Chapter 595: Halfway Couple
Miao Hui and Zhanjie cooperated properly, and soon completed the work of pretending the corpse to be buried, and the mourning woman, accompanied by a Miao Hui, went to the funeral home in a hearse together.
And Gao Jun and Zhanjie, under the leadership of other relatives and friends, came to the mourner's home together, and set up a funeral shed downstairs to worship the spirit, which is an ancient custom of my dynasty, and it is also the most profitable part of the funeral industry.
The altar shed is very simple, three days of sacrifice, the shed will charge a fee of 1,000 yuan, those paper people and paper horses, ingots candles are almost zero cost, all in all, Gao Jun helped to take it out of the car, everything is useful, this is for the dead below, this is for the little ghosts, this is dedicated to the king of Hades.
Zhanjie told him that papier-mΓ’chΓ© villas, luxury cars, and mobile phones and computers are still popular in these days.
Their industry is quite profitable, but the greater profit is still in the funeral, the format of the funeral home, from millions to tens of thousands, ranging from hundreds of thousands, the other is the cemetery, before someone selected a piece of half-mountainside, back to the mountain and facing the sea cemetery, spent a full 260,000, calculated more than 60,000 yuan per square meter, comparable to the housing prices of the capital and the magic capital!
Compared with these real giants, the profits of their most hospiced services can be said to be a drop in the bucket.
Gao Jun can fully understand this, interests are like a piece of cake, there is always someone who is responsible for cutting the cake, and the person who cuts the cake keeps the biggest piece for himself.
This is true of the funeral industry, and the same is true of other industries, such as the real estate market in full swing, it seems that real estate developers are making a lot of money, you can think about it yourself, the real estate developer's land is bought, and the funds are borrowed from the bank, so it is very clear who eats the big cake.
Zhanjie is a very quick person, and soon with the help of Gao Jun, he set up a spiritual shed, put sacrifices, and played mourning, and then went to the deceased's house, opened the fire and made a night of small rice, inserted chopsticks, and poked a ball of cotton on it, which is called 'inverted rice' in customs, and the other is the ever-bright lamp, and the incense on the table can not be broken, implying that the incense is continuous.
After doing all this, the mourner and Miao Hui also came back from the funeral home, settled the body of the deceased, and began to wake the spirit, and the funeral was sent out at the end of three days.
It's just that after getting out of the car, the mourner's eyes were red, and his expression of grief was completely understandable, but Miao Hui also looked like he had just cried, his face was gloomy, and his emotions were very wrong.
Zhanjie hurriedly greeted him, wanting to ask Miao Hui if he suggested that the mourner get a drum band.
Who would have thought that Miao Hui's face suddenly turned pale, and said: "People are so pitiful, but you want to make money, you really go to the eyes of money, get out of here." β
Zhanjie was stunned, I still remember that when I first came, my aunt always advised me, don't think too much, this is a job, a business, and suggesting other services to the mourner is also taught by my aunt, and I will recommend peripheral products every time, what's wrong today?
Zhan Jie walked over with a depressed face and asked Gao Jun, "Uncle, what's wrong with my aunt?"
Qi Miao even called 'Dad', and Zhanjie's uncle-in-law Gao Jun was also hard-hitting, he looked at Miao Hui's state, smiled slightly, and said: "You are still young, and you can't understand the friendship between women and women, which is like an infectious disease. β
"What do you mean?" asked Zhan Jie curiously.
"Just now, your aunt and the mourner went to the funeral home together, in the same car and on the same road, and they must be idle on the road to talk about something. Gao Jun explained to Zhanjie with strong observation and analysis skills: "This bereaved owner not only just lost his father, but also remembered that in the hospital just now, because of the employment of you and the price, she also quarreled with her husband, and in this case, the man actually left regardless of it, this kind of scumbag must be divorced afterwards." β
Hearing this, Zhanjie understood, his aunt was also a poor person who was almost delayed for life by a scumbag, and now this bereaved woman has also encountered a similar thing, which must make her empathize, no wonder her temper is so bad.
Now there is basically nothing for them to do, that is, the dearest children wake the spirits, and relatives and friends from all parties come to mourn, they can actually leave, and come back after the funeral three days later.
But Miao Hui also moved a chair and sat aside, looking lonely, as if she was also keeping filial piety.
Gao Jun sighed helplessly, walked over slowly, squatted down in front of Miao Hui, and put his hands on her knees.
Miao Hui was stunned for a moment, and subconsciously wanted to withdraw his legs, looking at Gao Jun, there was no look in his eyes, only dazed and a trace of worry.
Gao Jun squatted in front of her, holding her knees with both hands, and stared up at Miao Hui's eyes with a gentle expression.
