On Sunday, early in the morning, Qin Yi came to Zhang Yali's door and knocked on the door. Before he could report to the door, there was a rush of footsteps in the house, and then Zhao Yuan ran over and opened the door. She looked a little messy and unkempt, as if she hadn't had a good rest or makeup for days and nights.

After seeing that it was Qin Yi, she dragged Qin Yi towards the house, and said hysterically angrily: "What did you do to my husband!?

Qin Yi just smiled and didn't refute, but came to Zhang Yushan, snapped his fingers, and then snapped his fingers twice in a row, and then smiled: "Okay, Mr. Zhang, now you can turn back into yourself." ”

Zhang Yushan blinked violently, as if he had woken up from a dream, and then looked at Qin Yi in front of him suspiciously and asked, "Teacher Qin, when did you come? What happened, why am I here?"

"You...... You ......" Zhao Yuan pointed at Qin Yi and said angrily: "What method did you use to confuse my husband......'s mind! It's like a completely different person! Are you the devil?

Qin Yi was slightly helpless: "Ms. Zhao, did you hear what you were saying? You are a university professor." Don't you know what science is? What kind of head-lowering, evil arts, those are all superstitions, and I am afraid that people will laugh at them if they say it. ”

And Zhang Yushan had a puzzled expression on his face, looked at the two of them and asked, "That, Teacher Qin, Yuanyuan, what happened......?" What are you talking about?"

"Mr. Zhang, go and rest first, get some sleep. Qin Yi smiled and said, "I'll talk to Ms. Zhao alone." ”

Zhang Yushan frowned, as if recalling what had happened last week, and then left silently.

In fact, this is just simple hypnosis, making Zhang Yushan think that he is his wife, and then make decisions according to his wife's style, that's all. Of course, this kind of thing is not something that can be done casually.

There is a very important prerequisite for doing this kind of thing: the person who is most familiar with Zhao Yuan's character and can best understand the hateful and hateful aspects of Zhao Yuan's character is her husband Zhang Yushan. Therefore, Qin Yi can let Zhang Yushan deal with it according to Zhao Yuan's way of doing things, and it may not be possible to do this matter to someone else...... So realistic.

The people who know you best are often your enemies, or the people who hate you the most.

"Regardless of whether your husband has fallen into evil or has been beheaded. Qin Yi turned to Zhao Yuan with a smile, "But, I think you must also be disgusted by what your husband did this week, right?"

Zhao Yuan's face turned blue and white for a while, but he just hugged his arms and stared at Qin Yi angrily speechless. Qin Yi then smiled: "Since that's the case, then I'll say it for you." This week, your husband behaved bitterly, blindly denying the merits of others, not giving any recognition to the efforts of others, and calling them 'high demands' and so-called 'supervision'. ”

Speaking of this, Qin Yi smiled: "Of course, you must feel that what your husband did is somewhat familiar, right?"

"Is that what I usually look like? Do you say it yourself, am I wrong for being so demanding of them? He is a university professor, is it wrong for me to want him to excel academically? Is it wrong for me to want my daughter to be successful?" Zhao Yuan asked angrily.

"Absolutely. Qin Yi asked puzzledly, "I didn't say that you were wrong like this? Did I say that? Then do you think what your husband did wrong this week? He just wants you to be an excellent mother?"

Zhao Yuan's tone froze suddenly, and Qin Yi smiled and said, "Right? Then why do you want to be angry? Suppose the robbers take a hostage, why should we save that hostage? For the sake of one person's life, so many people risk their lives? Why don't you just shoot the hostages and the robbers together? That is the most correct? Why do you think this is?"

Zhao Yuan clenched his teeth, and Qin Yi said solemnly: "Because we are human beings, we have feelings." Why are you angry? You know that your husband is right about what he said to you this week. Because even if that's right, it's infuriating. So, do you still think that you have nothing wrong as a wife?"

Zhao Yuan looked at Qin Yi's expression, as if she just wanted to eat him alive, and didn't care who was right and who was wrong.

Seeing this, Qin Yi sighed: "I didn't come to make anyone admit their mistakes, just like I said at the beginning, there is something wrong on both sides." Your husband knows that, and I just want you to know that too, don't put yourself in a position of superiority just because you're the one being cheated on, you can actually prevent today's behavior. ”

Saying that, Qin Yi said with a straight face: "I said, like you, I just hope that Yali can have a suitable environment for her to study, I have always felt that the purposes of the two of us do not conflict, but you always regard me as your enemy." ”

Speaking of this, Qin Yi shook his head helplessly: "If you continue like this, just because of your strength and you don't allow me to interfere in your plan, I'm sure the result will be a lose-lose for both of us, maybe neither of us will be able to achieve our goals." Is this what you'd like to see, or can you put down your mustard and cooperate with me, and finally be able to achieve your plan better and more efficiently?"

"Tell me first, what are you going to do to my daughter. Zhao Yuan frowned and said coldly.

Qin Yi was overjoyed in his heart, knowing that Zhao Yuan was finally willing to let go, so he said with a smile: "All the life that a normal child should have, normal communication with friends, normal experience in society, everything that a normal person should experience." ”

"Be specific. Zhao Yuan snorted coldly and said, Qin Yi thought about it and explained: "In short, I hope that she can have one day a week to communicate and relax with her friends, go to her friends' houses to play, or go out to work and so on." Of course, only for normal same-sex friends, I am usually equally opposed to the phenomenon of precocious love before adulthood. ”

"Part-time job?" Zhao Yuan frowned and asked, Qin Yi nodded: "You also know that it costs money to go out with friends to eat something once in a while, and working outside in advance is also good for going to society in the future, and it is also a very good way to treat your daughter's current slight communication disorder, don't you think so?"

