Chapter 267: Brother and Sister
Liu Hao took a deep breath, looked up at the sky, and tried to hold back her tears, she was originally a calm and restrained person who did not show her emotions, but now she is more and more easily moved, Li Jiyuan's simple words can make her cry.
Whether it is Li Jiyuan or Tang Mingliang, they treat her like a teacher and a friend, one of them is a university professor, the other is a primary school teacher, they are all ordinary educators trapped in this small mountain village, but they use their own conduct to teach her to be a person worthy of heaven and earth and herself.
She is grateful for the opportunity to meet them, which made her life experience more profound and her heart more calm and stable.
Zhuang Lijun came out to look for her along the Peach Blossom Creek, and when he saw her slowly beating pigweed by the stream, he couldn't help laughing, "Have you been to Chen Junhua's house?"
"Why did you get out?" she looked behind him, "Coming out alone, not afraid of getting lost if you don't know the place?"
As soon as the words came out, she laughed to herself, "I forgot that you are a scout, and you don't get lost so easily." Have you eaten?"
"No, I'll pick you up and eat together. Zhuang Lijun reached out and plucked the grass clippings from her hair, "Anyway, it's still early, or let's sit for a while." ”
Liu Hao nodded, she didn't want to go home so soon, because she hadn't collected her emotions yet, so she deliberately used the excuse of beating pigweed to stay alone by the stream for a while.
Zhuang Lijun was very intimate by her side, watching her absent-mindedly beat pigweed, and helping to beat from time to time, but he didn't ask a word.
Until Liu Haohao couldn't hold it back, "I went to Chen Junhua's house just now and scolded him, I don't know if I will wake him up, maybe it won't have any effect, maybe he will hate me as a teacher from now on......"
Zhuang Lijun listened quietly, listening to the confusion and loss in her heart, listening to her touch because of the words of Li Jiyuan and Tang Mingming, and listening to her firm yearning for the future.
After Liu finished speaking, he threw the sickle in his hand and sat on the ground without any image, feeling dry in his mouth, but his heart was much more comfortable.
"Teacher Li is really a wise man, what he said is so good!" Li Jiyuan's words also brought a deep touch to Zhuang Lijun, a young man, who did not expect that such a university scholar was hidden in the small mountain village.
"That's it. Liu Haohao said proudly that Li Jiyuan is her fourth uncle, and everyone in their family is talented and knowledgeable.
"But Chen Junhua will not hate you, he is a smart child, he will understand your intentions, maybe in the end his choice is different from yours, but he will definitely be grateful for your care and dedication to him, and you, as a teacher, should also respect his choice, after all, you are not him, you can't live this life for him, even if your original intention is for his good. Zhuang Lijun also sat beside her and spoke slowly.
"You're right," Liu Haohao gradually calmed down, "Teacher Li and Principal Tang are also right, I am too impatient, and I often have a feeling of hatred for those children, always expecting them to grow according to my ideas, and once they exceed my expectations, I will mercilessly 'click' to cut these branches short." People always say that teachers are gardeners, and it is hoped that teachers will take good care of the seedlings of the motherland, and not cultivate them into the same shape......"
As soon as she thought of this, she shuddered, "It's good that I'm no longer a teacher, otherwise I would really be a misguide!"
"It's great that you can recognize that. Zhuang Lijun smiled, "Even if you continue to be a teacher, you will definitely correct your mistakes in time, and you are still a good teacher. ”
She also laughed, "This incident can be regarded as a reminder to me, there are three younger siblings at home, and they may not live according to my ideas in the future, I can't be as simple and rude as this time to Chen Junhua." ”
"You are a good big sister, and I am also a big brother, compared to you, it seems too incompetent. Zhuang Lijun thought of her deep friendship with her younger siblings at home, and then thought about his alienation and indifference with his younger siblings, and felt a little ashamed, "I care too little about them, and sometimes I don't know how to get along with them. ”
That's because you didn't consider the problem from their standpoint, and didn't accept their inner feelings from the bottom of your heart, so they can't resonate with you, you must first accept their inner emotions and get closer to their hearts, so that it is possible to shorten the distance between you and mend your relationship. Liu Hao remembered how Zhuang Lijun got along with his younger siblings, and also felt a headache, the tense relationship between them was even worse than the tense relationship between her and her younger siblings when she first arrived in this era.
"Am I talking about too abstract? It's all on paper, easier said than done. She laughed, "It's not easy to be a big brother and sister, but after you put your heart into it, it really gives you a sense of accomplishment, especially their trusting and happy eyes, it's really ......."
She had no brothers and sisters in her previous life, but she had three siblings in this life, and the feeling of being connected by blood, caring for each other, and being trusted by all her heart was amazing.
"I'll just keep working hard. As soon as Zhuang Lijun finished speaking, Liu Haohao's stomach "gurgled".
The two glanced at each other, read the surprise in each other's eyes, and then laughed together, she didn't feel ashamed, he didn't despise it, and there was a natural tacit understanding in the bold laughter.
"Let's go, fill your stomach before you try. As soon as he stood up, he reached out and pulled her.
She was not hypocritical, she got up by his hand, and watched him carry the pigweed she beat on her back very easily, and did not politely push away with him.
"Did you bring a sickle with you when you went out just now?" Chen Junhua was frightened when he saw you swinging a sickle to his house?"
She laughed, "I'm not so out of control, it's not my sickle, it's Principal Tang's, he was also beating pigweed just now, and he was called to persuade Chen Junhua before he could carry it home." I didn't want to go home just now, so I borrowed his sickle to beat pigweed. ”
The two of them chatted all the way, talking and laughing back, which made Liu Chang, who had been waiting at the dinner table for a while, angry, "Running around at night, you don't eat, the whole family doesn't want to eat?"
Cheng Zhaodi turned his face at him again and again, and secretly pulled the corners of his clothes, usually forget it, my uncle is still here, look at their glue-like appearance, he scolded Liu Haohao, my uncle must be uncomfortable.