Chapter 317: Admiration
Liu Haohao was thinking about it secretly, and suddenly found that Li Xin was silent, and when she looked up, she saw the sad and resentful expression on her face, and knew that she was thinking about it, and her heart was sour and sweet, in the end, it was her own mother, only she would feel so sorry for her.
remembered that when she first came to this world, the original owner was already dead at that time, but Liu Changsheng and Cheng Zhaodi were all thinking about the family affairs with the Zhuang family, such a contrast is not stark.
If it wasn't Zhuang Lijun who was married to her, but Zhuang Xiaoli, the scum scum, Liu Changsheng and his wife would probably not hesitate to force her to jump into the fire pit, in this world, not all parents really love their children.
Liu Haohao only sighed a little, and did not have too much resentment, because she had received enough love from her parents and relatives in her previous life, and this love was enough to support her to face all the wind and rain without a trace of resentment and resentment.
Anyway, she didn't treat Liu Changsheng and his wife as her own biological couple, she didn't have any expectations for them, and naturally she wouldn't be sad and disappointed, she just had Li Xin's care and love.
But she was reluctant to let Li Xin feel sad for herself, so she hurriedly told her everything about herself and Zhuang Lijun like pouring beans into a bamboo tube.
She didn't feel embarrassed to talk to her mother about this kind of thing, and she never hid her love life from her parents back then, what they were curious about, she said honestly, and said it very specifically word for word, which was a model of parent-child communication.
It's just that none of them realize that her honesty is inseparable from her dullness, otherwise which girl is willing to share her love feelings with her parents? Even if her parents have a good relationship with her like a close friend, there will still be a certain generation gap, which makes people feel embarrassed.
However, Liu Chi and Li Xin are also serious people, when the three of them sat down to analyze her feelings, it was like having a meeting together to study work, rationality completely overwhelmed sensibility, love and marriage need to be impulsive, according to their cultural background, regional differences, family, personality, three views, habits, emotional intelligence, IQ ...... Analyzing them one by one, there is really no person of the opposite sex who can meet the standard.
Liu Chi loves his daughter very much, and after thinking about it, he still suggests that she would rather lack than abuse, so as not to regret it in the future.
So no matter how worried Li Xin was, she was inevitably left behind in the end.
Now Liu Haohao is still the same as in the past, he doesn't want to hide anything from Li Xin, but if it is too serious, and he is afraid that Li Xin will fight for her and have a bad impression of Zhuang Lijun, so he unconsciously omitted his reluctance at the beginning and only mentioned the benefits of Zhuang Lijun in the relationship between the two.
When she talked about these things with Li Xin and Liu Chi in her previous life, she always spoke impartially, maintained absolute objectivity and calmness, and had never been so biased, even she herself did not notice that her attitude towards Zhuang Lijun had a subtle change and tendentious attitude.
Li Xin was finally not as angry as he was just now, but there was still a trace of worry in his eyebrows, "In this way, others are quite good, but you are too young to go to college, the world is so vast, if you meet a more suitable person, but you are bound by this marriage contract, what should you do?"
"Hahaha, impossible. Liu laughed well, in her previous life, she lived for more than 30 years, and she had seen a wide range of the world, and she had never met the right person, how could she be able to study in college and emerge with a suitable one?
"How is it impossible?" Li Xin looked at her strangely, "Now that the best young people in the country are concentrated in universities, especially Jingcheng University, isn't it normal for you to meet equally outstanding young people there, and have a similar learning and living environment and common language?"
"Living in a similar environment does produce feelings, but it may not necessarily produce feelings between men and women, it is more likely to be brotherly feelings," Liu Haohao was not worried at all, "I don't know how to do housework, I can't manage the house well, especially not suitable for starting a family, if anyone marries me, it will be a loss." ”
"Nonsense, you have a good personality, strong ability, smart and beautiful, whoever wants to marry you is a blessing!" Li Xin said unconvinced.
Liu laughed well, her mother is exactly the same as she was back then, she looks like the best, the best and the best of my daughter in the world, and no one can compare to her.
"You're so young, it's so hasty to make a marriage contract to you so early. Remembering that she was determined by her family at a young age, Li Xin was still like a fish in her throat, very unhappy, and sighed uncontrollably, "Fortunately, you are smart, it has dragged on for a few years, it is not good for girls to get married too early, you have to finish college first, and then consider entering marriage after the job is stable, otherwise if you get married early, have children and take care of housework, you are likely to become a vassal of men in the end, thus losing your independent status." ”
There are not many women in this era who can have Li Xin's thoughts, and even a few decades later, there are still many girls who are vassals of men in a daze, and they don't realize this truth until their marriage hits the rocks.
Li Xin is a late marriage family, she met Liu Chi on a blind date after finishing college, talked about love for three or four years, and after full understanding and communication, she identified the other party, and then got married firmly, she is a very assertive woman emotionally, which is inseparable from Chen Shouyu's words and deeds.
Chen Shouyu himself was born in a famous family, well-educated, and a respected doctor, after marrying Li Jishao, not only has his own independent and equal status in marriage, but also the real head of the family in the family, and is a woman with absolute right to speak, so although her daughters have different personalities, they are still very sober and rational in choosing a marriage partner, and they can manage the marriage as they want.
Just like Li Ping's appearance, he found a good gentleman who was peaceful and casual, and Li Xin, who was originally very strong, put his figure very low because he admired Liu Chi's intelligence and talent, and was willing to pay for him.
Of course, no matter how low she is, she is not low to the dust, she has never given up her career for Liu Chi and her family, but has tried her best to maintain the balance between family and career, and it is this that has won the respect of Liu Chi and others.
So Li Xin, who is now the same age as Liu Haohao and is only twenty years old, can say categorically in this era, "Women must have their own careers, and they can't become vassals of men".
Liu Haohao's eyes sparkled when she looked at her, she really deserved to be her mother, no matter what era she was, she made herself admire!