Chapter 131: The Halo Effect
When Diao Yishan heard her cousin say about the dinner, the whole person was not good, Chen Zier drove her away without saying a word, and the insult is still vivid in her mind, why do you still have to go to dinner with a smiling face now?
"I don't care if you go and laugh, but I can't do it. Diao Yishan shook her head and said.
Diao Yijie knew that this would be the result, and he said earnestly: "Yishan, you should also grow up." Didn't people just reject you, your brother and I don't know how many times I have been rejected by many people over the years, so according to your way of life, should I chop them up?"
Diao Yishan said: "What does this have to do with whether or not I grow up?
Diao Yijie doesn't read as much as his sister, but if you want to talk about how many blows she has experienced in life, then his sister is completely inadequate.
He said: "You are really right, if you let go of this grudge that is not a grudge, I believe that you will grow up a little bit." ”
Diao Yishan sneered, "What kind of truth are you?"
"I have the truth of hardship, it is good for people to be proud, but if no one says 'no' to a person, he will never grow up. ”
Diao Yishan's heart shook.
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Chen Zier and Cai Zhaoxi were also chatting about Diao Yijie.
Facing one of his most trusted people, Chen Zier said that he had been worried for many days, "I have a cousin who graduated from high school this year, and there is no hope for him to be admitted to university, he doesn't know anything, I originally wanted to support him to make a small decoration company." ”
Speaking of this, Cai Zhaoxi also understood, "That's why Mr. Chen is unwilling to sign a contract with Diao Yijie?"
Chen Zier nodded, "But after I went to meet Diao Yijie with you, I felt that he was good, but I had another thought, my brother has no experience, and it is not so easy to think about the company well......"
Cai Zhaoxi understood it at all, "Does Chen always want to co-found a decoration company with Diao Yijie?"
Chen Zier nodded, "He has experience and a team in his hands, but I don't know him well, and I don't know if this person can be trusted." Zisheng has just entered the society, if he has the intention to deceive, it will not be a difficult thing. What do you know about this Diao Yijie?"
When it comes to real money business, it is not the kind of bosom friend of a dead friend, Cai Zhaoxi didn't dare to say it all, but just said according to his past impression: "I don't have a deep relationship with him, but I have never heard of any problems with his morality, just a self-made person, and it must be a bit tricky and slippery to work alone in this society." ”
Chen Zier also agrees, but then again, there is no capable person, what are you doing with him?
For example, Sun Hong.
"That's it, I'll still excuse myself tonight, you can help me pay more attention afterwards, and you can also raise this idea with him when I meet him in private, see how he reacts, and then we will make a decision, anyway, there is no need to rush this matter." Chen Zier finally decided.
Cai Zhaoxi nodded.
At seven o'clock in the evening, Chen Zier and Cai Zhaoxi came to the hotel on time, and the Diao brothers and sisters were already waiting when they arrived.
Seeing Diao Yishan again after a few months, Chen Zier had long since lost the 'unhappiness' he felt when he interviewed her, and it was not a deep hatred, he didn't put it in his heart for two minutes and threw it away.
Maybe it's because of the lack of clothes to wear in summer, Chen Zier feels ...... Why is the scale of her there a little bigger......
"Mr. Chen, Manager Cai, welcome. Diao Yijie took the initiative to step forward and shake hands.
Chen Zier also smiled, "Mr. Diao is polite." ”
"Miss Diao, hello. ”
Chen Zier saw that she was smiling as usual, and he didn't hold a grudge against rejecting her without saying a word, and also stretched out his hand very politely and said, "Mr. Chen, welcome." ”
Originally, I heard Cai Zhaoxi say that this woman was very proud, and she looked much more generous at this time, but he couldn't see it himself, and he was still thinking about the embarrassment of the two of them.
Chen Zier's impression of her has changed, but he doesn't know how much thought and tongue Diao Yijie has spent to persuade this sister.
The four of them entered the table, eating and drinking were secondary, Diao Yijie still wanted to sign a contract with Pudding, which was his main purpose.
Chen Zier is not a stupid person, how can he not know, but he still has to refuse, at least tonight.
So in order to avoid the 'unkindness' that he refused after all kinds of toasts and good words, Chen Zier spoke first: "Mr. Diao has a good sister who is sensible. I'm not as lucky as you, and my cousin at home is not angry. ”
Diao Yijie asked, "What's the matter?"
Chen Zier said: "He won't do anything serious except for eating and picking up girls, and Pudding now has a professional manager who doesn't rub sand in his eyes, I just want to be nepotistic and have no space, just Mr. Shi wants to outsource some business, and I've been having a headache these days." ”
Outsourcing?
Diao Yijie is the same, Chen Zier must have a purpose for mentioning such a cousin so 'deliberately'. He sighed in his heart, feeling that this matter was afraid of being yellow, if there were any other competitors, he was not afraid, but this family, how can you fight?
However, what impressed Chen Zier was that Diao Yijie was not immediately cold, but still as enthusiastic as just now, and did not seem to be dissatisfied with the failure of this business.
Or that people are good at hiding.
