Chapter 224: Emotional Mentor

"I'm sorry, I'm going to have to leave you alone in the car. Xia Yuxin folded her hands with Qin Yi with some guilt and smiled bitterly, Qin Yi didn't mind too much: "What's the big deal, it's that I didn't think about it, I should have expected you to stay and talk to your mother at the beginning, so I should have driven my own car over." ”

"I'll make it up to you next time. Xia Yuxin smiled playfully and threw a wink at Qin Yi.

"Then it's settled. Qin Yi made an "OK" gesture to Xia Yuxin, and then turned around and left.

Immediately, Xia Yuxin returned to the room, and her mother immediately couldn't wait to pull her to the living room and sit down: "Come, tell me about your relationship experience over the years, how many times have you been in love? Have you ever been deceived? How old was the first time?"

"I ...... Actually......" Xia Yuxin hesitated, but still explained her situation to Dong Yulan, and after listening to it, Dong Yulan couldn't laugh or cry a little: "No wonder that kid said it had an impact on you...... I'm in my twenties, and I won't talk about it for the first time, and I've never been in love...... But that's fine, I can check it for you. ”

"What do you think of that person Xiaoyi?" Xia Yuxin asked, "All sides." ”

"First of all, the appearance...... It's not bad, a man doesn't need to be too handsome, that's enough for him, the key is temperament. Dong Yulan thought for a while and replied, "And that man's temperament ...... It's special, I can't say what it's like. ”

After pondering for a while, Dong Yulan pondered and said, "There is a kind of ...... The mystery is deep, and then there is a little bit of elegance and a kind of intimidating coldness...... This is the first time I have felt this way. I wondered what that man had been through and what made him such a ...... at such a young age Complex man. ”

As she spoke, Dong Yulan asked curiously, "Did he tell you?"

When Xiaoyi was in the United States, he had a doctorate in criminal psychology and human behavior, so he worked as a psychological consultant for the FBI, and occasionally worked as a psychological consultant for other countries. Xia Yuxin explained.

As soon as she heard this, Dong Yulan suddenly became a little interested: "Do you want to be a psychological consultant for the FBI? What does a psychological consultant do? Has he told you about the specific work content?"

Xia Yuxin recalled what Qin Yi told her and explained: "That is, do psychological profiles for those prisoners, interrogate them occasionally to see if they are lying or something, and then go out to assist the FBI investigation." Because the FBI is generally responsible for homicide cases, it ...... Xiao Yi has been in contact with a lot of murderers. ”

"No wonder...... That cold feeling made me shudder a little. Dong Yulan frowned and muttered to herself.

"However, Xiao Yi is very kind, he told me a few cases...... Xia Yuxin said, and began to repeat the cases that Qin Yi told her, while Dong Yulan listened to it with relish.

"I see...... It's no wonder you're interested in him. Dong Yulan held her chin and smiled, "It is worthy of being my woman, not a person who is content with her duties." Women have adventure in their bones, and he excites you, right?"

"No, no, we haven't been in a relationship yet. Xia Yuxin played with her index finger and muttered.

"But you can't deny that feeling of excitement, right?" Dong Yulan quipped, "that feeling of being in contact with a world that you have not been exposed to at all stimulates your adventurous spirit." Well, I can't help but feel a little excited when I listen to it, and I feel like I've become the heroine of a spy movie. But that's not enough. ”

"Well, but he's pretty good in other ways. Xia Yuxin lowered her head and looked at her hands and muttered, "Maybe it's not so rich, after all, being a teacher can only make a few dollars." ”

"Liking someone has nothing to do with money, if you were my daughter, I'm sure you wouldn't care about money. Dong Yulan held her chin and smiled, "That kid is very hot, I can see it." ”

"Hmm...... Well. Xia Yuxin's face was slightly red, "When he was in school, he was inadvertently ripped off his clothes once, I saw it at that time, his figure was very good, full of muscles, and he looked so thin and ......weak."

