If anyone has such abusive parents, compare their hearts to their hearts, and replace them with their own hearts, and they don't want to listen to others ask a word and mention it.

Fortunately, my daughter gave them a 'preventive shot' in advance, otherwise if they took the liberty of mentioning it, it would be tantamount to sprinkling salt on other people's wounds!

Now after careful observation, both husband and wife secretly nodded in praise.

The rate at which a person's mind grows depends on the degree of psychological blow he suffers when he fails. Parents are the textbooks for their children.

With such parents as role models, it is rare that this girl can still live with a sunny attitude.

I didn't complain about the world everywhere because I had suffered hardships, and I was full of resentment towards the world. On the contrary, because he has endured hardships, he helps those in need more.

I heard my daughter say that the work-study activities in orphanages and nursing homes are dirty, tiring, bitter and unprofitable, but this girl actively signed up, noble and selfless, open-minded and generous.

The two basic virtues corresponding to not hurting others because of one's own pain and helping everyone as much as possible are justice and charity.

Justice and charity is not being able to endure the suffering of others and forcing oneself to at least not hurt others.

To see others suffering is to suffer as if it were to oneself, so that oneself can help everyone.

Schopenhauer thought that both of them were extremely rare, but they did exist, and even the most immoral people could deny justice and benevolence.

Those who set up great things in ancient times not only have supernatural talents, but also have perseverance.

And in this girl, they saw perseverance and perseverance. A person's success does not depend on his intelligence, but on perseverance.

This girl endured her suffering, reflecting the stubbornness of life, which made people feel even more distressed.

If this girl herself babbles and complains about the unfairness of life, it will make people disgusted: if it is a mountain, it will have height and slope, if it is a river, it will have width and depth, and if it is a person, there will be shortcomings and mistakes.

No matter how unfortunate you feel you, there will always be someone who is more unfortunate than you.

People who are always staring at other people's mistakes and are narrow-minded will not be liked. Life needs more than length, it needs width.

Besides, if there is no sowing, there will be no harvest, if there is no hardship, how can there be success, if there is no tribulation, how can there be glory, and if there is no gloom, how can there be glory.

And judging from this girl's experience, she is a self-motivated person, and she has never always thought of relying on Professor Lin's relationship to seek her special treatment in school.

did not use his own conditions to charm people's hearts, and he was not tempted by the people around him to confess, and he stuck to his heart.

For other girls, one is a big boss in the city who has a successful career, a house and a car, is handsome and dashing, and is suave;

One is a poor soldier who has no power and no support in society, and he knows how to choose when he closes his eyes.

The more I observed, the more I felt that this girl's heart was like a child, very simple and simple, they used to think that their daughter was too simple, but now there is something more pure than their own daughter.

But if you treat her completely as a child, you are wrong, because when it comes to career, this girl seems to have become a different person.

Judgment is astute and mind is sharp. The girl's eyes sparkle in the light.

"There are three days in life: yesterday, today, and tomorrow. Yesterday has passed, tomorrow has not yet come, we can only grasp today, cherish today, in order to add brilliance to life. ”

"The coffee house was just my first step. Even an immature attempt is better than a perfect plan in a stillborn place. ”

"I had the best hopes, I did my best, and I prepared for the worst. God rewards hard work, maybe you may not get a return for what you pay, but I believe that you will not get a return if you don't pay. ”

"Of course, there are difficulties! When I encounter difficulties, I encourage myself that a certain amount of sorrow, pain, or annoyance is necessary for everyone at all times.

Without ballast, a ship will not be stable and will not be able to move all the way to its destination. ”

Mother Zhang looked at the girl in front of her who was talking eloquently.

Like a little sun in winter, the brilliant and dazzling makes people's hearts warm. No wonder Grandma Minyi always puts it on her lips and praises non-stop!

Minyi was also attracted to her, and even became an idolatro, with such a good boy there as an example for her daughter, Minyi would never go a fork in the road in the future......

Mother Zhang, who knew the truth, couldn't wait to come forward and hold this girl in pain, and then look at so many people in the living room.

And Gu Fanxin was also very satisfied with the attitude of Zhang Minyi's parents. None of the two asked their parents or anything.

Where she goes, she hates people asking her parents or something. And with such a life experience of mine, it is estimated that it is difficult to find a few of the same in the world.

Besides, as the old saying goes: "The son does not say anything about the father." ”

In this era of filial piety from ancient times to the present, if you criticize your parents, you are not filial in the eyes of others.

If someone asks about her parents, she can't say that her parents are bad anyway.

But if she wants to hypocritically say good things about her parents in front of others, she is unwilling to say things that go against her will.

Do you want to tell the truth to win sympathy?

It is true that when people listen to it, they will have an emotional reaction of care and understanding for their own suffering and misfortune.

Or they stand by her with indignation and accuse her parents of not doing their duty, or they criticize them for abusing their children.

But she doesn't need others to look at her with pity and sympathy, and then point and point at her parents next to her.

That's not what she wants. She has her pride and self-esteem, and she doesn't like people to think of her as a wretched creature abandoned by her own parents.

When you feel that no one loves you, others will see you as a pitiful and unattractive you.

And his parents were scolded, and he didn't feel comfortable in his heart.

Even if they were unbearable and immoral, they gave themselves a life. Let her have the opportunity to come to this colorful world.

She is now with them the well water does not interfere with the river water, they live a harmonious and beautiful life there, and they can also choose a leisurely and poetic path, let go of the wings of the soul, savor the beauty of life, and enjoy the beautiful life.

All the pain is nothing compared to the pain of losing one's life.

Now fate is like your own palm prints, although it is crooked, it is always in your own hands.

Those who live yesterday lose the past, those who live tomorrow lose the future, and those who live today have the past and the future.

Only by realizing that every day is the best moment of life can you be regarded as a person who understands life.

If you want to weave a dream for the future, now is the right time to master the present, have everything, and have life.

Life is endless, struggle is endless, just like we often say, the sun is always after the wind and rain.

Only with strong patience and tenacious struggle will you see your own piece of clear sky.