He said: "Tonight I am here to thank Mr. Chen for buying the four properties of Getai Jiayuan, which is already the greatest support for me. ”
Chen Zier laughed from the bottom of his heart, this old man is really interesting.
Diao Yishan also took the initiative to pick up the wine glass, "Mr. Chen, I would like to toast you on behalf of my brother." ”
Cai Zhaoxi was surprised next to her, why did this proud little girl behave so maturely tonight?
He was a little curious, and then said to Diao Yijie: "Mr. Diao, I respect you." ”
On the wine table, seeing her like this, Chen Zier also made a sincere expression, "Last time, we made a hasty decision. ”
Diao Yishan was very happy when she heard this, and she dreamed about Chen Zier saying such things in her dreams for the past few days.
But he still said: "I won't mention the past, I also want to thank Mr. Chen for letting me grow up a little." ”
"Oh?" Chen Zier wondered.
Diao Yishan leaned over and whispered: "What my brother said, someone said no to me, and I will grow up slowly." ”
Chen Zier admired, Diao Yijie didn't have much knowledge, but he really had wisdom.
Looking at it now, this Diao Yishan doesn't seem to be bad, but just has a bit of arrogance as a senior intellectual.
Chen Zier put down his wine glass and thought for a while and said, "Miss Diao, have you heard of the halo effect?"
Diao Yishan was confused, "What effect?"
Cai Zhaoxi is well-informed and explained: "The halo effect, the dizziness of dizziness, the wheel of the wheel, I seem to have seen it somewhere, it should be a psychological term." ”
Diao Yishan understood this time, as for Diao Yijie...... He only cares about eating.
Chen Zier said: "Zhaoxi is right, this is a psychological phenomenon, the so-called halo effect is a kind of subjective speculation with partial generalization, which is very common in interpersonal relationships, a bit of a blind man touching the elephant, that is, everyone often only understands the part when they understand other people, and then they get the overall impression." ”
"For example, what we often say is that 'one white covers a hundred ugliness' is a halo effect. In fact, white is not necessarily good-looking, but we have this experience of 'white will be more beautiful'. So if you cover your eyes and just tell you that a girl is white, most people will form a relatively beautiful image in their minds, and if you tell you that a girl is a little dark, then most people will form a relatively ugly image. ”
"But in fact, there are white and ugly people, I originally had some misunderstandings about Miss Diao, and I also had the halo effect. ”
Diao Yishan sneered at the 'white ugly white ugly' and said, "It's okay, I used to have some misunderstandings about Mr. Chen, but now I find that you are still a very interesting person." ”
The misunderstanding on both sides is almost resolved, and the atmosphere seems to have become relaxed.
Chen Zier was happy to turn enemies into friends, and his playfulness also started, saying: "When it comes to the halo effect, I think of a story again. ”
Diao Yishan said: "Let's hear it. ”
Chen Zier said: "There is a famous Russian writer named Pushkin, who is the one who wrote "If Life Deceives You".
In 1830, when Pushkin was 31 years old, his reputation as a writer and poet was on the rise, and there was a girl named Nadalya Goncharova, who was called the first beauty in Moscow. 18-year-old Nadalya is like a newly blooming rose, the fragrance is attractive, the so-called hero is sad to pass the beauty pass, Pushkin is madly in love with her.
In 1828 Pushkin's first marriage proposal was unsuccessful, but he did not want to give up, so he proposed a second time in 1830, and this time he succeeded and finally realized his dream.
But the life of the two was not happy after marriage, and Nadalya, although she was stunningly beautiful, was not compatible with Pushkin. Pushkin was a poet, and when he wrote good poems, he naturally wanted to read them to his charming wife, but Nadalya always covered her ears and said: "Don't listen, don't listen." ”
On the contrary, Nadalya liked all kinds of lavish parties, balls, and amusement all day long, for which Pushkin left his creations and went into debt. The problem was that his wife was a little frivolous in her words and deeds, and sure enough, in 1837 she caused trouble for Pushkin, who was the head of the gendarmerie at the time, Dantes, who was frantically courting Pushkin's wife. ”
Pushkin naturally had the pride of being a successful man, so he and Dantes met for a duel.
A gendarmerie captain and a civilian duel, what do you need to say about the result?
Pushkin was seriously wounded in the duel and died on January 29, 1837, at the age of 38.
A generation of writers has just gone.
"Just dead?" Diao Yishan was a little shocked.
Cai Zhaoxi also didn't expect it, "In our culture, there is a saying that death is heavier than Mount Tai, and Pushkin is also a masterpiece of the world, this ...... of death."
Chen Zier also felt the same way, "It's too hasty to die." ”
"It's not worth it. Diao Yishan said regretfully.
Chen Zier said: "This is actually a kind of halo effect, Pushkin is a poet, seeing that Nadalia is beautiful and moving, with the poet's kind of emotional explosion, you think about it, then in his opinion, such a woman must also have extraordinary wisdom and noble character." But unfortunately this is not the case. ”
Diao Yishan's eyes are shining, she seems to have a bit of a halo effect, seeing Chen Zier talking so eloquently, everything Pushkin is at her fingertips, how do you feel that she didn't know enough about him before?