The failure of this blind date made Qin Yi feel very bad, not because of the failure, but because of the other party's attitude, obviously he still wanted to go on a blind date with his ex-boyfriend, although it is said that the best way to treat a relationship is to start another relationship, but the nature of this girl is different, her purpose is not to treat but to vent her anger, and he is innocent.

And the most troublesome part is that Qin Yi still has to explain to his parents. For the older generation, the literary argument that they are not ready to start the next relationship does not work, and Qin Yi will definitely be taught a lesson by his parents.

However, despite this, Qin Yi still rushed to the Western restaurant that Xia Yuxin said on time to meet her.

I have to admit that Xia Yuxin is really beautiful enough to dress up a little, she is wearing a white loose dress, and the dress is covered with a small azure suspender to avoid going out, with white sandals and a straw hat, it is full of summer atmosphere, and it is also full of goddess fan, no wonder she is so popular in school, she is indeed more beautiful and temperamental than Li Sisi.

But Qin Yi was very casual here, he only wore a white shirt and jeans.

"Seems a little frustrated?" Xia Yuxin asked curiously, carrying her satchel.

"Ah, I'm sorry, I happened to have a failed blind date before I came to meet you. Qin Yi said a little helplessly.

"If you wear this, failure is inevitable. The corners of Xia Yuxin's mouth rose slightly, which is relatively rare.

Xia Yuxin belongs to the kind of person whose feelings are not easy to reflect on his face, it is not so easy to observe the mind of this kind of person, the only thing Qin Yi knows about the other party is that Xia Yuxin is more interested in work, that is, education, and has no interest in most other things, including love.

"Personally, I don't think it's my reason. Qin Yi smiled bitterly and said, "But it's still going to be troublesome......

"It's hard to explain to the family, right?" Xia Yuxin held her chin and smiled slightly, "I know, I'm twenty-six years old this year, and my family has been urging me to get married, and I've failed on a blind date several times, so I know your feelings very well." ”

"It's all people of that era," Qin Yi sighed, "When I was in school, I told you to study hard and not fall in love, and when you want to fall in love, you find that you have no experience at all to distinguish the advantages and disadvantages of your spouse and no favorite object, and you don't have time to accumulate enough emotional foundation, so it is inevitable that you will develop to this point." That's why I said......"

Xia Yuxin smiled and said, "It's important for young people's education, right?"

"It seems that I have reached a consensus with Mr. Xia on this point. Qin Yi smiled.

"Yes, I know very well that as long as they don't do anything too much, I won't deliberately break them up. Xia Yuxin held her chin and smiled, she really smiled, and the guests at the surrounding tables were dumbfounded. After a pause, she added, "But I still don't recommend students to fall in love or have a relationship. ”

"I know," Qin Yi smiled and continued, "I remember that Teacher Xia is leading the graduating class, right?"

"Yes," Xia Yuxin nodded, her expression became serious, "I came here a few years before you, I have been teaching here since the university internship period, and it has been four years now." Now this graduating class is a class I have been taking since the beginning of high school, and although I am not a class teacher, I will not care less about the students than he does. ”

Qin Yi held his chin and pondered for a moment, and asked, "It's a lot of pressure to lead a graduating class, right? Facing the college entrance examination, both students and teachers will have a heavy psychological burden. After a long period of classes and the results of mock exams that need to be faced constantly, it is easy to have problems if you do not vent the accumulated psychological pressure inappropriately, and it is not good if your mental state collapses at this time. ”

"Alas, that's right. Xia Yuxin sighed and said distressedly, "The students' disobedience to the teacher's words is getting more and more serious, and once even my class representative actually took the lead in raising the bar with me in my class." ”

"This is normal, although in the eyes of Huaxia's parents, this is just a manifestation of psychological fragility, after all, there are too many people in this country, and the survival of the fittest and the elimination of the weak is the king. Qin Yi said, raising his index finger, "Teacher Xia, what do you think of this? I will teach you how to help students relieve psychological pressure, and you will teach me how to become a better teacher." ”

"Hmm......" Xia Yuxin squinted her eyes at Qin Yi and smiled, "Sounds good." ”

As she spoke, she stretched out her little hand to Qin Yi, who shook hands with her, trying not to pay attention to the small and soft hand, and continued to ask, "Teacher Xia teaches English, right? ”

"Oh, don't you know? Girls of this age love to dress up. Xia Yuxin said with a smile while holding a coffee cup, "As long as you teach those little girls how to dress up and how to deal with those men they don't like, they will soon have a good relationship." And the boys ...... You see, the difference between boys and girls is that they have no resistance to the beautiful opposite sex. ”

"I see...... Qin Yi held his chin and muttered for a while, and then asked, "What about the lectures? How does Teacher Xia make students interested in his courses? To be honest, my class doesn't talk about students, I feel very boring, how can I attract students' interest......

"Well...... Xia Yuxin thought for a moment and replied, "My approach is to introduce my own past examples into the lesson. For example, when I was in college, I communicated with many foreign students, and I would use examples to show them how to use certain grammar or voice. Don't let them feel like the curriculum is just a lesson, tied to reality. ”

Qin Yi suddenly fell into deep thought, and Xia Yuxin asked curiously: "What did Teacher Qin do abroad before? If you only came back this year, you should have worked abroad for a few years, right?"

"This ......" Qin Yi seemed a little hesitant, but he felt that Xia Yuxin should be able to be trusted, so he replied: "I won't hide it from you, in fact, I used to help the judiciary do some psychological counseling work abroad, such as profiling and the like." So most of the cases I come into contact with are homicides and kidnappings, and I'm afraid it's not good to use these as examples......"

"Is that so......" Xia Yuxin also frowned, "It's really ...... to say that."

Saying that, Xia Yuxin continued: "How about substituting other people's cases into it? In short, don't just make students feel that the course is just a course and just the content of the textbook, but let them feel that this knowledge is connected with reality. ”

"Hmm...... I roughly get it. Qin Yi thought for a while and nodded.

"Then, how to relieve the psychological pressure of students?" Xia Yuxin asked instead.

"It's actually quite simple, the most direct way to relieve stress is to have a conversation. Qin Yi said with a smile, "People don't feel unfortunate when they see more unfortunate people, and Teacher Xia can tell students about their troubles." ”

"Shall I tell them?" Xia Yuxin asked puzzledly, Qin Yi nodded, "On the one hand, students with less pressure will not feel stressed after hearing your pressure, and on the other hand, students with more pressure will tell you about their pressure, so as to achieve the purpose of communication." ”

Xia Yuxin nodded suddenly, and Qin Yi continued: "In addition, as far as I know, the class results led by Teacher Xia are still very good, and you can use movies or outdoor teaching as an excuse in class to take students out for a walk. ”

"Hmm......" Xia Yuxin pondered for a moment, and then stretched out her hand to Qin Yi with a smile: "It's a pleasure to cooperate with you, and we will also communicate together in the future on how to become a better teacher." ”