Chapter 270: The suggestion is mine, the key is you
Shi's mother said: "I do have but. If you're going to fight for someone, I'm for you, but I want you to let go of your fiery feelings and think rationally.
She snapped her fingers and said a little bit: "You studied at Zhonghai University with a bachelor's degree, graduated from Xiangjiang University of Science and Technology with a master's degree, can speak fluent English and French, and are one of the few outstanding women under the age of 30. ”
"After talking about myself, let's talk about the family, your father works in the central ministries and commissions, and he is also a deputy director, taking a step back, at least a civil servant, your mother is a former ambassador to foreign countries, not a feudal official, but I have also represented the country abroad, and I won't talk about other relatives and friends. ”
"I'm not saying anything about a dog's eye looking down on people, but what does he have? The bachelor's degree is the same as yours, he is now a company, and he doesn't want to study for a master's degree, right? Is this education a level lower than you? Yes, academic qualifications don't mean everything, and Bill Gates didn't graduate from university, but what can he do in a company that has just been born for less than three years? Is this worth putting down your pride and striving for?"
Shi Yangqing was a little annoyed when he heard this, "Mom, don't say it again." ”
"If you weren't my daughter, would you be willing to say it?" Mother Shi ignored her obstruction at all, "After talking about him, how can he compare him to us and his parents, what does his father do? What the hell does he do? Do you know all this?"
"I don't mean to be bigger than anyone who has more money, I'm talking about the right question. Mom is not such a snob, saying that there is no love without money, Mom just wants you to understand that the environment in which you and him grew up and lived in is different, our family is not the same as theirs, Yanjing is even more different from that small county, and your values will definitely be different, so how can there be a common topic? Yes, you like him with a hot brain now, but you can't live by having a hot head. ”
Shi Yangqing took a deep breath, she also knew that what her mother said had some truth, but have you ever heard of it, the truth in the relationship is easy to understand, but difficult to do?
"What to say is not a dog's eye to look down on people. Shi Yangqing clasped his fingers and muttered: "But in the end, it's not a matter of origin, wealth and social status......
Tang Xiaorong didn't deny it, but just asked her: "You're 29 years old, do you think what I said is not a problem?"
"Of course, it's up to you, if you really think it's worth it, then I support you to fight for yourself, he's not married, just a girlfriend, let's just squeeze it away, football and goalkeepers, you can't still kick in, your father also had his first love back then, and I didn't take it down? My Tang Xiaorong's daughter is no worse than anyone, maybe your father and I can report to my granddaughter in the coming year, and forget it." ”
"But the matter of feelings, I would rather lack than abuse, I hope you will calm down and think about it while you are impulsive, do you think he is really worthy of you?"
Shi Yangqing smiled miserably, "Mom, you still say that we don't pretend to be sentimental, maybe people haven't considered us, but you are still discussing whether he deserves to be on my ......"
Tang Xiaorong said: "What kind of self-inflicted sentimentality is this, you are now in love, I am helping you clarify the situation, whether you should have the courage to fight or judge rationally." ”
Shi Yangqing sighed, "I want to know, I won't be so annoying." ”
"So, you don't know, I'm here to help you, or I'm your mother?"
"Mom, are you...... Don't you like him?"
Tang Xiaorong said: "He made my daughter sad, of course I don't like it, but it doesn't matter if I like it or not, it's you who is looking for a partner, not me looking for a partner." ”
"Originally, you are relatively inexperienced in this aspect of feelings, I was worried that you would be led by the nose, and now according to what you said, he did not take advantage of your feelings, which means that he is at least not too bad. So if you feel that you are willing to live with him in your heart, you can fight for it, don't care about any girlfriend, I can annoy Xiaoqin Lao to mention his girlfriend, boys are good enough to attract women, just grab it. ”
"But if you hesitate in your heart, Yangqing, you are 29 years old, and you can't afford it. My advice to you is to find another family, he is not worthy of you, don't be in a hurry to refute me, I don't want to control you, I tell you the truth that I am not a god, maybe you can grow old together, so it is still up to you, you decide for yourself. ”
"Tsk, Mom, don't keep mentioning anything about 29 or 29, my heart will sink when you say it again. Shi Yangqing complained about her mother, and said: "If you want to say that your heart is really big, then I want to be really... If you really let it go, you just talk and really support me? You don't like those seven aunts and eight aunts in our family, who stop me alive or dead?"
"Of course I, Tang Xiaorong, mean what I say!" Shi's mother straightened her back and said with certainty: "I'll give you the advice I should give as a mother, you are a 29-year-old person, financially independent, independent personality, and independent in thought, if you let me help you make decisions, I won't say anything good about you." I can breathe now to make decisions for you, but I can't breathe anymore, and you won't have to live a messy life?"
"Mom, if you say 29 again, I'm in a hurry with you!"
"Okay, okay, let's not talk about it. Mother Shi touched her daughter's head, "Okay, I haven't seen you for a few months, so I won't talk so much today, let's eat, oh, your scrambled eggs with tomatoes are so salty......"
Where is Shi Yangqing in the mood to taste the taste of scrambled eggs with tomatoes, she is in a mess now, on the one hand, she feels that what her mother said seems to have some truth, and on the other hand, she feels that Sheng Qianyu doesn't seem to be a problem.
Zhang Qin, who was listening quietly in the room by the door, also tiptoed out after the hustle and bustle settled, originally saying that he was full, but when he got to the table, he picked up the chopsticks without saying a word.
Shi Yangqing didn't talk about her anymore, she was probably hungry, and she was embarrassed to be able to put down the chopsticks just now, but reminded her: "I'm a little salty, don't be so anxious, drink some water and eat again." ”
When it was over, she asked the people around her again, "Mom, how many days have you been here this time?"
Shi's mother said: "I can't stay for a few days, there is a meeting to attend the day after tomorrow, so I can only sleep here for one night, and I will leave Zhonghai on the flight tomorrow evening." ”
Tang Xiaorong herself was also thinking about it, "Yang Qing, I'm usually busy, and I often can't care about you, so it's even more difficult to come to Zhonghai, and after all these years, my mother hasn't heard of who you like, I have time tomorrow morning, how about you let me meet this Xiao Chen?"
Shi Yangqing choked on a mouthful of food: What?
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