"That sounds like a good man. Dong Yulan said in a deep groan, and then teased, "Then start an offensive, a beautiful woman doesn't mean that you can't take the initiative." When you meet someone you like, you should take the initiative, and don't stick to the thing of men chasing women. My daughter is so beautiful, in good shape, and still a big girl with yellow flowers, she must be able to do it, right?"

"No......" Xia Yuxin muttered, "I already told him that I could try to get along, but they didn't agree." And I heard that he has also dated some very powerful women before, even Victoria's Secret models. ”

"Not surprising, man like that. If I were twenty years younger, I would have done the same. Dong Yulan held her chin and smiled, "But he seems to like you very much, according to my intuition." Otherwise, he wouldn't have brought you to me, just to help you unravel the shadow of your childhood. How did he refuse you?"

He said that there were still some past matters that he had not dealt with, and that he hoped to wait until I understood the risks of dealing with him before answering. Xia Yuxin replied, "I wonder if he is saying that he has cooperated with the FBI before, arrested some murderers, and offended some people, so it may be dangerous to associate with him." ”

"Well, that sounds reasonable. Dong Yulan nodded, and then said earnestly: "But he should be the kind of man who will protect his woman, not to mention that isn't it in the United States? Now that they have retired and returned to China to rest, there is no reason for those people to chase here, right? After all, they are half a world apart, how can it be so easy to find." ”

"yes, I think so too. Xia Yuxin said this, a little frustrated, "However, I still have competitors." The girl had known him for a long time and was a police officer. I'm beautiful and smart, my body and face are no worse than mine, and I'm very good at cooking. And I can't even cook a porridge well......"

Dong Yulan looked a little confused: "You probably have this point inherited from me...... I think I'll order takeout for dinner. ”

"Hey, but Mom, didn't you always cook for us before?" Xia Yuxin asked with some surprise, and Dong Yulan was even more embarrassed: "That...... Actually, it's either bought from a restaurant or made by your grandmother. ”

Xia Yuxin's expression suddenly became numb, and Dong Yulan hurriedly changed the topic with a dry smile: "Tell me about something else about him?"

"Oh, Xiaoyi is also very good at cooking, she can do anything, and it is very delicious, better than many professional chefs in restaurants outside. Xia Yuxin thought about it and replied.

"No, is there really such a perfect man in the world?" Dong Yulan held her chin and smiled bitterly.

"Well, that's it anyway. Xia Yuxin sighed and said, looking a little annoyed: "It's so difficult to get a man I fell in love with for the first time when I was so old......"

"Don't worry too much. Dong Yulan smiled, "As for men, it's actually very easy to handle." People say that a man is like a dog, you give him a bone, and he will come by himself. But you can't just give him bones, you have to hold the bones in your hands, you have to give them to him and don't give them to him, so that he will be fascinated by you. ”

"You mean......" Xia Yuxin asked puzzled, Dong Yulan smiled: "That's it, he has to give him a little sweetness appropriately, and he can't easily get the ...... he wants" Speaking of this, Dong Yulan's eyes purred, "However, this man feels a little special, maybe the general method won't work." Let's take our time, shall we?"

"Hmm......" Xia Yuxin nodded, and Dong Yulan sighed with a smile: "This kind of mother-daughter time feels good." ”

"Mom...... Have you felt very hard all these years?" Xia Yuxin asked tentatively.

"Of course there is," Dong Yulan couldn't help but sigh, "At that time, your grandparents broke off relations with me, and my former friends also accused me of not associating with me anymore, and everyone thought it was my fault." ”

Saying that, Dong Yulan smiled bitterly: "Maybe I deserve it, I left everything to find that man, but in the end I still didn't get what I wanted." But I don't regret it, I will regret continuing to live like your father. ”

"Hmm......" Xia Yuxin fell into deep thought, and then suddenly said: "Mom and I will go to see my grandparents together, while they are still alive." As long as you make it clear, I'm sure they'll forgive you, at least not so stiff. ”

"Well, take it one step at a time. Dong Yulan looked at Xia Yuxin lovingly and smiled, and touched her head, "Thank you for your hard work, you have suffered a lot over the years, right? I really want to thank that child for reconciling our mother and daughter who are not frank." ”

