked again, "Would you like to talk to the teacher about this?"

Xie Yilin pursed her lips and replied lightly: "They said that I was a vixen who seduced men." ”

"Is it because of your eyes?" Qin Yi asked curiously, Danfeng's eyes are easy to give people a charming feeling, plus Xie Yilin is already beautiful, it is normal for girls to be jealous of her because of this kind of thing.

"How does the teacher know? Do you think so too?" Xie Yilin frowned slightly, bowed her head and asked sadly. Qin Yi shrugged: "Because your eyes are the most attractive, and naturally they are the most likely to attract the jealousy of others." ”

"It's not what I thought...... Xie Yilin bit her lower lip and said sadly, "They said that the boys in which class and which class liked me and asked me to stay away from him, and it wasn't me who made him like me...... I didn't even know him, I didn't do anything, why choose me...... It's not fair......"

Seeing Xie Yilin crying, Qin Yi also breathed a sigh of relief, took out a handkerchief to help Xie Yilin wipe her tears, wiped off the traces of the colored pens on her face, and replied: "It's not fair, but your problem also happens to lie in the fact that you 'didn't do anything', have you ever thought about it? Why did they choose you?"

In fact, the temperament that really attracts those bullies is loneliness rather than weakness, and bullies always choose lonely people rather than people with friends, because the risk of bullying two people is naturally higher than bullying one.

"Teacher, do you mean that they bullied me because of my own fault?" Xie Yilin asked aggrievedly.

"No, of course it's not right for them to bully you, I'm just saying that it's entirely possible for you to avoid this. Qin Yi sighed slightly and said, stroking Xie Yilin's head to help her smooth out the hair on the back of her head, "You have to understand that the target of bullying often acts alone. Why don't you try to make a few friends in class?"

Xie Yilin hesitated, but did not speak.

"Look, you're a beautiful kid with a good personality, why don't you communicate more with the students in the class?" Qin Yi asked puzzledly, "Did everyone do something that made you hate?"

"Actually......" Xie Yilin said, muttering in a low voice: "I don't like those girls...... I actually always wear headphones, but I don't always play songs, so I often hear them talking about people in private, saying bad things about the boys and girls, saying that they are really rustic, really stingy and so bad. But on the surface, I get along well with them. ”

Speaking of this, Xie Yilin lowered her head: "I don't like those who are two-faced......"

"Oh, it's always like that, girls. Qin Yi smiled slightly helplessly.

This phenomenon is really unavoidable, girls just like to gossip behind their backs and talk about the gossip of people they don't like, Hu Peihan, Li Sisi, Tang Xueying and Wang Qi, any girl will be like this, this is the nature of girls.

But this doesn't mean that they are not good children, so Qin Yi didn't know how to explain it, so he could only sigh: "Anyway, you are a good boy, but I think there must be someone in the class who is not what you say." ”

"I haven't found ...... yet," Xie Yilin bowed her head and muttered, then sighed, "I'm a little tired." ”

"I know. Qin Yi scratched his head in annoyance, "In short, the group of people who bullied you, do you know which class it is? Is there anyone you know? As long as there is a person who can report the name." ”

Xie Yilin shook her head, Qin Yi sighed, and patted her shoulder: "Then you can rest first." ”

As he spoke, Qin Yi stood up, this matter had just begun, Xie Yilin was only bullied for the first time, but something more terrifying was waiting for her later.

The scariest thing about bullying girls is that the bullying party is not necessarily a bad girl, they are likely to have good grades, look very well-behaved, and never miss class and be late.

"Teacher, is someone bullying her?" After Qin Yi came to the playground, Li Sisi asked in a low voice: "Maybe I can help a little, ask who bullied her, and then teach them a lesson......

"Go, go, go. Qin Yi frowned and poked at Li Sisi's head, "I finally let you get rid of that mess, don't take the initiative to jump into it." Are those old thugs still pestering you?"

"There are a few sisters who have a good time still coming and going, so what's the matter, we haven't done anything hurtful. Li Sisi muttered unconvinced, "Besides, I can protect her, why do you want to stop me?"

"I didn't stop you, it's good that you want to protect her, I'm just reminding you not to associate with those bad guys anymore. Qin Yi nodded with satisfaction and said, "Then it's up to you to take care of that kid for me." ”

Indeed, if it were up to Li Sisi, it might be possible to solve this matter without him appearing. As long as Xie Yilin can make friends with Li Sisi, the possibility of being bullied will be much smaller, after all, Li Sisi is also the kind of girl who is relatively tough.

Therefore, Qin Yi handed over this matter to Li Sisi for the time being, but this does not mean that he will rest assured that he will completely hand over this matter to Li Sisi, after all, they are still children, and there is always something wrong with handling things.

Now, though, there's a more important thing to deal with, and that's the semifinals of the varsity basketball team.

Today, everyone also gathered in the playground to cheer on the boys in their class. And in today's game, their opponent is the first class of high school, which still attracts a lot of attention.

The reason is also very simple, classes 10 to 13 are the rocket classes of their school, that is, the classes of honor students.

Considering that there are more students with good grades in the class, arranging so many sports students will not be pulled away much in terms of average grades, so there are also so many students with good sports in these rocket classes, plus there is a boy in class 10 who has excellent academic performance and is very good at sports, which makes the basketball team of their class all the way to the semifinals.

Generally speaking, the kind of boy who is handsome and good at sports and studies is generally the public enemy of boys, because all girls like this kind of boy. And the name of this male god in the tenth class of high school is Xiao He, and Xiao He is also Xiao He who is defeated by Xiao He. He was a boy with bronzed skin, with sword eyebrows and starry eyes, but his expression was unusually arrogant.

"Ah, that's that guy......" Dai Hang frowned and said unhappily, "It's really unpleasant, as if he is a very famous star......"

I have to say that this little ghost named Xiao He is indeed quite a card. He appeared surrounded by a group of girls, and as soon as he came to the court, the whole audience was screaming, not only the girls from his own class, but also the girls from other classes came to cheer.

"Listen, we must win today, and we must crush them!" Dai Hang said angrily as he pointed at his teammates behind him.

The other boys also responded with a fighting spirit: "That's a must!" and "Beat them!"

And Qin Yi was also a little interested: Will this little ghost named Xiao He become the key to letting go of the troubled children in his class? What unites people is often not friendship, but a common enemy.