Gu Pengcheng listened to the words of the White Lotus, and his brain automatically made up a picture in his mind. Vertex updates are the fastest

In the scorching summer sun, the big trees on both sides are wilted and drooping their leaves by the sun.

On the endless road, a child who looks like himself walks towards him from a distance.

I saw that he was carrying a heavy, tired sweaty head, with a bitter little face, and his footsteps were staggering and walking forward......

He couldn't help but feel distressed.

Thinking of his previous experience of studying, he couldn't help but nodded subconsciously.

Seeing that Gu Pengcheng heard his words, the white lotus couldn't help but smile proudly.

She pulled Gu Pengcheng to sit down on a stone to rest, and then planned a blueprint for the future.

"You see, if we buy a house in the town and settle down, the children can go to school and study directly in the town's primary school, and they don't have to run on both sides to study from childhood to adulthood, isn't it very convenient?"

Not far away, a few children were playing there, happily kneading the mud into various shapes, and they didn't care if their hands and faces were dirty.

White Lotus looked at a few children playing with mud together, raised her chin, motioned for Gu Pengcheng to look over there, and then said with emotion:

"As the saying goes, close to Zhu is red, close to black, you see the children in our village are affected by the environment, all day long either playing in the mud in the field, or going down to the river to touch fish and shrimp, like a little monkey all day long like a little madman to play, we must create a good environment for children to grow up. ”

Then she changed her words and smiled at Gu Pengcheng:

"You don't want our kids to be monkeys like little madmen, do you?"

Gu Pengcheng looked at the children who were tanned and frowned dislikely.

It's so dirty and unhygienic, how can their children do that?

"Also, I've heard that there is a kindergarten in the town, which is dedicated to teaching children.

After the child reaches the age of three, he can be sent there to study, and the teachers in the kindergarten are of good quality, teaching by example, and the child is relieved to be there. ”

You must know that children's behavior habits are being formed, and it is easy to accept external influences, and their behavior and thinking patterns are very uncertain, but at the same time they have strong plasticity.

Kindergarten teachers are the core of the kindergarten education environment, and the teacher's way of dealing with others, the way they speak, the way they behave, and the way they dress all affect the children, intentionally or unintentionally.

White Lotus continued to say eloquently: "Peng Cheng, you haven't heard the story of Meng's mother's three moves, right?

Man is an animal of the environment, the one who is close to Zhu is red, and the one who is close to ink is black.

This all shows the influence of the external environment on the child, education must start from the child, the child is when he is young, the most susceptible to the influence of the people around him becomes unproductive. ”

"There is another one thing, the elderly are more doting on children, if the children make any mistakes, we will discipline them, and the mother-in-law and grandmother will definitely be the first to run out to stop them. In this way, our hard work will be in vain. ”

"You know, children are like young saplings, if they are affected by bad thoughts and bad behaviors when they are young, and we as parents do not correct and guide our children in time, there is no way to correct them after missing the best time.

Or wait until the mother-in-law and grandmother leave, and then preaching will not work as it should. ”

The White Lotus is kind and seductive, and analyzes the powerful relationship step by step.

Anyway, she first sounded a wake-up call to Gu Pengcheng and made him realize the harm of doting and indulgence.

When he has a child in the future, he will naturally be vigilant, and he will not easily hand over the child to Xu Zhaodi.

In this way, Xu Zhaodi, the mother-in-law, has no way to separate the relationship between the child and herself.

Because many evil mothers-in-law will deliberately sow discord when taking care of children, and divide the feelings between children and mothers, in order to show their own goodness.

In order to prevent problems before they happen, the White Lotus is fully prepared.

"People say that children's education should start from the baby, not let the child lose at the starting line, for the sake of the children's future and future, we must work hard for this, to create a good environment for the children. ”

Gu Pengcheng was now completely persuaded by the White Lotus's high-sounding rhetoric.

That's right, children are the future and hope of their old family.

It seems that when I have children in the future, I really can't let my mother take them.

Therefore, if you want to cultivate a promising child, you must start from the baby and start from small things.

The ancients said: "Don't take evil as small, don't take good as small." ”

Children's moral education should be guided by the small things in life, so that children's moral outlook can be formed and perfected in a healthy way.

For some bad thoughts and behaviors of children in life, we cannot ignore or condone them because they are small things, and children's moral education is a big thing, every important thing, and each of them has its immeasurable impact and consequences.

If they start education from early childhood, why don't they worry about cultivating another college student?

But here comes the problem again, the money to buy a house is not a small amount.

His family has accumulated a total of more than 100,000 yuan, which is nothing compared to the rich, but it is still enviable in the village.

These incomes also include money earned from his grandmother's cross-stitch products and tricks.

Grandma smiled and said that all her income was kept for him to marry his daughter-in-law.

Now the tide in the village is rising, and the bride price has doubled.

In addition to the 10,000 yuan bride price money prepared by his family, the remaining tens of thousands of yuan to build a house can barely be enough.

"Lotus, your idea is good, but if you want a house in the town, and it is also a façade house, such a house is definitely not easy to buy, even if you buy it, the price will definitely not be low. ”

Gu Pengcheng immediately analyzed the matter of buying a house.

It's a simple thing to say, but it's not something their family can afford to buy a façade property in a bustling part of town.

Although in that case, their family has made progress every day, but it is very distant for him now.

The prospect that Lotus said is good, but it is also true that there is absolutely not enough money.

Seeing Gu Pengcheng's preoccupied look, White Lotus nodded his forehead with disgust.

"Are you stupid? Don't you still have your sister in your family?"

"We can borrow money from them, and then make it clear to my sister and brother-in-law, and I'm sure they will support our decision. ”

White Lotus said with confidence.

Gu Pengcheng was a little uneasy in his heart.

That big sister of his, surely wouldn't be so easy to talk to.

And since childhood, due to the deliberate indulgence of their parents, their sister and brother relationship is not close.

……

"I want to have a home, a place that doesn't need to be big......"

Gu Fanxin's mobile phone on the bedside table rang suddenly.

Comrade Navy picked up his mobile phone and found that it was an unfamiliar number, and he couldn't help but be a little puzzled.

Who's calling here?