"Hmm. Xia Yuxin smiled and nodded, and Dong Yulan immediately said with a fighting spirit: "Then, let's study first, how to catch up with this little male god you like." ”

Xia Yuxin nodded a little urgently, while Dong Yulan thought for a while and said, "This little male god, I feel that he is a more rational type." That said, he doesn't value feelings that much, which is both good news and bad news. ”

"Why?" Xia Yuxin asked puzzled, Dong Yulan said patiently: "You see, he doesn't pay much attention to feelings, that is to say, as long as he has a good impression of you, and then you meet his requirements in all aspects, he will agree to date you." That's the good thing, but the bad news is that it means a lot of other girls should have a chance. ”

"Hmm...... That's right. Xia Yuxin sighed distressedly, "I used to think that I was quite good, worthy of any man." Now that I think about it, I realize that I don't seem to have much other abilities than to look good. Teacher An can at least cook, and I can even cook porridge......"

"It's okay, isn't that kid very good at cooking? Dong Yulan smiled, "But when you have time, you still have to learn a little simple meal, tomato scrambled eggs, egg fried rice or boiled noodles or something like that." After all, no matter how well a man can cook, there is also a time when he wants to eat the food cooked by his beloved woman. ”

"Hmm...... Reasonable. Xia Yuxin pondered for a while and asked, "Then what should I rely on to win?"

"First, of course you have to take the initiative before others. Like I said, a woman must not wait for a man to chase her just because she is beautiful. It's okay to do this if you don't have a liking, but if you have someone you like, you have to take the initiative. Dong Yulan said with a straight head, "As for men, in fact, many times they prefer the feeling of being loved more than loving others. ”

Xia Yuxin nodded, and Dong Yulan continued: "The other point is the sense of superiority. You have to make him feel that he is special to you. For example, you will not do certain things in front of others, but you will do these things in front of them, so that he will feel that he is special to you, will have a sense of superiority, and will naturally be happy. ”

"Oh......" Xia Yuxin suddenly said, Dong Yulan added: "Then, it's time to make good use of your skin." What's wrong with being good-looking? Aren't good-looking and smart both the same innate advantage? Dress yourself up well, give him a little benefit once in a while, but don't let him succeed easily. The feeling of holding the pipa and half-covering his face is the favorite of men. ”

"Is there anything else?" Xia Yuxin asked like a positive student, Dong Yulan thought about it and replied: "In the end, it should be to study his personal interests, and then do what he likes." That kind of rational man generally attaches more importance to this point and thinks that the common topic between two people is very important. If you can talk better, he will like you more. ”

Here, the mother and daughter are studying how to chase the boy, while the person who is about to be chased here is walking on the street for unknown reasons, preparing to take a taxi home. However, Qin Yi's plan today is not over yet, Xia Yuxin's matter is over sooner than expected, Qin Yi thought that they would have a meal together and go out on a date or something after this, but they didn't expect it......

And now it was only two or three o'clock in the afternoon, and Qin Yi thought about planning to call Tang Xueying out, on the one hand, to continue to teach her women's self-defense, and on the other hand, to discuss the matter of travel experience teachers with her.

He wasn't sure if Tang Xueying would have the intention, after all, when hobbies turn into work, it's not so happy. On the one hand, although it is true that they can spend other people's money to travel, on the other hand, they are not free to go to their favorite places, but have to avoid the popular route and develop another tourist route.

However, just when Qin Yi was about to contact Tang Xueying, another person contacted him.

"Hello, I'm lawyer An's colleague Min Yuehua, I've met in the firm before, I want to ask you out to meet, have a meal and chat, I don't know if you're free?" The message was sent by text message, Qin Yi looked at the content and recalled, only then did he remember that Min Yuehua was the woman in the law firm that he commented as "extremely narcissistic".

Qin Yi estimated that the other party should want to talk to him about her "unique" personality, and it just so happened that Qin Yi was also free now, so he replied on his mobile phone: "Well, I just happened to be free, you can make an appointment." ”