Miao Hui couldn't stand his gentle gaze, felt hot all over her body, gritted her teeth, and sighed: "Halfway husband and wife don't come to the end, are they all like this?"
"Oh?" Gao Jun raised his eyebrows, and as soon as he heard this, he understood: "So, this bereaved lady and her husband, who quarreled in the hospital before, are also reunited by a second marriage?"
Miao Hui didn't expect Gao Jun to sort out the relationship so quickly, she nodded helplessly, she was really worried about the happiness of her second marriage.
Gao Jun snorted lightly, patted Miao Hui's leg, and said: "You are too sensitive, too easily affected by the surrounding environment, you love to associate with yourself when you encounter something, someone scolds the street on the road, you suspect that they are scolding you, someone is pointing fingers, you suspect that they are saying bad things about you, as soon as someone mentions divorce, you feel inferior, don't you feel tired of living like this?"
"But......" Miao Hui was hesitant and couldn't say anything.
Gao Jun waved his hand and said: "You don't need to, but in fact, this is all inferiority complex, lack of self-confidence, and don't believe that you can be happy."
Aren't you worried that halfway couples will end up? I'll give you an analysis of why most second-married couples are unhappy.
First of all, the thinking of the Chinese people, after a failed marriage, both men and women have been greatly hurt emotionally, and even have a psychological shadow, just like you, you will doubt others while having low self-esteem, in a negative state of mind, even if you accept a person again, you want to find someone to live with, make do with it.
In this negative state of mind, if you can't devote yourself wholeheartedly and thoroughly to your new life as before, your life will naturally be unhappy.
In addition, this lady has just experienced, that is, the money factor, the failure of the marriage, destined to divide the family property, at that time was not a little old love, will be red eyes for their own interests, with such an experience, in the second marriage, the money is naturally attached to the special attention, some second-married families of men and women even take their own money, everything AA system, to avoid similar things today.
In addition, there are many factors that lead to disharmony in the second-married family, such as children, no one wants to be a stepfather and stepmother, and children do not want stepfathers and stepmothers, so this relationship is difficult to handle.
There is also the bond between the ex-husband and the ex-wife, some even break the thread, and there are some small details in other aspects, such as some people like to compare, and the ex-wife, and the ex-husband in all aspects, and the emotional aspect, the negative get by, and the emotions of mixing one day are more deadly, without the enthusiasm and passion of the first love and marriage, the broken heart is not willing to pay sincerely......
These are the main factors that lead to unhappiness in second marriage, admit that I am right, then I will ask you now, do you have any of these factors?"
Gao Jun said a lot, just like Miao Hui was a guest on the radio and property emotional programs in the past, and the analysis was straightforward, although she is a little woman, but in this industry, she is destined to be well-informed, has been in contact with many people, and of course has met the kind of smart, wise, Sven, and able to speak man, it is indeed easy for women to have a good impression, and I always feel that such a man is reliable and gentle.
And Gao Jun is definitely one of the best, one person created the Longtan Tiger's Den, blood kills all directions, the whole body is bloody, domineering, and at this time he switched to the teacher's mode at will, gentle and elegant, all of which are easy to understand.
These two completely different styles appear in the same person, not the best or what, no wonder his unruly daughters are properly disciplined by him.
Combined with Gao Jun's words, think about his own situation, and there are several factors for second marriage.
First of all, Gao Jun is not a second marriage, he has not experienced a sad past, he has devoted himself wholeheartedly, the child is already eighteen years old, and he has started his own life, the key is still a girl, he will not come back to ask for a car, a house and a daughter-in-law, as for his ex-husband, he was slaughtered by Gao Jun himself, which is terrible to say, but it makes Miao Hui feel very happy, when she was abused by that bastard before, she thought more than once that if a man appeared, how good it would be to kill this demon and save herself, so now it is a dream come true.
Thinking about it this way, she doesn't have all the factors that lead to the tragedy of the second marriage, just like Gao Jun said, she is too unconfident.
Seeing that Miao Hui's eyes gradually recovered her figure, Gao Jun knew that she had figured it out, he smiled and patted her on the leg, this time not on the knee but on the thigh: "Don't be entangled if you think about it, open your heart and open your legs, and bravely welcome the new life, and think about it, when will I put on the bikini-style underwear on the bedside table with a high fork and ultra-thin ice silk that is very interesting, it looks like it has been put away for a long time, but the label has not been torn yet, what a waste!"
Miao Hui exclaimed, and hurriedly covered her face, which became hot in an instant, which was secretly bought by a lonely woman on a whim, and she secretly wore it in the lonely night, and admired herself in the mirror, looking at her still hot and sexy body, to increase her self-confidence.
It was originally stuffed at the bottom of the bedside table, but it was actually discovered by Gao Jun, so to speak, he must have seen the lace cover, the T-shaped library, and the small toys that would vibrate on it......