"Hmph, don't you know that child labor is prohibited in my country?" Zhao Yuan asked angrily, Qin Yi sighed helplessly, "Nowadays, people's awareness of the law is really indifferent, a university teacher actually doesn't know that minors under the age of sixteen go out to work to be considered child labor? And Yali is already sixteen years old." ”

"Anyway!" Zhao Yuan said a little annoyed, "If she needs money, I can give it to her! I don't need to go out to work! If I go to a friend's house to play, I can allow three or four hours, but I must report to me at any time! I can't stop answering my phone, and it must not affect my study!"

"So, what about pets?" Qin Yi asked with a smile, "If you allow her to have pets, I can consider part-time work at my discretion, but if you insist on not letting her have pets, I think she may need more social content to ......"

"I know, let her raise it!" Zhao Yuan said impatiently, obviously resolutely not wanting Zhang Yali to contact other jobs, the reason is very simple: she has a weak heart. She thinks that the reason why Zhang Yali is so interested in mathematics is entirely because she has been exposed to too little of the world, and she is afraid that once her daughter has come into contact with the outside world, she will empathize with her.

"You're so reasonable. Qin Yi clasped his hands together and smiled, not forgetting to flatter.

This is actually a very simple negotiation technique, choose two goals that you want to achieve, and then choose one that is higher than these two goals to negotiate with the other party, so that the other party will feel that the two goals you want to achieve are actually nothing.

For example, for Zhao Yuan, "part-time job" is a LV3 goal, and "going to a classmate's house to play" and "raising pets" are two LV1 goals.

Therefore, Zhao Yuan quickly compromised on the goals of those two LV1s.

This is also a negotiation skill derived from people's psychology, and it is not a loss in short.

"But let me warn you in advance, if my Yali's grades dropped...... Zhao Yuan said menacingly, Qin Yi replied with a calm smile: "Then when the time comes, we will find out the reason for her declining grades and then find a solution, she can't be late for the exam and miss a course on the spot, you also have to blame me for the reason for her declining grades, right?"

Zhao Yuan stopped talking, while Qin Yi bowed slightly politely: "Then, I'll leave first." ”

"My husband ......" Zhao Yuan said coldly, Qin Yi smiled: "Don't worry, he has returned to normal." ”

Before leaving, Qin Yi knocked on Zhang Yali's room door: "Yali, the teacher is back." ”

"Oh!" Zhang Yali responded happily, opened the door and smiled, "I'll send you, teacher." ”

As soon as the two of them went out, Qin Yi gave Zhang Yali a thumbs up: "It's done, although I can't work, but your mother has agreed to keep pets and go to your classmates' houses to play." ”

Zhang Yali didn't say anything, just happily pounced on Qin Yi and hugged his neck.

"Okay, okay, let your mother see it, and I'll be sued for molesting a minor in a while. Qin Yi patted the back of her head and smiled, Zhang Yali fell to the ground lightly, and asked a little hesitantly, "Then ...... What about divorce?"

"I won't leave for the time being, but I want to repair the relationship between your parents. Qin Yi thought for a while, "It may take a while to work hard." However, let me rest for a while, the teacher can't always be here with you, and there are other students. ”

"Hmm. Zhang Yali pursed her lips and nodded with a smile, Qin Yi helped her straighten her crooked glasses, and then patted her brain with a smile, "Let's go, go downstairs for a walk." ”

Qin Yi is still in a good mood now, the confrontation with Zhao Yuan is like a confrontation with a spy caught before, it is a careful process of maintaining a state of balance. You can't be soft in front of the other party, and you can't be too hard.

Confronting spies is also a truth, as trained spies have a higher tolerance for pain than ordinary people, and torture is often difficult to use, at most it is only used as a "hard method" that is both soft and hard.

And for these spies who have important information, they can't easily kill these people, so they have to grasp the degree of softness and hardness. Once you are soft, the other party will kick your nose and face without fear, and once it is too hard, it will arouse the anger of the other party and make the other party plan to be tough to the end, which is also no good, and will only make a lose-lose situation.

It's like this time Qin Yi dealt with Zhao Yuan, he couldn't kill the other party, and he couldn't show weakness and compromise in front of the other party, and at the same time, he couldn't be too strong to arouse the other party's heart of resistance. Qin Yi couldn't help but sigh at this time, it was really not easy to be a homeroom teacher by himself, and dealing with parents was like interrogating a spy.

But fortunately, not every parent is so difficult to deal with, for example, Zhang Feng and Li Sisi's parents are very good people, and then they asked their children to send him some of their own specialties, hot sauce and beef sauce and the like.

"Okay, promise the teacher a few things. Before leaving, Qin Yi smiled at Zhang Yali and said, "First, don't make bad friends, second, remember to talk to the teacher if you can't solve any troubles, and third, don't let your academic performance drop." ”

"Hmm. Zhang Yali nodded obediently and smiled, "I promise the teacher." ”

Qin Yi patted her brain, and finally advised: "Come on for the stage play, take a walk below and go upstairs." ”

However, just as Qin Yi was about to turn around and leave, Zhang Yali suddenly said, "Teacher......" Qin Yi looked back at her, Zhang Yali bowed her head a little shyly and said, "That, can the teacher continue to be my teacher in the future?"

"How do you say that, one day is a teacher and a father is life, even if you go to college in the future, I will be your teacher. Qin Yi sighed and said softly, "You can also come to me if you encounter difficulties, but the purpose of my teaching is to let you go to college without relying on the help of teachers." ”

As he spoke, Qin Yi patted Zhang Yali's head, then waved his hand and turned to leave.