0198 The True Meaning of Love
In fact, Tao Li is not very opposed to this kind of thing, and it is not that early love is not good, the key is that both parties to early love must have a correct view of love and values, if it is just for the sake of temporary fun, just to feel fun to fall in love, and two people in order to fall in love, put everything aside, regardless of the learning situation, then Tao Li feels that this kind of love is not to talk about it.
Because if two people have such an attitude, they will break up sooner or later, so why waste time?
But there are also a lot of lovers, two people encourage each other, support each other, study and love without delay, such a lover relationship, why break them up, wouldn't it be good to continue all the time?
What's more, Tao Li really disagrees with the views of many parents, let them study hard when they go to school, don't go to early love, say that there will be better after graduation, and when you really graduate, you will find that there is nothing better, because you can't find a partner at all, at this time parents began to be anxious, urging you to find a partner every day, arranging a blind date for you, but I don't know, all this is not caused by them......
So young people, while the female classmates were still very young in high school, not so realistic, and not yet attracted by the outside world of flowers, hurry up! When you go to college, you will find that the girls around you are not as exaggerated as others say, and you still have to be single.
"Teacher, don't you have any objection to your student's puppy love?" Zhang Xingchen said in surprise. He originally thought that Tao Li would be very angry when he heard that someone in the class was actually in love when he was about to take the college entrance examination, but he didn't expect to be so calm.
"As long as it doesn't affect your studies, it's okay to beat the mandarin ducks for no reason! You don't know how troublesome it is to find a partner now!" Tao Li sighed helplessly and said, he has been single for more than 20 years, so he can't let students do the same.
"But there is still a month to go before the college entrance examination, and they are in love now, won't it affect the exam results?" Zhang Xingchen has been accustomed to hearing elders say that early love is not good since he was a child, and he is such a good student, so he naturally preconceived that early love is not good.
"When you're the age of a teacher, you won't think like that. I'll find time to talk to these two classmates, you're not too young, anyway, it's both horizontal and vertical, why don't you consider talking about one?" Tao Li laughed.
"Teacher, you're kidding again, I'm still young! My mother said that when I graduate from college, I'll definitely find a good girl." Zhang Xingchen blushed at first, and then said with anticipation.
Tao Li really couldn't bear to poke him, so he could only sigh silently, he was too young, when you graduated, you could only rely on the car ticket and the house to speak!
After going around with Zhang Xingchen again, the two of them turned back to the classroom. Tao Li didn't take action against what Zhang Xingchen said that night, but quietly and secretly observed the two students, it seemed that they were really a little tired, although it had not yet reached the point of flirting with each other, but it had also secretly sent Qiubo several times, so that the review efficiency of the two people would inevitably be affected.
"Looks like we're going to have to find a time to talk to them. Tao Li stood in front of the podium and thought to himself. After all, they are all in adolescence, and it is estimated that they don't know how to grasp the degree of love, so they still need him to dial it out.
Following.
As usual, Tao Li came to the classroom early, and Tao Li always attached great importance to the morning reading every morning, and the class was at eight o'clock, and Tao Li required that he must come to the classroom before half past seven to read in the morning. This point is actually not too early for high school graduates, many schools even require six and a half to get the school, even in Jinling Middle School, the general requirement is to arrive at school at seven o'clock, Tao Li's requirements for the class are already very lenient.
In the past, the students in the class would definitely arrive before half past seven, but this morning, after half past seven, there were still two people in the class who did not arrive, and these two people were the couple that Zhang Xingchen said was in love, He Cheng and Song Qian.
It wasn't until seven forty that the two of them appeared together from the staircase, and there were talking and laughing along the way, Tao Li, who was standing at the door, frowned, openly showing affection, have you ever considered my feelings as a single dog?
As soon as the two of them saw Tao Li standing at the door, their faces immediately changed, and they hurriedly quickened their pace and walked towards the classroom.
"Let's go read in the morning!" Tao Li said before they could speak. You can't criticize them in front of so many people.
The two of them didn't expect Tao Li to say nothing, and after being stunned for a while, they said "I'm sorry" and hurriedly walked into the classroom.
Until the end of the second class, Tao Li didn't say anything, and it wasn't until the time of the run that Tao Li left the two of them, and the two of them also knew that they were wrong, so they kept their heads down and didn't speak.
"Teacher, I slept in the morning, and then Song Qian, who happened to meet on the road, was not what you thought. He Cheng hesitated for a while, feeling that it would be better for him to explain first.
Tao Li almost didn't laugh, isn't this a typical place without three hundred taels of silver!
"The teacher also went to high school, I really thought I didn't understand, and I happened to run into it, who would believe it! If you fall in love, you fall in love, and it's not a crime. ”
Hearing Tao Li directly point out the relationship between the two, He Cheng and Song Qian were instantly frightened and stood there at a loss.
"Song Qian, I remember that you want to apply for Jinling University, right?" Tao Li didn't say anything else, but looked at Song Qian and asked.
"Well, I want to apply to the business school of Kim University. Song Qian nodded.
"What about you, He Cheng? Do you think your current grades can go to Jinda? Or are you going to apply for an ordinary university, or even a university in another province, and then start a long-distance relationship with her? Have you ever thought that a long-distance relationship is actually very painful?" Tao Li looked at He Cheng again and asked.
He Cheng's grades are considered medium in class 18, and the total score of several mock exams is around 530 points, which is categorically impossible to get into Jinda.
"I know what you want to say, it's nothing more than that you and her are true love, it's not that distance can block you, as long as you really like it, no matter where you are, you can cherish each other, isn't it?"
Tao Li took the lead in speaking before He Cheng spoke.
"The teacher is telling you the same now, but if you are in a long-distance relationship, more than half of them will break up after their freshman year, and the remaining half, at least 49% of them will break up before the end of their senior year, and less than one percent will eventually persevere, do you really think you will be the one percent?" Tao Li paused, and then continued.
"I don't care if you two really like it or not, but what I want to say is that whether it is now or in the future, real love is the kind that can motivate both parties to become better for this relationship, rather than dragging each other down because of temporary pleasure, which is not the true meaning of love. ”