Chapter 321: There is no way to say that people are short, and there is no way to talk about their own strengths
With such a scene, Chen Zier decided... He can't let her live with him when he spends his own money and buys a house! Otherwise, he won't be able to let go of his hands and feet and his true nature in the future!
After Qianyu and Zisheng left, he assigned two guest rooms, the one where his parents slept in a larger bed, and the one in which Ziyan slept in a smaller one.
After running all the way in the summer, their bodies were sweaty, so Chen Zier taught them things like hot left and cool right so that they could take a good hot bath.
After such a busy pass, it was actually three or four o'clock in the afternoon, and the two elders were tired, and he had something to do tonight, so he didn't think about taking them out to play.
Ziyan really wants to go out, but she is also sensible, so it's okay to postpone it.
When Chen's father saw the teapot on the coffee table, he went to get the tea leaves he brought and brewed them, and called Chen Zier to sit on the balcony for a while.
The inside of the house is cool enough, and it is still very comfortable to have a few drinks here.
"Your girlfriend, Xiao Sheng, how are you two doing?"
Chen's mother took Ziyan to the house to fold clothes, and only the two of them were left here.
Chen Zier leaned on the chair, crossed Erlang's legs, and held a teacup in his hand, "It's good, our relationship has always been good." ”
Looking down from here, Chen's father was full of emotion, "Our family, I just said directly, what happened to her father?"
Chen Zier said: "I'm still staying inside, I haven't seen it." ”
"What about Xiao Sheng herself, what is her attitude?"
"She's supposed to be more conflicted than us, and if that person makes me unhappy, I'll just leave, but that's her own father, so she's actually harder than me. Chen Zier really sympathized with her from the bottom of her heart, rather than asking her to break with her father, "I usually rarely ask, I have also seen other relatives, her mother and aunt, people are not bad." ”
"Hmm......" Dad Chen nodded, "I think the girl is very good, well-behaved and sensible, and I've been with you for so long." You must know that when the two of you were talking, there was no shadow of the house under our feet now, at that time the people were from the city, you came from the countryside of northern Jiangsu, she didn't dislike you, I think she is kind at this point, and you can't forget this in your life. ”
What Dad Chen said is a bit exaggerated, at the beginning of Chen Zier's love with Sheng Qianyu, he had already bought a duplex house in Dijing Blue Bay, but Sheng Qianyu really didn't care about how many achievements he had, nor did he care about anything like the city and the countryside.
From the perspective of the general environment, regional discrimination exists, she can not care about these, Chen Zier admires on the one hand, admires her wisdom in jumping out of the small people in the market, and on the other hand, she also admires and admires this girl's sincerity in her feelings for herself.
"Don't worry, Dad, I know. ”
Chen's father's education to him since he was a child is actually not allowed to be bad for women.
He said: "You are not allowed to have a grudge because someone else's father is in prison, this is actually what makes her sad, people are willing to follow you, not only should you not be discriminated against because of this, but you should tolerate her." One day, if you marry someone into the door, you can't let people say that our Chen family bullied your daughter-in-law. ”
"I know what you mean, I have never cared about this problem, don't you always teach me not to be like a tailor, measure the strengths and weaknesses of others, and measure the shortness of my own family? Comrade Chen, you can live a comfortable retirement life with peace of mind, I promise to get these things right. ”
Dad Chen smiled with great relief, he took a sip of tea, and continued: "That's right, there is no Taoist person's shortcomings, no one's own strengths! I'm sorry, by the way, you tell me the bottom, how sure is Xiao Sheng's study abroad?"
Chen Zier smiled helplessly, this old Comrade Chen really cares about this.
"I can see that she actually doesn't have confidence in herself, but I know that she is very smart, talented in computers, and has participated in some international college student computer programming competitions before and won awards!"
"Really?!" Dad Chen was happy and nodded again and again, "That's good, that's good." ”
The smile on his face faded again, "I forgot to tell you about business." ”
Chen Zier asked, "What's the matter?"
Dad Chen put down the teacup and pointed at him with his finger, "You." ”
"Me, what's wrong with me?"
"You've succeeded too quickly. ”
Chen Zier: "......"
"What is there to say about this?"
"You're a college student now, you have more knowledge than I do, you can speak English I can't, you can tinker with a convenience store in exchange for such a big house, I can't buy it with a little money, I can't bring it successfully. ”
"You're saying don't make me feel like I'm rich and omnipotent?"
Dad Chen shook his hand, "I believe you still understand this, I don't think what you have done is great because you are now developed." What I want to tell you is the word loss, as the old saying goes, suffering is a blessing, you are good, you must have taken advantage everywhere in the past two years, right?"
Chen Zier said: "It's taking advantage of some advantages, it's not okay to make quick money without taking advantage of it, but Dad, I'm all legal and cheap." ”
"I know, you kid wouldn't do that. My meaning is also very simple, suffering losses are blessings, and those who have not suffered losses will suffer big losses in the end, and you have to remember that blessings have an end. ”
Chen Zier understood what his father meant, not to ask him to find a loss, but to remind him that he didn't have to fight with others everywhere.
"You're too young, but your achievements are too great, and what you do is always success, you're climbing too fast!"
"Sometimes you get used to taking advantage of cheap, and I'm always worried that you will feel that a small loss is a big loss in the future. In fact, at a deeper level, people who are willing to suffer some losses on unimportant issues have a kind of open-mindedness and tolerance, as well as some reason and self-restraint, such people are liked everywhere they go, on the other hand, you see the bear horse in our village, it is not good to be a madman, no one can ride on his head, take a little advantage from him, and what will happen in the end? ”
Chen's father didn't have any big truths, just talked about some practical life experience, and he listened to it.
"Okay, Dad, I understand your son, when I encounter something that I suffer one day, I will tell you the first one to make you happy. ”
"Go, you boy, I'll tell you what to be serious, you know poverty. ”
"Let me remember a little, suffering a loss is not to let you be bullied everywhere and dare not say a word, but to suffer a loss is not to let you be aggressive everywhere; those who refuse to suffer losses must be too careful, and they are heavy about gains and losses, and they may even sacrifice their roots for a little thing. ”
Chen's father was quite serious, and Chen Zier was not skinny, so he nodded and said, "Yes, I must have remembered." ”