Liu Hao was stunned for a while, and finally cheered herself up, there were still too many things to do in her hands, and she couldn't waste time on sad spring and sorrow.

But as soon as Zhuang Lijun left, the anger in the house faded a lot, she lived alone, and she was no longer interested in tinkering with food in the kitchen, even watering the flowers on the balcony would unconsciously lose her mind, surrounded by empty loneliness, I didn't feel lonely before I got married, and now I'm used to the world of two people, and I'm not used to being alone.

In order to resolve this loneliness, she can only focus on work, and she is the first to come and the last to leave in the office every day.

"Your family isn't at home during this time, right?" Xu Hua saw her strange appearance and quipped, "You look at Liu Haohao's current appearance, and you can see that he is a person without a family." ”

"Teacher Xu, how can you see that?" asked another teacher in the department, Mr. Wang, curiously.

"You think about her used to go home from work every day when she arrived, and she wished she could give birth to a pair of wings on her back and fly back, but she stayed late in the office these days, went back to the cafeteria several times to have a meal, and returned to the office to read. ”

Everyone laughed, these teachers in the law department had taught Liu Haohao, and they were very familiar with her, and they all coaxed, "Okay, did Mr. Xu say something wrong?"

Liu Haohao looked helpless, "Teacher Xu is aware of everything, and I have nothing to hide in front of his old man." ”

"If you continue to stay in this state, come early and leave at the latest, we will suggest to the school that we leave this year's advanced to you. ”

"That's right, you're insisting, but don't wait for your family to come back and run faster than a rabbit. ”

Liu Hao is speechless, she is the youngest in the office, and everyone likes to joke about her the most.

A few middle-aged female teachers laughed, "It's not interesting to take it first if you don't go home, let's not listen to them." ”

"That is, you will not be lonely when you have a child, and you will be guaranteed to want to go home every day. ”

"That's right, hurry up and ask for one while you're young. ”

"When it comes to children, I think don't have children so early, they are still young, can they take care of their children? I think they even got married early, and now they don't advocate late marriage and late childbearing. ”

"What does this have to do with being young? My mother gave birth to me when I was sixteen, and I gave birth to the eldest of our family when I was their age. ”

"It's not the same now as in the past, it's very important to marry late and have children later, if you don't reach the age of late marriage and childbearing, be careful that the academy will trouble you. ”

"You can't blame the college, this is a hard indicator, if someone doesn't marry late and have children late, it will affect the entire college and not be able to evaluate the advanced. ”

"Speaking of which, it's not too old, it's a marriage stuck in the late marriage line, right?"

"Yes, at that time, the leaders of the hospital still came to do my work and asked me if I could get married later, after all, it was not very good-looking when I got stuck in the line. Liu Haohao said helplessly that in the past two years, she began to advocate late marriage, and her hometown has not yet felt this atmosphere, but it is very obvious in Beijing University, and she, an older young woman in her hometown, is considered to be an early marriage in Beijing University.

"Fortunately, you are married after twenty-three, and there is a female teacher in the college next door who wants to get married at twenty-two, and the college just doesn't give approval, and the teacher is also an ignorant person, and he goes to their hospital to make trouble all day long, and now it's okay, not only did the procedures not be approved, but he was also transferred. ”

"I don't think there's anything wrong with getting married late, if you marry too early, you're still a child, how can you have the ability to take on the responsibilities of the family? And now you can only have one, then you have to have good children, but you can't have children as hastily as in the past. ”

"Yes, there were many births in the past, one was unproductive, and you can count on the next one, but now it's different, they all count on that single seedling, and a child, whether it's a boy or a girl, has to work hard to cultivate. ”

"Okay, do you want a boy or a girl?"

"Do you still need to ask? It must be a boy, don't look at the fact that all the days are the same for boys and girls, everyone still wants to have a boy in their hearts, don't tell me you don't think so. ”

"Hao Hao is also a woman, you see that she is not more competitive than many men. ”

"That's what I said, but the traditional concept is to raise children to prevent old age, don't believe you to ask your good in-laws and parents, do you want a boy?"

"Giving birth to a boy or a girl is a matter of God rolling the dice, and no one can decide. Liu smiled embarrassedly, she was not pregnant yet, and it was too far away to give birth to a boy and a girl.

"I've heard that now some people want to have a boy, so they go to the ultrasound when they are pregnant, and if it is a girl, they will kill it. ”

"It's so hurtful! It's all your own flesh and blood, how can you give it up?"

"What's the solution? In order to have a boy, pass on the ancestry. ”

"It's okay if the child is not born, but some people drown directly after giving birth to a girl. ”

"That's a murder!"

"There are so many things like this in the countryside, everyone turns a blind eye, who cares who will report the crime? There are still many people who can't afford to raise girls and give them away. ”

"By the way, okay, your Southern Province is also well-known for its patriarchy, this kind of thing should be not uncommon, right?"

Liu Haohao has a kinship, "It's quite common, I'm afraid when I think about it now, my father gave birth to three daughters in a row, and only then gave birth to my brother, an only son, he was full of energy to have a son, and he didn't give birth to a son, but fortunately my grandfather was here, otherwise our three sisters might not be able to grow up safely." ”

"Then your grandfather is rare and enlightened, and the old people in many places are patriarchal. ”

"I really think that having a boy and a girl are the same, everyone will have only one child in the future, even if it is a daughter, she will be raised as a boy, and in the future, she will also have to bear the responsibility of filial piety and support for her parents, as long as you raise your children well, why care so much about gender?" Liu Haohao never felt that there was any difference between boys and girls, what boys can do, girls can also do.

"Having said that, this traditional concept of thousands of years has been determined, and it is not an overnight thing to want to change, and your in-laws are also educated and high-quality people, do you ask them if they also want a boy?"

"Yes, you're still going to have to find a way to have a boy!" everyone came to the same conclusion.

"Is there a way to think about this?" Liu Hao cried and laughed, "I think girls are very good, I like girls." ”

Her own child, who is a close relative, how can she be deprived of her life because of her gender, just thinking about her makes her feel heartache, she is also a woman herself, and she doesn't feel that she is worse than a man.