Chapter 859: Calm
"Don't look at me, when I'm as old as him, I can only climb trees and jump mud pits, play war games, sleep every day when I'm tired, eat when I sleep, eat and play, and live a heartless life, how can he have so much thought?" Zhuang Lijun thought of his son's calm appearance, and he had a headache, "Speaking of which, these only children of them are really pitiful, there is such a child at home, there is no one to play with, and the home is quiet and lonely at night." ”
"It's as if you used to play with your younger siblings when you were a child, Lihong said that you do your own thing and never pay attention to them. Liu gave him a good look, his personality when he was a child was really different from now.
"Lihong is a girl, and Limin is so much younger than me, so I really can't play together. Zhuang Lijun was helpless, "But there are a lot of leather monkeys in our compound, at that time, there were many children in the family, and the family couldn't manage it, so we were crazy outside every day, where is it like Weiwei, there is not even a little friend who can play crazy together." ”
Today's children are basically only children, especially Weiwei who goes to school in the county kindergarten, lives in the county dormitory, and comes into contact with the children of cadres in Changfu County.
Especially Weiwei, few people dare to take him crazy together, after all, everyone knows who Weiwei's mother is, and everyone is cautious about him, for fear that he will bump into him and be unable to explain to Liu Haohao.
Once his face was scratched by a little girl in the kindergarten, neither he nor Liu Haohao took it seriously.
As a result, the kindergarten teacher and the parents of the little girl were so nervous that they led the little girl to her house to apologize, and the little girl was so frightened that her face was colorless, and she cried so much that she looked like pear blossoms and rain, and Liu felt distressed when she looked at it, and she gave cookies and candy, and finally coaxed the little girl well.
Not to mention that Liu Hao felt embarrassed, even Aunt Qin felt that it was too much, children were playing together, and it was normal to have a small bump, although they were well-intentioned, but they invisibly made Weiwei in the children isolated.
As long as there are children who have a closer contact with Weiwei, or the range of action is slightly larger, the teacher will nervously step forward to protect Weiwei, and the parents are also at home repeatedly reaffirming that their children are not allowed to bully Weiwei, but everyone is polite to him, and even respectful, no one dares to play crazy with him.
The children's affairs can only be solved by the children themselves, and even if Liu Haohao and Zhuang Lijun are in a hurry, they are helpless.
"That's why I considered letting Weiwei go back to the provincial capital to go to school, maybe it would be better. "When she arrives at the kindergarten in the provincial capital, Liu Haohao's identity is nothing, and everyone will get along more equally, otherwise she always feels like being isolated in a vacuum world.
"This kind of thing has to be solved by himself, let's not meddle too much, the children's world has its own rules. Zhuang Lijun disagreed, "When I went to the army, I was also isolated, and no one could help me with this kind of thing, so I could only rely on myself." ”
"How old was when you went to be a soldier?" and how old are Weiwei now?" Liu Haohao said angrily, "Usually no one plays with him, no wonder he is so attached to Teacher Li." ”
Weiwei has no suitable playmates outside, although Zhuang Lijun will take him to play at home, but he can only go home to accompany his son during the holidays.
Usually Weiwei follows Liu Haohao, although the care and love he gets is not less, but after all, this is from the delicate feelings of his mother, and the male members of the family are very important to the growth of boys.
Li Jiyuan, who is also a man, is also the father of two boys, he understands the psychology of the little boy very well, so he often took him to "adventure" at that time, and in the process of "exploration", he told him a lot of scientific knowledge, so they didn't get along for too long, but Weiwei and his feelings were the deepest.
mentioned Li Jiyuan, Liu Haohao's mood was a little low, "Teacher Li's death has had a great impact on Weiwei, I even feel that his personality has changed a little, he used to laugh so much, he laughed when he teased him, and his laughter was all in the house, and now it is difficult to see him laughing so happily." ”
"Children are all going to grow up, Weiwei is now slowly growing up and sensible, and his mind is more mature than ordinary children. It's normal to become more and more calm, I've been observing him carefully these few times, and I've had a chance to talk to him, I think his emotions are quite normal, and he has calmly accepted the matter of birth, old age, sickness and death, the only change seems to be more thoughtful than before, he asked me several philosophical questions in a row, and I sweated out. Zhuang Lijun smiled, remembering his embarrassed appearance at that time, and there was a pride in being a father on his face.
"Philosophical questions? A kindergarten kid talking to you about philosophy?" Liu Hao thought it was incredible.
"Isn't it philosophy? Who am I? Where do I come from? Where am I going? The three most classic questions of philosophy, who is and what is human...... People say that when human beings think, God laughs, but I think it is because I break out in a cold sweat before I think about it. ”
Thinking of that picture, Liu Hao put his face in the pillow and laughed so hard that his stomach hurt, and it took a long time to wipe his tears and ask, "Then how did you answer him?"
"How else can I answer? After talking about science, he is not addicted, he can only talk about philosophy, from idealism to materialism, and as a result, he has to dig deeper, so I have to talk about objective idealism and subjective idealism, mechanical materialism and dialectical materialism......
"You told him this, and he understood?"
Of course he didn't understand, and I didn't expect him to understand, so I wanted to be a little more subtle, and if he got impatient enough to let me go. Zhuang Lijun smiled bitterly, "What do you say is going on in his head? Thinking so deeply at a young age? If it weren't for him thinking, I quickly diverted the topic, and he would continue to ask, why didn't I have so many things to do with him when I was a child?"
"When I was his age, I also thought about who I was, why I existed, whether the world existed because of me, or whether I existed in this world, a lot of messy questions, and I thought about it for a long time, but no one could answer my questions, I went to ask my mother, and my mother just took out a stack of word recognition cards, let me recognize all the words, and then I could go to the books on the bookshelf to find the answers. ”