I'm dizzy! It's these frames and regulations that bind women, which made Gu Fanxin feel very uncomfortable when he heard it. Fastest updates

I can't help but think of my grandmother in my previous life, who often spoke like this and preached in a 'good for you' tone, which hurt me for the rest of my life.

Now the nagging of these broken thoughts has come again. But this is no longer the case, and she will never be stupid to obey again.

"That's right!" Liu Lanzhi suddenly remembered one more thing, a big thing!

After all, her granddaughter is a little girl who has never been in the world, and she is also particular about the affairs of men and women in this round house.

"Niuniu, there is something you must tell the truth to grandma," Liu Lanzhi hesitated, but lowered her voice and asked in a voice that only two people could hear: "... Did you put that when you had sex? Below?"

"Boom!" Seeing her grandmother's serious expression, although Gu Fanxin said that she was mentally prepared, she still made a big red face.

Before marrying a wife here, there was Grandma Quanfu to guide the country. But no matter what, these things about personnel are the mother's responsibility for guiding her daughter.

Mother's instructions make the bride feel less cramped and overwhelmed when she has sex with the groom.

We can often see such a scene in many costume dramas, that is, ancient women on the wedding night, when they had a round room with the groom, they would put a piece of white hippa or white silk under their bodies, and this hippa was an important basis for testing whether the bride was still a virgin.

Because if the bride has never experienced a man or a woman before, then the blood of the virgin will be left on the groom's consumption. This also reflects the importance that ancient people attached to female chastity.

And the means of testing chastity in this place are no exception to those things.

But grandma's sudden question, she was really overwhelmed and embarrassed!

That night can be said to be boiling and surging, and later Brother Hai wiped himself with a towel, is this considered that pinch?

Since Liu Lanzhi asked, in addition to being a little embarrassed at the beginning, she was still worried about her granddaughter.

What's wrong with two young people together, I don't know if I left a testimony when I fell red for the first time, what if someone uses this to belittle my granddaughter in the future?

In the eyes of everyone, a woman's chastity is the most important!

Listening to his grandmother's words, Gu Fanxin felt very angry.

Poverty and starvation are small things, but if you lose your temper, it will be a big thing!?

In the eyes of men, a woman who has lost her virginity, regardless of the circumstances, is a rag that jumps into the Yellow River and cannot be washed, and can never turn over.

And the method of testing whether she is a virgin is extremely unscientific, based on whether she "sees red" on the first night.

Girls menstruate after reaching a certain age, and the first menstrual period is also called menarche. Rural people call it red.

The meaning is very simple, that is, the blood of the virgin of menarche will have menstrual blood stains when it falls on the underwear, and because it is red, it is called seeing red.

In ancient China, the idea of attaching importance to virgin chastity and loving women has been expressed in "Zhou Yi".

After the Qin and Han dynasties, they began to advocate women's chastity, and the requirements for women's premarital chastity and the psychology of virginity were strengthened step by step.

At that time, there was a popular concept in society, that is, the child body was the cleanest and most sacred, and it had a nourishing effect on the body, that is, the so-called "I love the body of the child, and the lotus flower is not stained with dust".

In the sexology book of the Six Dynasties, "The Secret of the Jade Room", it is also said: "Husbands and women want to gain great benefits...... Virgin at the beginning. ”

In the Song Dynasty, especially in the Ming and Qing dynasties, due to the flourishing of women's chastity, the Chinese developed an almost pathological preference for women's virginity.

At that time, feudal rulers required to be virgins to raise concubines, and even among the people, when a man chose a mate, whether he was a virgin or not became the primary condition.

The so-called "water is not tired of being clear, and women are not tired of being clean" became a common mentality of that era.

According to the literature, China has had a virgin ** inspection since the Han Dynasty, and it has become a custom in the Ming Dynasty, and the purpose of this inspection is mainly to check whether it is a virgin.

Most of the people entrust the man's female relatives or matchmakers to handle it.

A technique handed down by the ancients to test virgins, that is, "Shougong Sand". It is said that the lizard is fed with dansha and then mashed, which becomes a red pigment, and it is dotted on the woman's arm, and it will not fade all year round.

If she has sex with a man, the red color will fade, so the lizard is also known as Shougong. In this way, as long as you look at whether the woman has "Shougong Sand" on her arm, you can determine whether she is a virgin or not.

Of course, from the point of view of modern science, this is very doubtful.

In modern times, the saying of "Shougong Sand" has naturally disappeared, but the virgin complex and the first night of "seeing red" have been extended to modern times.

These things are all requirements for women's chastity, so why are there no rules and regulations for men's chastity to be demanded and tested?

Talking about grandma, Gu Fanxin is obviously absent-minded, grandma is like this, she always thinks that this is good for you.

"Then you must put it away in the future, and don't wash it off, this is good for you, and it is also the foundation of your life in your mother-in-law's house, you know?"

"Got it, grandma, okay, I won't wash it properly. ”

She peeled the bran mud wrapped around the outer shell of the preserved eggshell in her hand, and unconsciously perfunctory Liu Lanzhi in her mouth.

"Grandma, who did you invite over at noon today?" In order to divert grandma's attention from this matter, Gu Fanxin skillfully changed the topic.

"(⊙o⊙) Oh, there is no one else, just your loyal uncle who lives in front of you," Liu Lanzhi Sure enough, her granddaughter was led off the topic.

"Why didn't the village chief, grandfather, his old man be invited?" Gu Fan asked in surprise.

It stands to reason that anyone can not be invited, but the old village chief can't not be invited to dinner!

In addition to this, the old village chief is also a highly respected figure in the village, and he is usually invited to accompany the old man when he comes to visit.

On the one hand, the old village chief has rich experience in traveling from south to north, has seen a lot of things, and has no stage fright when he sees anyone in social entertainment or anything, and he can also talk and laugh with others, and he must not make people feel cold.

"Your third grandfather is reluctant to come to drink, saying that it is now the world of young people, and he is afraid that there will be a 'generation gap' with young people, and the other one is not in good health and can't drink now, so let your loyal uncle come over. ”

The village chief's grandfather is not in good health?

Gu Fan's heart and ears sensitively captured this information, for this old man, she felt the grandfather-like affection after never seeing her biological grandfather in her two lives.

When this matter is over, she must go to see what is going on with the village chief's grandfather, and hope that his old man can live a long and healthy life.