Chapter 844: Rumors
"When I saw Junhua just now, I remembered that he wanted to drop out of school a few years ago, and you lost your temper at him, that was the first time I saw you lose your temper so much,......" Li Jiyuan's eyes were nostalgic, those things seemed to be yesterday, how could so many years have passed in the blink of an eye, and he will die soon.
"Your temper with Junhua back then certainly made him wake up and continue to study, which is a good thing in this respect, but is this really the true intention of his heart? None of us know except himself, we just forced him to take the path we chose for him in the name of 'for his good'. I remember you said at the time, you said that you would never care about him in the future, we all know that you were angry for a while, and you are still helping him until now, but at that time this sentence caused a lot of damage to this introverted child. He respects you and trusts you, and if you really stop paying attention to him because of his momentary mistakes, he will feel abandoned in his heart......"
Liu Hao Hao was a little ashamed, and Li Jiyuan pointed out her mistake at that time, "My attitude at that time was indeed too simple and rude." ”
"When I saw Junhua, I thought of Weiwei, when I first met Junhua, he was Weiwei's age, although the family environment of the two of them is very different, but both children are equally smart. Although you are no longer a teacher, you are still a mother, you have taught this child very well, he is a very smart, very imaginative child. But maybe in the future, he will not live according to your vision and your plan, I hope you can always respect him, appreciate him, tolerate him, and understand him. Whether it is a parent or a teacher, it is the most important leader on the road of life for a child, he longs for their recognition, but also passively bears the harm they bring, the more intelligent the child is, the more sensitive it is, if you have not made a choice that is not in line with your heart in the future, I hope you don't treat him like you were angry with Junhua at the beginning, and don't force him into the track you set for him......"
Li Jiyuan's body was already weak, and after saying so many words at once, he had reached his limit, panting heavily.
"Teacher Li, don't talk about it yet......" Seeing him like this, Liu Hao persuaded with a nervous face.
Li Jiyuan raised his hand, "It's okay, it's just a little short of breath." I heard my third brother say that you wrote a letter to my children abroad and persuaded them to send me a letter, but I haven't waited for so long, I guess I can't wait. But I don't blame them, they just chose a relatively weak mother between their father and mother, it was their choice, no matter what choice they made, I respected them and loved them as always, and this will never change. I know that the third brother and sister-in-law have a complaint against them now, but if you have the opportunity to contact those two children in the future, I hope you can tell them what I mean, and don't make them feel guilty. ”
Li Jiyuan's spirit has gradually begun to deteriorate, but he still cheered up, "In the process of growing up, you may encounter such and such problems, you can criticize him for the mistakes he made, but don't deny him as a person, you must remember to be right about things and not people......"
Liu Haohao didn't expect that what she was thinking about in the last days of Li Jiyuan's life was this incident, and she didn't know what to say for a while, she knew that he and Weiwei fell in love, but she didn't expect to love him to this point.
Although Li Jiyuan was not in good health, he was not confused, he saw her thoughts, and smiled reluctantly, "These words may not be said to you anymore except for me, I usually don't tell you this, I don't think it's necessary, and there is still time, now ......"
Liu Hao suddenly realized that as her work has become better and better in recent years, it is almost rare to hear criticism of her, even if there is some controversy in her work, but there is almost no criticism of her personally, because she is indeed impeccable in her conduct as an official.
Everybody thinks she's very good at education, after all, she's taught a lot of excellent students, and she's really likable.
Only Li Jiyuan saw the hidden side of her character, she is a very strong person in her bones, she says that she respects everyone's wishes, in fact, the people around her basically follow her wishes, she has always encouraged her younger siblings to be self-reliant, but they have not completely gotten rid of her control, which may be a good thing for them, but it may also be a bad thing.
She had always hidden her strong side before, but as the power in her hands grew, she would become more accustomed to this feeling of controlling others, and by her side, the one who relied on her the most and was the weakest was Weiwei.
Li Jiyuan knew that their mother and son had a very good relationship, and Liu Haohao was not a person who was blindly strict with Weiwei, but there were a few times when Weiwei was playful and did not seriously memorize the ancient poems she taught, Liu Haohao immediately sank his face, and he saw that Weiwei's little face was frightened and flustered at that moment, and the child was really frightened.
And at that time, Li Jiyuan's cold hair also stood up, and he could even imagine that many years later, Liu Haohao was used to giving orders to Weiwei, and the smart Weiwei might become a cowardly echo worm, or a rebellious teenager who specialized in working against her, although he wouldn't live to that time, he still didn't want to see that scene.
"Being a parent may seem simple, but it's actually the hardest thing in the world. Li Jiyuan has always wanted to find a chance to talk to her, but he has never found a suitable opportunity, and now if he doesn't talk about it, he will have no chance at all, "There is no shortcut to raising children that is suitable for every child, and I dare not say how successful I am in educating children, but I think there are two truths that are always right, one is respect, and the other is attentive." ”
This is Li Jiyuan's educational philosophy, which he has been trying to practice all his life, although he has not become a great educator, nor has he made any earth-shattering achievements, but his tolerance and love for children have moistened the hearts of those children like a silent spring rain.
Liu Hao nodded with tears, the most difficult thing to let go of in Li Jiyuan's last time was Weiwei, no one knew what he saw in Weiwei, maybe it was the appearance of his two sons when they were young, maybe it was the epitome of his students, but no matter who it was, they could feel his deep love.
These words used up Li Jiyuan's last strength, and he fell into a coma from then on, occasionally waking up and shouting in pain, everyone watched the breath of life on his body decay and dissipate little by little, but there was nothing he could do.
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