"Little junior sister, it's been a long time since we've been together, how about we go to 'Remembering Time' for a cup of coffee?" Yao Hongwei said about the coffee house that the two of them went to together. Fastest updates

"No, you forgot, I'm in the coffee business myself! If people see it, isn't this smashing my own brand?" Gu Fanxin finished speaking frankly and straightforwardly, and was about to turn around.

"Wait. ”

Yao Hongwei subconsciously stopped people but didn't know what to say, although he was disappointed by being rejected, he also felt that his vision was really good, and he should be such a frank and straightforward person.

"I'll send you there. He opened the car door and invited.

"Thank you, Senior Brother, don't bother you, besides, Senior Brother has a lot of supporters, it's not good to be seen and misunderstood, and there are friends waiting for me at the school gate. ”

Gu Fanxin smiled and waved his gloved, furry hand at Yao Hongwei, and trotted away.

Yao Hongwei helplessly watched the girl's back getting farther and farther away. There are always many separations in a person's life.

Either actively, or passively.

Those who take the initiative can't wait to leave to find another world, while those who stay in place passively bear the parting.

To put it more simply, the active person is abandoned, and the passive person is abandoned.

In this relationship, he has always been the passive party. It had always been him who had been forced to stay where he was.

And there's nothing he can do to change these things. Some things, one step late, is the distance to the end of the world.

Gu Fanxin is really busy now.

She didn't care about the sadness of her senior brother, and two days later there was an academic report on chilblain cream, and she was seriously writing a speech.

"Treatment of localized frostbite keeps the frostbite wound clean and dry, and it heals on its own after a few days. After rewarming and disinfection of second-degree frostbite, the wound can be bandaged with soft dry gauze;

If there are large blisters, the fluid in the blisters can be sucked out, bandaged with soft dry gauze, or exposed after applying frostbite cream, and if the wound is infected, antibacterial wet gauze can be used, and then frostbite cream can be used. ”

Although it is said that it is now a big move, it is like what Professor Lin said: if there is a loss, there must be a gain; There is a benefit, there must be a disadvantage; Open the back of the hand, it must be the palm of the hand; Out of the shadows, there must be sunshine.

Professor Lin encouraged her to attend seminars and get in close contact with those veteran experts, which will make us have a higher horizon, broaden our horizons, and make us grow faster.

Life cannot be without ideals, but human beings cannot be demanding to live with an idealistic gaze.

"You must be able to take the things that you can change, let go, get in, come out, think deeply, do well, and live well.

If you can't change yourself, you have to change your attitude, think openly, and let go gently."

In other words, complain less about the environment and change yourself more.

Complaining about the bad environment is often our own bad; Complaining about others being too narrow-minded is often our own lack of open-mindedness;

Complaining that the weather is too bad is often because our resistance is too weak; Complaining about the difficulty of educating students is often due to our own lack of methods.

In life, you must be able to enjoy life, study, and work. We must calm down, set our goals, not be afraid of difficulties, and live optimistically.

We must have a grateful heart, adapt to the social environment with a "enjoy" mentality, have a happy heart, and relax our bodies, so that we can do good deeds and live.

His words are sincere, reasonable, and his simple language is full of insights into life and life, unique and philosophical.